10 seconds to go...... what will you do?

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
October 28, 2009 5:38am CST
You find your best friend ready to leap off the 15th floor of your office building. 10 seconds and he'll jump, what will you tell him to keep him from doing so? If he is a guy, I'd probably say "I love you" to shock the living daylights out of him and stop him from jumping (hopefully). I'd probably say the same if it was girl. Just to make them curious or confused to be able to stop them. What about you?
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32 responses
@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
28 Oct 09
"Hey, dude ! Not before me, please ! .. Ok, together .. let me come near you, we will jump together, at my mark, ok ?" Once I'm near him, push him back and ask for a 24 hours delay, first we have to enjoy a drink ... or "Can I marry your wife ? OK ? Well, come with me, write it down, else no one would belive me you agree .." or (if is a she) "As always, you, women, proved to be selfish and ilogical. Yu now think you do it, but why alone ? And more .. what if you survive and be crippled life time ? Come with me, I'll show you a safer way .."
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
Hahahaha..
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@bvdev234 (304)
• India
28 Oct 09
If some is going to marry his wife, he never ever will jump.!!!
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• Indonesia
28 Oct 09
Marry his wife, hmm you probably the reason he's jumping in the first place.
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@chevill (316)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
i will tell him or her "wait! jesus loves you!
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@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
28 Oct 09
that will definately NOT convince me not to jump ..
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• Canada
29 Oct 09
I'd be jumping even faster if someone said that to me... and for someone that believed strongly in Jesus, they'd feel like once they hit the ground, they'd get to meet Jesus! That sounds like the single worst thing to say to someone when they want to jump off a building.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
Hmmm.. I don't really know what will work and won't but I don't think that would stop me from jumping hehe.. But it sure would make me stop for a second and think if I heart you right. hehehe.. Thanks for the thoughts and comments friends, have a great mylot experience ahead!
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
Can I just go near him and tackle him to the floor so he can't jump? Or maybe I can stay beside him, and tie his waist to mine ( using a rope I happen to be holding that time. hahaha).. and just tell him, well, if you jump then I'm coming with you. heheheh.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
Wow you came in prepared. hehehee...
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
of course. It really pays to be prepared.
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
29 Oct 09
I will say "if you jump, i will jump after you coz i will miss you!!" . . . and if he/she still jumps then! . . . coz i probably would not follow.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Maybe you should just say "I will jump if you'll jump because I can't live without you", "if you give me a chance and feel the same way, don't jump". Hahahaha.. that's me thinking I'm the most beautiful woman in the world that the man would think he'd be lucky. But I guess we'll do just about anything to stop the person from jumping. hehe.. Thanks for the responses friends, Have a great MylOt experience ahead!
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
29 Oct 09
You jump, I jump... like Titanic..
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
29 Oct 09
oh i didn't see that response above me... neways.
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@iceydon (342)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
I'll tell my friend to wait for me I'm going to jump with him. He will have a second thought why will I want to jump too. And from that I think we could start a conversation if he would ask why. With talking at least I can prolong the time with the person. And if my friend finally broke down emotionally I would grab him away from the jumping point. And put him to sleep with a knock out punch. I think he cannot jump anymore.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
I think that's a good idea - about you telling him to wait for you. In doing so, you actually could get nearer to him without him suspecting anything and he would start to wonder what gotten in to you. hehe.. Great idea there. Thanks for the response, have a great mylot experience ahead!
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
29 Oct 09
that seems like a better idea then mine
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@Fireheart (683)
• India
28 Oct 09
well, i really dont care if it was a guy and let him be, if this was a girl i would have a second thought to save her at all cost if she was pretty, prettier they are, more my response in saving the person.just kidding i would say to the person who is trying to jump 10 seconds " you are a loser in life and still afraid to go on,go ahead and die" nothing much. rest is upto the god to save him or leave him to die of his fate. i can say people are different by their character and it depend that what to say to him based upon their actions.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Really?!?! You won't try to save a guy from jumping?! How bout if he's your friend?? Indeed there are advantages of being a pretty girl, but I don't think it should be biased that way. But yeah, both are realistic though. Thanks for the biased response! Have a great Mylot experience ahead!
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• India
29 Oct 09
i guess we men do have a particular attraction to women,really its a nature of unavoidable to fall for pretty girls, any person who is man has has this habit..even when it comes to life.well if it was an old man by response is only 10%,i am sure of it.
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• Indonesia
28 Oct 09
Now this is more realistic, i'd do the same thing if the person is a pretty girl he he he.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
14 Nov 09
I will tell him why he is making a personal decision a public affair.Why is trying to make a big show in which no one is interested.Why can't he go home and shoot or hang himself. He may get infuriated and come after me forgetting to jump.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Wow! That's a nice strategy too. But I don't know about infuriating a person into not jumping. I'm no expert psychiatrist, but I think it might just work. Whew! Have a great MyLot experience ahead! Thanks for the nice response.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
14 Nov 09
Well, I would let them know that I do care about them just as you have said, and hope somehow this will get them to think about what you just said long enough to consider not jumping. Then I would be Praying for God's will in this situation and hope somehow there is some way to stop them from wanting to do something like this to themselves as well.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
I think we're all wanting to stop these people from jumping. But do they really ever listen? I hope we won't be too late though if this should happen. But I'm praying that this sorts of things never happen to anyone. Thanks for the response, have a great mylOt experience ahead!
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
28 Oct 09
Hi dear! Although, it is a hypothetical situation and I do hope that this kind of situation may not arise in my real life nor I would like such incident to happen in my real life. However, on hypothetical note, I would shout at the peak of my voice and would ask my friend (irrespective of his/her gender) not to leap like this and if s/he does not listen, I may add that I am also coming along with you and my sudden confession might stop him/her from doing so.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
29 Oct 09
Thanks for reminding the interesting quote.
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@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
28 Oct 09
Is a proverb I used to hear long a go as a special troops (commando) motto: Hope for the best, espect for the whorst !
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@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
28 Oct 09
I do not know exactly what I might say in such circumstances. But on TV, I often see policeman persuading on the spot. They would agree to help resolve the issues, and remind them of their children, or mother. Something touching the heart might lead him to a second thought before doing the stupid thing.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
So what happened to that situation you saw on television? Were they able to persuade him not to jump? Thanks for the response! Have a great mylOt experience ahead!
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 12
I will tell him/her to come back as I have a secret to tell him/her. He/She must know about it, it is very important, a truth that is far more important beyond the jumping. I hope it works since people love to find our about secrets that involves them, the truth out there is very tempting...
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
25 Aug 12
Yes, people are curious when there are secrets bout themselves. Perhaps that would work, let's hope it would work. :) But what if he comes to you and you don't have a secret to say? Wouldn't it make him angrier? Have a great mylot experience ahead!
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• Boston, Massachusetts
28 Oct 09
This is an awful scene. for the last 10 seconds i will just say if you really want to die-- go ahead, but waiiiiiiiiiiitttttt please tell me how you want me to tell your family, friends and relatives why you did this.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
What if he/she says "It's all in the letter... read it!" hehehee
• Boston, Massachusetts
29 Oct 09
at least he/she pause and listen... a good sign to really stop him/her from jumping over... ... if he/she will tell me that it's all in the letter--this will be my response "ah ok? so, it's all in the letter??? do you want to tell about it? you might forgot something that i can add or tell them... then i will pull him/her and give him/her a tight hug!
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• United States
11 Nov 09
Honestly, I'd probably start bawling my eyes out and telling them how much they mean to me. I would beg, beg, beg them not to go through with this and promising that whatever is happening in their lives that are making them choose to end their lives, I will do everything I can to help. I think it's important to let the ones we love know how much we care about them and not wait until something like this happens to really appreciate them.
• United States
29 Oct 09
Why do you even want to save him/her?If he/she feels their life isn't worth living and want to kill themselves, we don't need those kind of people in society.They need to know bad things happens and to deal with it.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
Well, he's your friend and it's your obligation to make him realize something. And besides, most people jump because they're overstressed and sad. Perhaps if you could help, why not?
@anne25penn (3305)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
I'd ask him to switch places with me. Or tell him that I will jump in after him. Even if he does not jump, I will.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
What?! I'm so confused, you're going to jump instead of him jumping?? or it's just a strategy to have him think of not jumping because you'd follow? I do hope you wouldn't jump even if he jumps! Thanks for the brief response, have a great MylOt experience ahead!
@Christoph56 (1504)
• Canada
29 Oct 09
Why say anything to them? I think the best possible idea would be to grab them, and pull them back inside the building, and hold them down on the floor. The longer you hold them down, the better chance that they won't be killing themselves right then. No single 10 second sentence could truly convince someone not to jump when it's really what they want. You gotta get them past that feeling they're having, to get them better.
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@sumanadep (1228)
• India
30 Oct 09
I am not sure..but will ask him for his last wish...make him talk to me about the reason for doing so and distract from his intention and pull him back.. hopefully this should work...
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
True. I think it's important that we reach out and make the person feel that there's no point of him/her doing such a thing. At least for a brief moment, we could make them feel loved and perhaps that would be hope enough for them to stay. Thanks for the response, have a great Mylot experience ahead!
@regina36 (28)
• United States
29 Oct 09
I would say you know if you jump where your going right. And you won't be going to Heaven for doing it. So think twice before you jump.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Hmmm.. I don't think that will catch his/her attention, but it's worth to try. :) Thanks for the response, have a great mylot experience ahead!
• United States
29 Oct 09
Look here, you selfish git, I don't give a monkeys about you, but if you jump I am going to have to live with having seen it, whether I could have stopped it and frankly a whole load of angst I could do without. Stop it. Now. Ok, so that will take more than ten seconds to say and I'll be like 'oh...hes already gone...oops!' How about 'LOOK! A FLYING BANANA!' Well, it might freak him out long enough to stop, right? On the other hand he might look around for the flying banana, and overbalance and FALL off. That would suck, especially if he'd changed his mind already. Ok, I really shouldn't work as any sort of crisis counsellor.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
Hahahaa.. Flying banana.. hahahhahaa...
• Canada
29 Oct 09
This is quite hard. It also depends on the reason why he's jumping or she.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Let's just say that he has problems that he doesn't want to talk about because you wouldn't understand. Then he says that it's the only means for him to escape his life's woes. What would you tell him? Have a great Mylot experience ahead!