How Can You Stop Love To Fade Away?
By eurekafemme
@eurekafemme (5877)
Philippines
November 4, 2009 11:39pm CST
My partner put me in the bad light to gain favors from the women he was flirting with. He even neglected and abandoned my emotional needs giving me an alibi that it is hard to convey messages thru text since we were living apart and he was working hard to make both ends meet for all of us.I tried to understand the situation but when i finally get reunited with him, I found out he was busy but not with work but flirting in the internet and many more.He has been doing this for a year and he has been lying to me about his financial obligations, too.And when I asked him about all these, he tried to denied it by telling more lies. But, just like the old adage, you can never hide the truth. Truth came out.
Now, I lost not only my respect and trust for him, I also lost the love I used to give to him.
Is it possible?
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3 responses
@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
5 Nov 09
Very easy because a woman needs reasons to cheat a man but a man just needs another woman to cheat. So to make love fostering sometimes we need to do love frosting by determining for who will take for duty and who will take for responsibility. So, what is love duty? and what is love responsibility?. This is the imperative things to be discussed by both lovers.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
Thank you for the wise words... But I guess, this man knows nothing about being responsible and knows not what his duties are...He can't even compromise...
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@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
6 Nov 09
Ohhh!!!....what a poor him. Hopes there is still a space of time for him to gets 'lesson and learn' to change his status from being a people to a human.
@saifulbabe (74)
• Indonesia
5 Nov 09
I always ask my heart for this problem. If you feel something wrong or not proper, why do you continue anything and don't stop it immediately and reveal it? Never give someone the second chance if you really know what will happen and how is him/her character in life. Again ask your heart.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
Sadly, my heart is often telling me not to give up on him. Not yet... Thank you for sharing your insights..:-)
@Godmother (476)
• Indonesia
5 Nov 09
I once read in a book, that after the "Falling In Love" period which is 3-6 months, each partner will start to show his/her real self. Then it takes another 2 years for them to finally drop all masks. That is the time (at the most) to decide to go on or break up. You don't have to "sleep with your enemy."
After 6 years, I left my boyfriend, because I tried everything but he just won't change. But you know what ? After We separated, I didn't feel as bad as I thought I would be. I have to admit, I hate being alone and I hate to break old routines. Maybe that's the only cause why I stayed with him so long.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
I am happy for you,Godmother to finally break yourself free from such a man...but it isn't as easy to me as it has been with you...Maybe, one day I will find the courage to do so... Thank you..:-)
