do you think man and women could be intimate friends ?
By huangdangwu
@huangdangwu (162)
China
October 29, 2009 7:43am CST
hi~ mylotters ~! do you think man and women could be intimate friends . i mean two could be very close and there's no secret between them , but the relationship is not lovers . i've heard about that man and women couldn't be intimate friends . i can't understand at the first , cause at that time i'm just a little boy, but now i'm a college students now , and i have come to understand the saying .cause in unniversity ,i found girls and boys are between to different group .
so , what's your opinion ? my friends ~
2 responses
@karenkarenkk (1121)
• China
30 Oct 09
In my opinion, I think few man and woman could be intimate friends, unless they are growing up when they are still very young.
One of my female colleague have quite close relationship with several of her male friends. His male friend even buy earing for her... But they have their own family. I think this kind of relationship do existed, but rarely.
Have a nice day and happy mylotting.
@huangdangwu (162)
• China
31 Oct 09
hello~ sis , i agree with your opinion ~ but in the case of your friend , don't you think the wife and the husband would misundertand that action ~ hahaha , if i am the husband ,i can hard unstand that , aha ,maybe i am too stingy ~ have a nice day !
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@karenkarenkk (1121)
• China
1 Nov 09
Hi Huangdang, I do agree with you. I would be jealous if my husband has such closed relationship with other women. I really can not image how his wife get to stand this.
@VVroom (255)
• Romania
30 Oct 09
Yes, they can. Both are human beings and as far as I know human beings have the potential of being intimate friends. If the gender is a barrier for one of them, it's only because of how his/her mind is programed. If he/she thinks in terms of man/woman instead of human beings, it will be hard because of the illusion and limitation he/she personally put in his/her mind.
@huangdangwu (162)
• China
31 Oct 09
hi~ my friend , firstly ,thanks for your reply ! and i think what your've said is reasonable ,maybe i've just too sensitive . have a nice day !
