what do you feel when you KISS someone that you dont LOVE?

kissing you dont know - kissing someone
@amyson (3509)
Philippines
October 26, 2009 11:26pm CST
kissing have a lot of meaning,but kissing someone that you dont love make you feel guilty?i watch some of the movies that they kiss someone not their girlfriend is just alright do they feel guilty of kissing someone that they dont love.exception to our parents,kids and close friend.have you ever tried kiss someone just for fun and dare?
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29 responses
• United States
27 Oct 09
just the other day i had a quite extensive make-out session with the friend of the woman i love, me and the woman i love have had issues lately and her friend likes me so i figured wth but i started feeling super guilty and i still do i keep worrying about what would happen if she found out smh
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
wow how will you handle that lol?but whos the one you love most?that is the hard thing to do.but gudluck.
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@sameroad (3180)
• United States
27 Oct 09
I have kissed people for fun and pleasure that i didn't love but did like them. i don't feel guilty when i kiss someone i don't love.. i don't kiss other people when i have a girlfriend. i only kiss her and love it...but kissing can be fun and it doesn't always have to have love behind it.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
well your right some people were just to be open on that matter.they your one of them,so gudluck then..
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• India
27 Oct 09
Huuummmm lets see...kissing someone you dont love..? I love kissing no matter who ever the girl is....AAAAAAAAOOOOOOOuuuuuuuu(that was a dogs scream)..Ha Ha just kidding....I have never kissed a girl before..so, on technical terms..I lack experiance..so no comments. I know im getting older and older.... it is just lack of oppurtunity Ha Ha kidding again.. But one thing...i will surely read the responces you get here...knowledge is wealth Ha Ha :) Take Care Amyson
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
hi sonuherenz, good day..ha ha ha i dont believe you dont have kiss any girl?but your looking great lol.it happen to me twice i kissed someone that i didnt love i think it just because of curiosity and trying something makes me interesting.
• India
28 Oct 09
:) Hey dont laugh...i said lack of opportunity.... :) Im feeling ashamed...God are you watching !!! Where is my opportunity ??? Take Care
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
hi sonuherenz, i am not laughing you,you know your my close friend here,i think lacking of opportunity is not the problem you need to go out and find that special person and you will see.have a nice day..
@dpk262006 (56566)
• Delhi, India
27 Oct 09
Hi dear! I think kissing someone is a kind of non-verbal and silent message to her that you love her/him. It may be your partner, friend or a child. We just don’t show our love and affection to unknown persons. At least, I do not feel like showing my love to a unknown woman and I do not think about kissing her.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
yes it is exemption to what i was mention in my discussion.kissing someone beside your partner,parents,friends is a little bit differences.somehow kissing link to fun and a like example of curiosity doing for the first time but technically you didnt love the person.
@dpk262006 (56566)
• Delhi, India
27 Oct 09
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
lol..that makes me exciting..
@robert19ph (4584)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
hello amyson, in my own opinion, i think i will not kiss anyone if i don't love her. and i will not do that for fun. it's so unfair to her and don't want to hurt her for that matter.
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
tha is gentle saying lol,i respect what you say and its right.
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• Philippines
28 Oct 09
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@izathewzia (5142)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
On the first place, I will not kiss someone I don't know, did not love, or have no affection with. There is really no feeling at all. Because I will not kiss on the first place.
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
well yes your have good opinion.kissing have to be affectionate and it has to be love.
• China
28 Oct 09
i think it would be something disgusting.kiss should with love....
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
yes indeed..i feel uncomfortable kissing someone i didnt know much.
@Hatley (164465)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Oct 09
hi amyson I have seldom kissed anyone that I didnt love in some way, friend or kin. I do not like to just kiss to be kissing, to me it has to mean something. My family, my husband, 'my best friends, not anyone else they can do with a handshake or a hug.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
hug and hand shake will do,kissing is something connection to lovers.
• China
28 Oct 09
kissing is very important to me.no body has occupied my first kiss so far.so i am not able to give you any feeling goten from my experiences.but in my opinion,kissing someone you dont love may make me feel guilty.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
same here lol,i feel guilty too and very uncomfortable to proceed to kiss someone i dont love.
• China
28 Oct 09
kiss and nothing,there is nothing between them.I mean disgusting kiss a girl who you don't fallen into.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
well yes but kissing to someone you love makes a thing called LOVE.
• Australia
27 Oct 09
Well now, there is a kiss and then there is a kiss. If you are talking about a kiss as depicted in the pic attached to your discussion, then I believe this type of kiss is meant ONLY for a couple once they are committed to each for life. Outside of that union, it is wrong. If you are talking about a casual kiss - a peck on the cheek - this has become an acceptable form of greeting in most western countries. I am a woman and I greet my female friends with a hug and sometimes a fleeting peck on the cheek. I resist greeting men the same way. There are exceptions with good friends, but these are always very brief and have no effect, other than a warm "hello" My kisses - and the feelings that accompany them - are reserved for my husband to whom I have been happily married for almost 50 years.
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
well yes your right,there are kisses that are casual then also kissing that are intimate so the one in the picture is intimate one.but some other find it just for playing and assuming that they love the girl just to show it to the public but he just pretended to that way.
27 Oct 09
i think it could be quite fun to kiss someone i dont love
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
well to some people they find it fun and just give it try to some people it was wrong.
27 Oct 09
I thinks kissing someone who I dont love, dont have any sense... I dont like that... I mean I dont feel anything about doing that.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
same here lol,well to some people they dare and they look at it as enjoying.
• United States
27 Oct 09
Warmth, I feel happy, I feel like it's right, when I kiss the man that I love, it feels right.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
yes rogue kissing the right person that you love is the most happier moments for both couple.
@spuliven (68)
• India
27 Oct 09
Kiss is the symbol of expression to show love with other person. If the person is someone that we dont love, the there is no chance of love right.. In movies is different than our regular life.. The kiss with love is commercial as movies.. so there no point of love..
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
yes your right it is a simple of love and affection to the person you love.
@gogos11 (67)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
27 Oct 09
kissing somebody that you dont love......its OK, its making pleasure allmost like kissing when you love somebody...thats my opinion, and my aditude, ibut i dont say that is it so, thats only my opinion...
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
well it is pleasurable to kiss someone that you love of course.
@cynthiann (18619)
• Jamaica
27 Oct 09
I do not know why anyone would want to kiss someone that they do not love. No, I have never kissed anyone that I did not love. I would have found that so distasteful
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
same here,well some people do that for fun but still inst right.
@SACHIN2708 (1638)
• India
27 Oct 09
i love to kiss on lips weather he is my known person or weather is stranger for me,i always enjoy to kiss on lips deeply.i like pink lips and juicy lips and i love to kiss boys also
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
hi sachin2708, that so hot of you,wowso whether love attachment is just fine with you?wow..
• United States
27 Oct 09
I've kissed people I don't love a couple of times. It's not something I do often, but when I have done it feels awkward. I know that the person is not the person I'm supposed to be with. I've never felt guilty over it because it's never been in the context of "cheating." It's more like I wish the person were someone else, I wish they were someone I do love.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
hi trilliansramblings wow too long name,but thanks for answering my question,yes some people want to feel what is kiss all about although they just wanna feel it and some due to curiosity they dare and just for fun but no affection attachment.
@Buchi_bulla (8299)
• India
27 Oct 09
Hai Amyson, you have changed your avatar is it? nice it is. Well, in India kissing is not done in public. Now-a-days they are showing kissing scenes freely in movies but it is a recent trend only. So I have never kissed any unknown person. But I personally feel kissing is a personal thing and kissing a stranger is not a comfortable one.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
hi buchi, yes i change it because it is halloween to feel it the season..thanks.yes i know that kissing is something to be hide in public but to some other countries kissing someone in public is just fine.stranger is definitely wrong to kiss and a little bit uncomfortable one.