if you don't have a son,would you feel unsatisfied?

@zhouxi (1756)
China
November 3, 2009 7:56pm CST
In some countries in the world,if you don't have a son,you will feel somewhat unsatisfied.i think i like both boy and girl.how about you?what about the culture in you country?
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8 responses
• Philippines
4 Nov 09
I don't have a son, I only have one daughter. I am not asking for one either. I am already contented and thankful that I was given a daughter after four years of trying. my daughter is my bundle of joy and my fulfillment. I feel so complete with her. have a good day. happy mylotting.
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@zhouxi (1756)
• China
4 Nov 09
i also like daughter.thanks.
• China
4 Nov 09
I like both boys and girls.If I have a boy I think my life may be full of challenges because I should teach him a lot and let him konw more of the society.
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• Philippines
4 Nov 09
Admittedly, it is better if we have boys and girls but since that won't be possible for me anymore, then I have to be contented with what I have now, a daughter.
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@maximax8 (29148)
• United Kingdom
5 Nov 09
Most couples in my home country say they want to have a healthy baby. Really they hope to have a boy and a girl so that there family is balanced: mom, dad, boy and girl. I am a primary school teacher. I like both boys and girls. Like everyone else I hoped I would have had a girl first and then a boy. If I had only had one child I would have wanted to have a girl. I wouldn't have feel unsatisfied if I had not had a boy. I am so lucky because I have a teenage son, a toddler son and a baby daughter. I might have felt unsatisfied if I hadn't got my daughter. I am so delighted to at last have a girl and as well as my boys.
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@zhouxi (1756)
• China
5 Nov 09
wow, i somewhat envy you now.hehe!you are so lucky you have three children.both boy and girl!you should very content now.haha!best wishes!
@Maggiepie (7821)
• United States
5 Nov 09
[b]I think a majority of fathers in the US would like to have at least one son, but for most, it's not a "must have" thing. They accept & love daughters, too. I wouldn't care, personally, which I got. It doesn't matter at all to me. Of course, now I'm too old to have any more, anyway. Darn it... Maggiepie IMPEACH HIM.[/b]
@zhouxi (1756)
• China
5 Nov 09
Yes,father usually wish a son to be his best friend and helper.so does my husband. before my son was born,he said it's ok whether boy or girl we would have.after my son borned,he was excited.hehe.i like pretty girl.
@youless (95265)
• Guangzhou, China
4 Nov 09
I don't think so. Actually today the people's concept has changed step by step. Boys and girls are also important. They are equal. We don't mind if we don't have a son. It is also nice to have a daughter. It is the same for us. I love China
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@zhouxi (1756)
• China
4 Nov 09
yes, i also don't mind whether i have a boy or girl.i prefer girl.
• Indonesia
4 Nov 09
Who cares about the gender when you have healthy babies lol. Either gender is fine with me, and I will love my children no matter what. I am grateful for whatever God gives me. I believe He knows what's the best for me. I am now almost 8 months pregnant, and we still do not know what we're having lol. I want it to be a surprise haha. Oh, I have one question for you though. So, you only can have one child in your country, what happens if you have more than one?
@zhouxi (1756)
• China
4 Nov 09
in city.we can have only one child.in countryside ,you can have two if the first is a girl.if you have two in city,may be you have to pay a lot of money and even lose your work.
@yinlong (18)
• China
4 Nov 09
I'm in Chinese people.The same to you I like boy and girl.So I hope have both.Maybe it disturb my job,but I konw my parents and my wife love them ,of cause I love thme yet .
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@zhouxi (1756)
• China
4 Nov 09
i also wish i could have both girl and boy.it's impossible because of our policy.
• Chile
4 Nov 09
well in or country (CHILE) we feel bless if u are having a baby. doesn`t matter if it`s a boy or girl... i have a baby girl, and my brother a boy and a girl
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@zhouxi (1756)
• China
4 Nov 09
yes, most of us think so.
@tbmorris1 (158)
• United States
19 Nov 09
My husband has joked with me that our next child needs to be a son so he can watch out for his big sister! While having one of each would be wonderful, we would love our children no matter what their gender. I'm sure it's nice for those who have one of each to experience the different clothing, toys, and whatnot. Whether it's a boy or girl won't have any bearing on my love for them. :)
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