What would be in your thoughts in a journey… alone?

@Sreekala (34312)
India
November 4, 2009 1:14am CST
Hi friends, Usually I am traveling alone to my office, means I don’t have any friends to accompany me in bus in the morning. Evening may be some friends are there to talk and share jokes etc. There is only 20 minutes travel distance for me to reach my office if there is no traffic blocks. On the way I am thinking about my old friends, childhood, etc sometimes I feel to laugh aloud by remembering some jokes by friends. (I may not laugh and controlled in a smile otherwise my co-passengers think that I am mad). What about you friends, if you are traveling alone then what would be in your minds? Do you think about your olden days or just watch outside and enjoy the beauty of nature?
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@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
5 Nov 09
hello sreekala! when i am traveling alone, the usual things that comes to my mind are the things that i will be doing on the place where i am going...hehe when i was still working, i have almost an hour travel from home to office and during that time, its either i am sleeping or just thinking on what to do in the office and how will be my day will turn to... but there are also times that i don't think such things, but instead, i am reminiscing some happy memories in the past or just recent things that happens to me and those thoughts can really makes me smile alone! and sometimes, i just enjoy the scenery outside and not thinking anything...just relaxing my mind... so everything depends on my mood in a particular day! happy posting!
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
21 Nov 09
Hi ckyera, One hour journey is enough to have a nice nap. Recollecting the old memories may give smiles to our face. I don’t think about my work in travel and enjoying my thoughts. Have a great weekend, enjoy it.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
21 Nov 09
hello sreekala... well, sometimes, i don't want to think about work while traveling but, sometimes i just can't avoid it...hehe specially when its monday! hehe oh i forget, sometimes, while on travel, i also spend all my time talking to anybody beside me...haha as long as they are also interested in talking to me...huh! by the way, thanks for the friend's invite...
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@shibham (16977)
• India
21 Nov 09
Hi ckyera, if u come to know that the person beside is shibham, then what would be your reaction? Hehehe
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Nov 09
Hi Sree! I normally drive my bike to reach my office and many a times my better half gives me company. Driving has become a ritual and a sub-conscious activity and we travel by the same roads everyday. I mean driving goes on automatically, and when it is heavy traffic, I slow down, as per the requirements and when there is any empty road, I usually (automatically) accelerate my speed. Nonetheless, thoughts about past happenings, recent happenings, mylot friends, mylot discussions and about daily pending chores keep traveling in mind. I cannot stop flow of thoughts……LOL! Many years ago, I used to come to office by a charted bus. In the bus, we had a group of 3-4 friends and we used to share about our experiences and day-to-day life with each other and time would pass very soon, we would not realize, when we reached our office or home. Compared to previous mode of travel, I find that driving is a big hazard on road and one needs to be super alert, while driving, which adds extra stress and strain on mind. Good Post! Plus rated.
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• India
5 Nov 09
Hi Deepak, Don’t tell me that the chartered bus groups were better than having bhabi pillion-ride with her arms around you!!! How unromantic
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
5 Nov 09
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
5 Nov 09
Hi Sudipta You are right up to an extent, however, fact of the matter is romanticism gets lost in overbearing heavy traffic and sometimes it becomes even difficult to talk with each other. She accompanies me only in the mornings. In the evenings, I drive down to my home all alone. However, while traveling in a charted bus, one can converse easily and comfortably with fellow passengers/friends, with no tension of driving the vehicle. Deepak
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• India
24 Nov 09
I too think about the past while traveling long distances alone.I prefer train,if not possible then resort to my own vehicle. I too use to think about the embarrassing situations I had confronted and the good old days.Sometimes,as you said,I suddenly become conscious of the one sitting next to me and had to struggle hold back smile.Or if I had the feeling that somebody saw me smiling alone what I do is to pass it off as something happened to my cheeks and correcting it lol.I think it happens to a lot of us.There are times when the involuntary fancies of our brain can't be controlled.
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• India
9 Dec 09
duppatta? what the ... hehe lol,Frankly what is a duppatta, a handkerchief?
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Dec 09
ha ha not at all, duppatta is worn by ladies along with salwar/churidhar. The other word of dupptta is 'chunni' but in Kerala people are calling the same 'shawl'. Hope you got my point.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
9 Dec 09
Hi Cosmo, I agree the train journey is more comfortable than the road (especially in our place, lol) we never feel tiredness on train journey. But in self drive you can't think much.(am I right?). Nice option to hide the smile, for ladies more options are there, can hide the same with a duppatta... etc Have a great time.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
4 Nov 09
Hi Sree, it's nice to know that you enjoy so much in your 20 journey to the office every morning. From your description I could imagine there is a beautiful lady with smiling face sitting alone in the bus Actually there are lots of thought in her mind...even some are ridiculous... I usually go to work by driving. I never switch off my car radio, so I start the car engine I could hear melodious song on the air. I like singing or humming song which I'm familiar with It's really interesting as well to watch different people doing different activities outside the window. In the 20 minutes or so journey I will pass by some stalls. When seeing people selling fried banana or other delicious foods there I have the thought to taste it. I get excited and keen to get the food. But eventually I don't stop for it as I scare that I might be late for work. But it's sad that when I pass by the stall after my office time the stalls are closed I think I would not be able to resist my temptation and stop to get the tasty food one day lol... Have a wonderful day and happy posting!
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
8 Nov 09
Hi Sree, in my eyes all caring moms, hospitable and helpful friends, good hearted people are beautiful respectively. Moreover different age people show their respective unique beauty. I believe a lady always looks really beautiful when smiling straight from the bottom of the heart Thanks for the delicious and crispy banana chips and I would like to collect them when visiting your place. So keep them nicely for me. I would visit you at anytime lol....Have a beautiful Sunday and bye....
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
11 Nov 09
Ok your banana chips are always ready and you can come and collect the same any time your wish. Thank you very much for the sweet words, yes it is true that all mothers are beautiful and caring in heart.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
4 Nov 09
Hi dear, As always, now too you made me smile. I don’t think your imagination is right with the ‘beautiful lady’ … anyway thanks for the compliment. So you are missing the banana chips everyday. Do mail your address I will send enough banana chips for you. If you taste our banana chips once then you may think to drive to our place… Hope your ‘Day’ was wonderful and you enjoyed it.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
Me? a bunch of memories. Most likely it would be how to gain upper hand in our daily lives...thinking some strategies to survive financially in our economic crisis world. Well, sometimes reminiscing some good old days at my younger years. Wishing I could turn back the hands of time...and go back to the past...Thanks
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
24 Nov 09
Hi mobhomeir, Now what I have to write, the exact person is there to pacify. But I really surprised to see the salutation, daddy! Are you people, daddy and daughter, I am curious to know. Good luck to both of you.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
Hello shreekala good day..we're not daddy and daughter tandem here...maybe cykera feels always to call me daddy..I don't know maybe she feels all my writings were already an old version to read against hers.....hehehehehehehhehe that's maybe the reason, am I right of what I am thinking? We're my writings were old to read?
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@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
23 Nov 09
daddy? too much things running on your mind while on travel? hehe and too serious thinking at times...huh! relax daddy, don't stress yourself from too much thinking of financial matters... have faith on what He can do in our lives... hmmmm...you want to go back to the past? haha i understand you, but past is past...hehe and just live with your present and look forward to a better tomorrow... one thing, i thought you're thinking about those mountain of clothes for laundry...hehe just kidding! have a good day daddy! iloemi
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• Boston, Massachusetts
4 Nov 09
Hi Sreekala, I just commute in going to work alone. Right after i give my fare, i will pray for safety, watch the bus video and then take a nap. I don't mind what's happening around me even my co-passengers-- i am just enjoying my time with myself napping. Don't worry i am half-awake so i will not miss my area.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
21 Nov 09
Hi msfrancisco, ha ha,you read my mind in advance, it is good you are not missing the area. Enjoy your journey and have a good nap. Have a great weekend too.
• Boston, Massachusetts
21 Nov 09
You now what? my family and friends are so bothered about this "hobby" of me of taking a nap while mobile especially that i am taking the public vehicle and a cab. But i really can't help it. The moment i sit down and relax my back after i inform the driver where i am going and after i make the sign of the cross to ask god to take care of me i will enjoy my trip by napping. I don't care about the traffic at least i have all the time to relax.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
24 Nov 09
Hi msfrancisco, Now God can only help you. Your family and friends bothered about your safety. Anyway take care. I know some people sleeping on their way, but they are coming after the night duty so it natural to caught with sleep. Two days before my niece came to our place after her night duty and I was worried about her, what happened to her etc and finally she came one hour late and I asked what happened, she told, she slept in bus and the bus stopped in the last stop (which is three stops after our place) they (bus staff) wake her up then only she realized that she already crossed the exact stop. She said she felt very bad on her deep sleep in bus (the same thing happened to her first time).
@balasri (26537)
• India
26 Nov 09
It is always my childhood days which will run in my mind whenever I travel long distance alone.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
10 Dec 09
Remeber the song 'Bachpan ke din bula na dena'.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
9 Dec 09
Hi bala, I know you must have cherished memories about your childhood and birth place (I know the place is different). Please enjoy. Have a nice time.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
11 Dec 09
• Australia
4 Nov 09
I don't travel to work or use public transport at all, but I do a lot of long distance driving, usually by myself, and I love the peace and solitude. I very often drive to the capital which is a 4 hour plus drive and to other places 4 - 6 hours away. I have music playing, but it is usually soft, instrumental music, light classical or Gospel, and does not interfere with my thoughts. I do a lot of thinking and planning in regards to my voluntary work and sometimes even talk to myself, gathering my thoughts. I very seldom get tired, and if I do I change the CD to vocal songs and sing along with them. Driving is a happy experience.
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• Australia
5 Nov 09
I assure you my music does not distract me while driving. I have been driving for nearly 60 years and have never had an accident. I currently drive 25,000-30,000kms a year but did drive much more than that when younger.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
5 Nov 09
Hi cloudwatcher, It is good to know that you are careful on driving. I am happy to know about the same.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
5 Nov 09
Hi cloudwatcher, So you love music and driving, isn't it? While driving you should concentrate more on road so it may interrupt your thoughts. You have your own vehicle so no need to depend on public transport. For me I don’t know driving and even if I know driving I don’t have the courage to drive in this busy city. I am depending on public transport for office purpose. Thanks for sharing. Have a nice time and safe trip always. Take care.
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• India
25 Dec 09
till few months back i used to travel atleast one and half hour in bus to get to my workplace daily.i used to listen to music or radio .depending on the mood i used to introspect about my life and future.sometimes remembered past,friends or family.sometimes just observed the scenery outside or the fellow passengers inside.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
26 Dec 09
Hi neo_matrix, Does it mean that you are not travelling long distance now. One and half hour is a long journey and have enough time to listen radio/music. If there is no regular co-passenger then you can think calmly whatever you want. I think we all are thinking about past and remember about old friends etc. in our journey. Thanks for sharing and joining. Have a nice day.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
4 Nov 09
When I am alone and lonely not necessarily be on a journey, my mind will wonder in the horizon and bring me to places where I have walked before in the previous chapters of my life like when I was in my teenage days, the sweet experiences that have created great impact in my life and the carefree life that I once enjoyed. I enjoy being alone sometimes as I have the chance to rekindle past memories.
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@andy555 (216)
• China
4 Nov 09
If i am alone on a bus or train i just read the news on the cell phone or watch the people around me what they are thinking or listen to them talking.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
4 Nov 09
Hi zandi, It is difficult to spend time without thinking anything, if we are alone. usually I am alone in my journey to office so it is a best chance to think... sometimes I am forgetting the names of some friends and I think and think then remembering so it is a good exercise for brain too. Thanks for joining and sharing. Have nice time.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
4 Nov 09
Ok andy, it is not necessary to something happen (interesting events) in our journey, I do listen if there is something interesting and if the bus is running without much passengers then it is better to think about something good. Thanks for joining andy, have a nice day.
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
5 Nov 09
If am travel alone what comes into my mind is that to be there in my destination early than the hour that being set...I'm not thinking about old days but watch outside to see the beauty of nature and the people around the street...
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
9 Dec 09
Hi aerous, It means you like to watch outside and enjoy the beauty of nature. Thanks for sharing. Have a nice day.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
10 Dec 09
Oh, I see. Thanks for the detail, my friend. Yup, I like but most of the time I'm always on home. Because I concentrated enough to find a good money from the net...I will be doing that if find what I want on the net...
• China
6 Nov 09
that's really a great time to be alone when on the bus to the office. there are too much things can be done. if not a good sleep in the last night,then u can have a rest on the seat or stand. u also can listen to radio of the musics or news. and watch the scenes or people passing by, think what u want to think, recall the old days, plan the future, ...really too much.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
9 Dec 09
Hi yolanda, Yes it is really great to think on 20 minutes journey but no time for a good nap. I am scared if I sleep then I may miss the exact stop. Thanks for joining. Have a nice time.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Dec 09
But there is one problem with my mobile, if alarm set on it it may ring after two hours. So I am using my hubby's mobile at home for alarm purpose.
• China
10 Dec 09
there is a way that u wont miss ur stop. u can turn on ur alarm clock in ur phone.
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• United States
18 Jan 10
I like time by myself, so being alone doesn't bother me.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
21 Jan 10
Hi Picquarian, Please enjoy your time. Thanks for the response. Have a nice day.
• India
6 Nov 09
I travel well and I used to think about different things like my future and my past and present often but mostly I listen to music or sleep. Often when i am active, I observe things and people. Often I start chat with co-passengers.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
24 Nov 09
Hi amshu, It means you are busy in travel with many activities. You must be an easy going person and can mingle with all quickly. Just guessing from your response, if I am wrong please excuse. Thank you very much for sharing, enjoy your journey. Have a nice day.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
9 Dec 09
I am happy I could guess rightly.Thanks for dropping again. Have a nice time. Enjoy.
• India
27 Nov 09
Of course, you are exactly right. You guessed (or analyzed, if I am very much correct) me correctly. I am busy and I also migle easily with others.
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• Philippines
24 Dec 09
Hello Sreekala! I drive myself to work and it's a short drive from my place to work. While on my way, I think about the things or activities that I will require of my students for a given day. Sometimes, I just enjoy everything I see while on my way. I end up just observing everything I see on the way. At times, I also think of whatever happened in the past few days.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
25 Dec 09
Hi dolce, Merry Christmas to you. It means you have a short distance journey to work. I know there won’t be much time for thinking especially you are on self drive. If there is heavy traffic then you have to concentrate on road also. I guess you are a teacher and teaching works need lots of preparation in advance. Thanks for sharing and joining. Have a nice day.
12 Nov 09
When I am travelling alone I may admire nature .But at the same time my mind will be wool gathering.So many things pass in my mind .First of all I am one who always plans her shedule ahead .So I will plan as usual.Then my mind races to my mistakes ,to my children and to what I should have done .Ofcourse I will think og my school days and college days my parents ,teachers,friends ,relations .
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
9 Dec 09
Hi There must be so many things are going on when traveling. Thanks for sharing. Have pleasant time.
@VANILLAREY (1470)
• India
12 Nov 09
Usually I think about the destination or just about anything that comes to my mind.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
9 Dec 09
Hi Vanillarey, You must be in a hurry to reach the place. Thanks for joining. Have a nice time.
• Indonesia
12 Nov 09
I often travel alone in thinking so that anly fast until the purpose
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
9 Dec 09
Hi dodipriani, Thanks for joining. Nice to see you. Have a nice day.
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
11 Dec 09
Hi sreekala Like you, I too used to think the past things and laugh to myself recollecting the bygone days, jokes, incidents and some times I will enjoy the beauty of nature and used to plan my days schedule and any unforgettable incidents.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
11 Dec 09
Hi vathsala, It is always nice to remember the funny parts and the problem is hiding our smile/laugh from others. (Otherwise they may think something wrong this lady). Thanks for joining dear. Have a great weekend.
• India
17 Nov 09
i don travel usually but whenever i go out somewhere i enjoy the beauty of the place.. apart 4m them pick out my camera n take some photographs or write something about the place or journey... dats a gud way to involved in the activities which i like.... if think abt our friends dat time u realize that u r missing something else which u mite never get to see again..
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
9 Dec 09
Hi priyanka, I think you have special skill in photography. I too love the photographs of nature, really the nature is beautiful. Do you have collections of photographs? Thanks for joining. Have a great time.