i'm not a MILF

@doormouse (4619)
November 8, 2009 11:37am CST
why aren't i a MILF,my mum was but i'm not,i asked my son whether any of his friends had mentioned anything about me,and he said no,,i want to be a MILF,i'm quite disapointed that i'm not,,not that i'm interested in young lads,but the idea of being a MILF is quite cool,and flattering,i think
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• United States
9 Nov 09
So, doormouse, does your husband think you're hot? He's the only one you need to be concerned about. I'm not trying to pry into your affairs, here, but are you giving it up to him whenever he wants it? You're in a very precarious position right now. The way you're talking, it sound like you're trying to lose the provider for your home. In fact, it's not your home it's his. He's the one out breaking his back every day to put a roof over your head and food in your belly. You are dihonoring your husband with such talk, and are on a path to lose him. His opinion is the only one you need to worry about. Grow up and think about someone other than yourself for a change.
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@doormouse (4619)
9 Nov 09
yes my man fancies me,and he's the one not giving any,not me,,the house is mine not his,i pay half of everything,so i'm not dishonouring anyone,my man actually finds this discussion quite funny,he thinks i should be a MILF coz he says i'm gorgeous
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9 Nov 09
What on earth makes you think this young woman isnt the provider!?! What makes you think the house is not hers!? $I find this comment very very sexist actually!!! And if she is married to her partner...they the house is THEiRS not his. He'd out "breaking his back", for HIMSELF not for her. Such an old fashioned view that it's the mans "house", and he is the one out working. Taken a funny and jokey discussion to a place it didnt need to be, it was a joke as far as I could tell, doormouse wants to be fancied by young men!! I myself wouldnt, it would make me uncomforatble, but it was a jokey discussion, no need to get all heavy on her about her husband going out and working for her food nd she is disrespcting him!!! So old fashioned.
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@doormouse (4619)
9 Nov 09
thanks steph,it is only a funny discussion and nothing else
• United States
8 Nov 09
Wow this is just an awkard question maybe you are just not attractive enough who knows
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@doormouse (4619)
9 Nov 09
maybe i'm not attractive enough,who knows
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@sid556 (31003)
• United States
10 Nov 09
You are attractive enough little mouse. I looked at your pic in your profile. Don't let this comment get you. ok?
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@quita88 (3716)
• United States
8 Nov 09
Ok, what is a MILF???
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@doormouse (4619)
9 Nov 09
MILF==mum i'd like to f**k
@quita88 (3716)
• United States
9 Nov 09
ohhhhhhhhhhh
@ronnyb (6119)
• Jamaica
9 Nov 09
Wow this one o the most unique discussions I have ever read LOL .I can understand that as you get older (not saying that you are old now) you waant to be somewhat attractive to the younger generation ,its just that I have never met anyone who is honest enough to mention it .Usually women who are of a certain age like to hide behind the wall that everything is ok and they are quite confident in their sexuality .Anyway you may be very much a MILF its just that no one wants to hear from their friends that they want to be with their mom ,I guess that is just TABOO,so dont despair just yet YOU MAY BE ONE HOT MAMA
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@doormouse (4619)
9 Nov 09
thanks for that,i'm glad not everyones taking this discussion seriously
• United States
9 Nov 09
I hear ya doormouse...being a MILF would be nice although I am not. I am not quite sure if I would want to be a full MILF only because my kids are eight and ten but to look like an actually sexy twenty seven year old mom would work good enough for me. I am very happily married and find my husband sexy as ever and I know he does me even though I have put on a few well a dozen or two extra pounds since we first met but I think it would be nice to be sexy just for my own feelings...hubby helps to make me still feel sexy but every time I look down at my tummy and realize I still look four months pregnant...yuck.
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@doormouse (4619)
9 Nov 09
know exactly how you feel
@bounce58 (17524)
• Canada
8 Nov 09
Yes doormouse, I too find it very sexy in a woman to admit to themselves that they are an MILF. But I think the ones that are the best MILF's are the ones that don't have a clue about it. Who knows, maybe you just think you are not good enough, or your sons friends maybe just don't have any clue about this stuff yet. Or maybe your son just don't want to admit it. Because really, it is kind of weird for guys to admit that his friends have the hots for their mums. Don't sell your self too short.
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@doormouse (4619)
8 Nov 09
thanks,i'll try to remember that
@mdaazam (826)
• Indore, India
8 Nov 09
Hello there my sweet friend and what is this that strikes me like you wanna be a milf . Ofcourse its not bad if you see it my way , i have seen many of my friends mothers acting like they are pretty good milf sort of but i would have been attracted to them if they didnt express their so lack of confidence which fades away all the attraction believe me . See all this way long you sounded pretty attractive to me and i believe it but if this was the first one i would have read then i would think youre pretty ugly or something and you hate yourself . No ofcourse not , i know youre not and that youre pretty but all i want to say mate is, just Be Cool !! Get a simple look , straight hairs and i know you will make guys like me drawing heavy wishing breaths lol . cheerz for beauty then !
@doormouse (4619)
8 Nov 09
thanks honey,that's very sweet
@GardenGerty (105281)
• United States
8 Nov 09
If you say so. My younger sister's friend tried to pick me up one year, but that was over a century ago, in my mind. Too old now for anyone but my hubby to love.
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@doormouse (4619)
8 Nov 09
you're never too old,i have a soon to be hubby,but feeling flattered is good,i'd never do anything with the boys,uuurrrgggh,how gross
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@Wizzywig (7859)
8 Nov 09
I guess it would be sort of flattering but I think I'm way too old to be one - &, of course I lack pretty much all the other required qualities too Are your sons friends even old enough for such activities (legally)???
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@doormouse (4619)
8 Nov 09
they're 14 and 15,but my boyfriends where that sort of age when they liked my mum
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@mrfdg1972 (3238)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
what is MILF
@xfahctor (14128)
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
8 Nov 09
It stands for "Mother - I'd - Like to - F***" Seriously, I'm not being sarcastic, that is litteraly what it stands for.
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@mrfdg1972 (3238)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
so i am a FILF
@mrfdg1972 (3238)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
that means your highly sexy
9 Nov 09
I think I'd feel a bit sick at the thought of someone my sons age thinking about me in that way, and possibly telling my son those feelings :-S I think it could get a little inappropriate, and knowing how the world is today, it can be misconstued. Of course, it is very flattering for anyone to find you attractive but when they're a teen, its weird haha
@mommyboo (13198)
• United States
9 Nov 09
OHHH. Now I see what set you off. Well, in some cases you can still have one provider, in a lot of cases you NEED two. Sometimes one of the people has to have more than one job. As far as who is ultimately responsible and who everything BELONGS to - take a look at a deed sometime. In MOST cases the house is in both names, in many cases, cars may be in both names OR they are in the person's name who has better credit so they got a better deal. I definitely see you do not believe in equality, which doesn't make any sense. You probably don't agree that while one 'provides', the other one does everything else, such as care for kids and take care of the home and run errands, cook, clean, etc. Those ARE equal even though one does not give a paycheck. If both are working outside the home, then you have to hire people to take care of your kids - and thus you miss out on raising your kids. That is a deal breaker for me, as I would easily hire a housekeeper and likely order take out food because if I was working full time I could afford it. However, I won't work full time because I refuse to waste the money to pay someone ELSE to raise my daughter because she is my daughter and nobody else has any business raising her. different things work for different people and there are still people who get married and remain married. Not everybody cares about what else is out there or the whole milf issue either. Of course there are some people who never get married because of exactly the scenario you described. Honestly, pick your own path in life. There is a lot of bad out there but there is also a lot of good. It is never all just one way or another, it is a choice. I'm sorry your choices led to negativity but that isn't a fact for everybody. Don't bash someone else because you're bitter about your situation.
@mommyboo (13198)
• United States
9 Nov 09
One more thing - I'm sorry you're getting laid more now that you're NOT married. I disagree with that entirely and I never understand when people gripe about it. You would think that whatever lit your fire enough to GET married would continue, or you'd purposely make time for it. Heck, we do, even though we had to lock the kids out of the bedroom Bottom line, people who decide they are going to act like they are celibate after they marry drive me nuts. I think they are crazy. If you intend to act that way, don't frigging get married at all!
@doormouse (4619)
9 Nov 09
calm down,calm down,,this is supposed to be a fun discussion not a blinkin arguement,i've been through a horrible divorce aswell,the man was violent and unhinged,but do you see me having a go,no you don't,we are here to have fun,now get a grip xx
• India
9 Nov 09
I think i am very interested in these kind of discussions and i am a kind of a guy who loves to have s*x with my friends mothers who look very sexy. When i saw your photos i think there is nothing wrong with you and am pretty interested. But i live in India and you in United kingdom. A long and far away. lets hope we both have that once.
@doormouse (4619)
9 Nov 09
that photo was awful,i've lost weight and had my done since that was taken
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• India
9 Nov 09
okay.. then upload your new photos.. Thew slim and sexy doormouse. I would love to see your new photos sweetheart.
9 Nov 09
She didn't say she wanted to have s*x with you ajayrocks :-S what is it with people on here today.
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@shyamlal (3538)
• India
11 Nov 09
MILF videos are always a turn on for me...I think I always had that thing for older women..
@shyamlal (3538)
• India
11 Nov 09
Well Is that you in the photos...and you are still complaining ??? I can't believe this ..What the hell is wrong with young kids over there....???
@doormouse (4619)
11 Nov 09
i look much better now i've lost weight
@shyamlal (3538)
• India
16 Nov 09
Better than that pic ??
@sid556 (31003)
• United States
10 Nov 09
Well doormouse, I really don't know why you are not a MILF. How old is your son? I looked at your pics and he looks pretty young. I also saw your pic and you are very pretty. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. Also remember that even if his friends did make comments....he might not repeat them to you. He is your son and might not like his friends commenting about his mom like that.
@doormouse (4619)
10 Nov 09
thanks for that,my son is 14,and how can you think my picture is nice,i'm so fat in that one and my hairs funny
@sid556 (31003)
• United States
10 Nov 09
guess I was just looking at your face...features & eyes. I really did not think you looked fat and did not think your hair looked funny. You should put up a current picture of yourself.
@murderistic (2279)
• United States
9 Nov 09
I'm sorry, but the fact that you would want your sons friends crushing on you is gross. If you aren't interested in "young lads," then it shouldn't matter if they're interested in you.
@doormouse (4619)
9 Nov 09
it's not that i want them crushing on me,it's the fact my friend is one and i'm not,and i want to know why,,it isn't an age thing,as i said before,this is a fun discussion,not to be taken seriously
• United States
9 Nov 09
Younger guys are attracted to certain types of older women who usually look like they're younger than they are. It's probably alot about the way the moms act too, if they act like they'd be available to the younger guys it gives them a hope to dream. I don't think their opinion of you should matter, in fact I don't think looks should matter at all... but if they do matter, they should be to people that you would actually consider being with.
@hagirl (1296)
• United States
9 Nov 09
It is one thing for my sons to look up to him because they think his mom is cool and easy going but it would not flatter me at all if the thought of me as a MILF.....Have a little respect you are a very intelligent woman and at your age if childs friends like you and respect you take it for what it is....
@doormouse (4619)
9 Nov 09
i do have respect for myself,it was just a post i thought i'd start,it wasn't meant to be serious
@hagirl (1296)
• United States
10 Nov 09
Sorry to disrespect you! I just comment on what I read!
@mommyboo (13198)
• United States
9 Nov 09
LOL!! I don't find it flattering, although people say I should. It's really weird because my son is 18. The first time I heard it mentioned he was 15 and so was his friend. Neither of them knew I heard them and i turned the color of a tomato, and it was even worse when my son saw me in the kitchen shortly after and realized I HEARD it. Anyway, to try and explain a little better, it's almost kind of icky, since your kids are KIDS, even if they ARE 15, or 16, or 17, or whatever. To me I see them as kids, definitely NOT my equal, and the whole idea that they would romanticize me as anything but their friend's mom... ewww. lol! My son has several friends who regularly make comments, most of them not in front of me but I find out about it. One of them he has known forever... like since he was maybe 7 or 8. I had no idea until just this past year and this kid is now 16 lol.
@doormouse (4619)
9 Nov 09
i don't find kids of that age attractive,yuck,and i certainly would never do anything with anyone too much younger than myself,it would just be nice to know that i still got it,that's all
@mommyboo (13198)
• United States
9 Nov 09
LOL! Okay but isn't it enough to get that attention from your husband and perhaps other men around your age? I have the unfortunate 'blessing' to be thought of as about 10 years younger than I am, and in my opinion, someone even my age is 'too young' because my hubby is older than me. On occasion I get a glance from someone I consider my league - someone older and stable, not one of my son's friends lol. I think it's rather embarrassing that my son's friends think his mom is hot, especially because I have met some of their moms and my son wouldn't say the same about them.
@rg0205 (2638)
• Hong Kong
8 Nov 09
Hehe, I like your honesty. Well, who doesn't want to be admired? I think there's nothing wrong with that. Maybe you can try changing your style maybe? Not meaning to say that you turn provocative or anything but something more hip perhaps.
@doormouse (4619)
8 Nov 09
i'm 32 and quite a hip mum,so my sons friends say
@rg0205 (2638)
• Hong Kong
8 Nov 09
Oh. Well, I cant really recommend anything useful, I'm sorry because I don't know what you look like person. I'm also not a mother myself so I really have no idea. I was just trying to give suggestions lol. Weak attempt though.
@ladym33 (11007)
• United States
29 Dec 09
LOL. My kids friends are still so young. He is 12 but most of his friends are not in to girls yet let alone moms. I guess it would be an honor to be considered a MILF and had I had my kids younger perhaps. But I am not getting any younger and things in the looks department sure don't seem to be getting younger with age. It would be a nice compliment though if someone considered me a MILF especially at 44 years of age.
@doormouse (4619)
29 Dec 09
glad to see someone isn't taking this post seriously,44 isn't too old to be a milf,you've still got plenty of years left yet
@chinthit (70)
• United States
12 Nov 09
doormouse darling, I'm sure someone thinks you are a MILF. Hang in there.....
@doormouse (4619)
12 Nov 09
thanks,i've had one reply from someone that thinks i'm a MILF