That baby is not his

Indonesia
November 5, 2009 2:41am CST
One of my favorite nephew wants to marry a very beautiful girl which he barely knew, just because she said she's pregnant. My friends know her parents well, and from the gossip I hear, that baby may not be his. What should I do ?
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@maximax8 (27048)
5 Nov 09
Your nephew should try to find out who farther of the baby is. I imagine he is dating the lady that is pregnant and he might have fallen in love with her. Sometimes a lady is in a relationship and she splits up from the man then she finds out she is pregnant. If she gets another relationship she will explain that she is pregnant. Good luck to your nephew.
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• Indonesia
9 Nov 09
Thanks you for your advice, maybe I don't have to worry so much. After all, he's a grown man, I just need to talk to him, to ease my conscious.
@jndlponti (2423)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
Try to talk to your nephew and tell him what have you heared about the girl. Maybe he had already fallen in love with the girl and already knew she was already preganant when they met. Maybe she wanted to help the girl in taking care of the baby. Considering it as his own since he love the girl.
• Indonesia
9 Nov 09
You are right too. My nephew is such a man. He always wants to do whatever is good. Like all the other advice of mylotters, Ill talk to him. Thanks.
@jndlponti (2423)
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
yah that is what I notice based on what you have said. I guess he very well know the situation and just wanted to take the responsibility. Maybe if that is the case he just see to it that the girl will love him back the way he loves her.
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@jndlponti (2423)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
Hi... Thank you for rating me as best response. I just knew it now. I haven't really receive any alert that you did mark me as best response. Really I appreciate it and by that you have encourage me to do good on my other responses. Thank you and hope to see you around.
@simonelee (2721)
• China
23 Nov 09
pregnancy - pregnant
Hello, there! If a person is inlove the usually thing will happen is they tend not to listen to others opinion especially if it against to his/her love ones. You are in a difficult situation, I do understand you and your intention is clean. But, you might be misinterpreted if you're going to tell your nephew about the gossip you've heard, as a "favourite nephew" they might think you're just against the girl and don't want him to tied up with her. Marrying her because she is pregnant is not proper. I think they should wait until the baby comes out before deciding and that's also the only time they can prove to their selves if they love each other and want to be tied up forever. A lot of relationships failed because of their wrong decisions.
• Indonesia
23 Nov 09
Thanks for reminding me to be very careful when I talk to him. Yes, you've got a point there. I'm inviting my nephew over this weekend, and I hope to ask him gently and discuss it with him. Whether he knows or not if the baby is his, or whether he decides to marry now or later is finally his decision. But at least, as a member of the family, I had done my best for his happiness. Wish me luck....Thanks again.
@chevill (316)
• Philippines
5 Nov 09
tell your nephen about what you've heared . he is the only one who can tell if it's true or not. he feel it and he can prove it if it's really his child or not.
• Indonesia
9 Nov 09
Yes I think I'll put up my courage to talk to him. thanks
@sabirin (95)
• Singapore
5 Nov 09
what wrong baby ornobaby.the baby is innocent.baby is like a light in the darkness.Just imagine when u feel down from werk and reached home ur baby smile at you.how to u feel?all ur streess will be gone.