Is it true if we don't hope too much on human, we tend to be stronger?

Indonesia
November 1, 2009 8:45pm CST
My mother always said to me like this, "don't hope too much on human because in the end you will be dissapointed and you neglect your true power inside you. Believe in yourself and take your role as a main character in your life." Actually, I don't really understand what she means but then I realize that if I relly too much on human's help then I will get dissapointed. What do you think?
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@Iriene88 (5352)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
Your mother is absolutely RIGHT! I remembered watching a Chinese movie by Jet Lee. One bad guy said this 'Ren sher kau cher chi' means 'man should rely on himself'! You can't depend on other fully to complete a task. It might dissapoint you. If you do it yourself whole heartedly, the thing will be perfect to your satisfaction. For you will do your best! For myself personally, I will do my level best in the thing that I want to do. Submit it to God for the outcome, as long as we have done our best, the rest lies in hope!
• Indonesia
3 Nov 09
Thank you for your comment.I agree with you.
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@Iriene88 (5352)
• Malaysia
11 Nov 09
Dear Riani, Wow, I am really cheered-up with the 'Best-Response'. It has been a long time since I got one, thanks a lot, truly appreciate it. All the best and take care :)
• China
2 Nov 09
I find your mother"words are full of wisdom!in fact,most people know it's unreliable to depend on others,but they keep doing so and feel dissappointed constantly...Maybe they deem unconsciously dissappointment due to other people is more acceptable than that due to themselves...after all,it is not easy to being a strong man and count on oneself.
• Indonesia
3 Nov 09
Thank you for your comment. I always admire my mother..she is a simple person but her words are remakable. She doesn't have a high education, she even can't write and read but she teaches me about life. I love her so much...