How many times have you been cheated on?

@rhan04 (309)
Philippines
October 26, 2009 4:39am CST
So I've been in a relationship for four times already...five including the present. And guess what, every one of them cheated on me (Except for the present which is why I just love him to bits)! The first and second one, I found out about it years after our breaking up. It didn't affect me but my pride was a bit hurt though --.') The third one, it was just online and it only lasted for a month because he admitted that he was having an affair with someone else after three 3 weeks of being together. And the last one, he also admitted it to me which is the cause of our break up. I was about to lose hope until I met with my present one. And it's funny to think that this time, it was me who cheated...and is more than glad that I was forgiven for it. What about you? How many time have you been cheated on? How did you handle it?
4 responses
@jen20ixm (165)
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
cheating is not the exactly the perfect word for what happened to me recently. its more of he "flirted" to somebody through cellpone (for me, its the same, when you flirt, theres a 90% chances you would end up cheating) im not the kind of girlfriend who whould boss around his boyfriend, i dont do the checking of his gadgets (laptop, cellphones) because i dont have the reason to do so, i trust to act his way and he should know his limitation. i think it was 4 months ago, when i accidentaly open one of his messages and found out it was a girl filrting back in his previous sent messages (on which i checked because i felt betrayed) but he explained to me that the girl is someone very close to him before and they got intouch lately and he was very sorry for flirting and sais he would never do that again.
@jen20ixm (165)
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
im sorry i didnt exactly answer your question. no i havent been cheated on and hoping i would not experience it. goodluck to you!
@Archie0 (4671)
26 Oct 09
all the times. I am not married but co-habiting. Sometimes when memory rewinds. Forgiving and pretty forgetful unless memories kick in. Carry on with life. Still staying with her cos i dun have money to lead alone and all my life is taken by someone....who betrayed our trust.... I can't talk to her much becos outside pple can know what we are talking and teach me lesson like yesterday, the 3 little indians. lol....
@BART78 (2933)
• Canada
26 Oct 09
...never happen to me..i think i'm the one whooo......
@jen20ixm (165)
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
you're bad.. hehehe..
@allen0187 (28149)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
never cheated on but always cheated. lol!!!! seriously, i think the only time that a girlfriend cheated on me, i cheated back. sounds mean but that's the ruel of the jungle. eat or be eaten?!!! i'd rather eat someone up than be fodder for someone else. just my thoughts. cheers!!!
• India
29 Oct 09
I'm unlucky person to love relation. my luck is not favoring me to have a innocent girl friend. I'm used to be cheated all of by them some time. that why i hate love and girl now and don't like to have a girl as a girl friend. now i love only play physically. i really no need love anymore. girls are always associated with cheating carector, nature.