What would you do if an ex of your partner reacts to you here in mylot?

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
October 28, 2009 6:48pm CST
Let's just say you opened a topic like "The most unforgettable love of your life." or some topic that really talk about relationships. Since we're online, we don't really use our real names, thus we have pseudo names. But this one person talks about how he/she misses the most unforgettable love of his/her life (and he/she didn't know you started the topic) and blurts out the full name of your partner and talks about how they spent their time together etc. How would you react? Would you disclose that you're with that person now? or would you just let the response pass?
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15 responses
• United States
29 Oct 09
Hi, Laydee! It has happened, and it gave me the creeps! I no longer go to that site at all.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
Oooohhh... really.. hehehee...
@jugsjugs (12967)
29 Oct 09
To be honest if anything i would think that it was funny,i would not react to this as i think perhaps that is the kind of reaction they were waiting for so i would ignore it.However i would see what all the responses were just for a laugh.
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@Bluepatch (2476)
• Trinidad And Tobago
29 Oct 09
Answer them right back ! And why not ? If they challenge you in a public forum there's absolutely no reason why you can't answer them back just like anyone else. You might not have to use your real identity but do answer. You can make a game out of it by answering and seeing how they respond. It can be fun !
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
Whew, that's a disturbing thing to do in fear that perhaps the game would backfire on you because she's innocently answering your questions and could disclose things that you never knew about your love and perhaps raise some issues between you and your relationship right? Playing with fire.
@margaux08 (1094)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
Hi laydee, I go for the 2nd option. A discussion is open to all. And respect should be applied. Hypothetically, if that happens, I will respect what ever the response was since it was her experience, anyway... Happy Day!
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@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
..well, for me I would just let the response pass.. What is the use of disclosing that you are in a relation ship with her ex..? I think it will just hurt her feelings and it is not very good.. Most especially if she still love your partner.. And if you made a mistake in disclosing your relationship, there is a possibility that you could develop a gap between that person and you.. of course we are online but unexpected things happen sometimes.. What do we know, maybe someday you will meet her accidentally.. Better yet, you help her by giving advice on what she should do to forget the guy.. This way, you are helping the person not hurting her more.. I hope this helps.. happy mylotting..
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@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
hi laydee, I will change my avatar haha! Or I will cover my face on my photo like the ninja emoticon. hehe! Seriously, that is something that I would declare the "weirdest thing" online. Haha. Of all the places..huh?! That's creepy!lol. But as long as shes saying the truth and she really meant what she said about my partner then, that would be fine. And after all, that's her story not mine, so as part of the forum I will express my thoughts about the topic she created. And I think knowing the truth wont hurt, it may hurt us a little but, who took home the bacon anyway?! lol... so I just be as normal as i can be and do the things i do on the forum. Happy mylotting! Nice topic!!
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
Oh, hi there. That's the main reason why I don't put my real picture in my avatar, in fear that one of the ex of my boyfriend is trying to stalk what I do. hehehehe... I don't think it's one of the weirdest thing online though, I mean, your guy loved her and you (on a separate time) which means that both of you have somewhat 'similar' characteristics which is why you and her are his type, so it's not really coincidence, perhaps both of you like going for forums as well, right? hehehe.. Thanks for dropping by.
@msedge (4011)
• United States
29 Oct 09
I would be hypocrite if i would say i won't feel jealous.But being with the person currently would mean forgetting what they had in the past.She might still have feelings for him but the fact that shes with him and not her anymore what she said would be not a big deal.
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
hello there, I believe it's against mylot regulations to exposed such information because am sure it will get deleted, i know i did when i disclose a phone number about an agency this person can get help with. it's best not to exposed some one elses name as it would back fire on you, i know i have exposed some of my nephews here but didn't do it again since they're also online and they might find out some day.lolz. that's why i love this site because your secrecy is also respected despite of some people not agreeing your anonymity or secret identity not revealed.
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@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
Wow that seems to be fun, i will comment again in his post but i wont reveal my identity.
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@ced_cap (207)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
HI laydee, For me i would just let it pass because if i respond to it, it would just create collision. Just let the "ex" have his/her illusion.
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@irene3184 (898)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
I just ignored her because I have the right to post anything here.I will treat her nicely if she treat me nice.I won't bother then if she's messing.
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
29 Oct 09
...if his/her response or story is offensive, i'll be devastated...maybe i'll send email to mylot admi..."this will hit the top", LOL!!
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@solared (1207)
• United States
29 Oct 09
Well other than being intrigued, I would remember what broke us up in the first place. If I approached I would approach with caution.
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• China
29 Oct 09
Have her or him back if you still love each other!cherish the recover.if not,let it pass and enjoy what you already have.The same thing happened to me,my ex-girlfriend run and tell me she still love me,but I can't forget the pain she brought about.
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
29 Oct 09
I have never experienced it. But if I experienced it, then I will give some clue.
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