worry him, worry future
November 9, 2009 9:17am CST
i am worrying my partner becoz of the job he is working right now. he feels not so happy and even he do so much overtime oso cant get what he should earn. i start worry about him and also our future. i am a student still got 1.5 year jus graduate my degree. i feel heartbreak when i saw he look like live in pain. what i can do? i seem like a useless financee and also a fool.
10 Nov 09
hi smallcloud... :D i'm experiencing the same situation as yours. i'm graduating hopefully next year and my boyfriend already graduated. he worked for a famous fast food chain here in the Philippines but he always complains that he earns a very small amount. i advised him to go abroad and pursue his dream of becoming a seaman so that when i graduated, we won't be having difficulties in adjusting stuffs.
10 Nov 09
yup, now actually got a job stand by there for him. but in holland, is worked for his aunt. i cant bear him and he, too. now even we are at singapore and malaysia, we also cant tolerate the distance make us so far away from each other(i go to singapore need 8hrs.)if he go to holland that mean we cant see each other for a very very long time. that's why he rather give up the opportunity than give up to have the time get along with me.touched and feel heart pain for him.
11 Nov 09
i think you'll both have to sacrifice for quite sometime. like us, he'll be away from me for a long time while he'll be working. i told him that he should work and save money first so that by the time i graduate, life wouldn't be so hard for us especially that my parents wants a man who's worth it for me.
• United States
9 Nov 09
Hello, well... today job is hard to find, so if you have one now then you should keep it. I know it is hard to work on something that he doesn't feel happy with, but he has to think what good and what bad if he is quitting the job. If he feels not happy at all then look for another one, if another work out good then he can quit this current job. Hope thing work out for you
10 Nov 09
i hope too...he already change the job. before he worked in the japanese restaurant and the benefit not so good that's why he change the job. but, maybe he has too much family financial problem, and need to help his decreased brother feed a child..erm i hope we will get smooth and i can help him when i graduated.