Breakup

India
November 10, 2009 12:34am CST
How difficult is it to get over a breakup?
7 responses
• Malaysia
31 Jul 10
Breakups can be rough, and they can be amicable. No matter what, no one really wants to go through them. the loss of your relationship can bring on intense heartache. But if you're looking for some help getting through it and want some suggestions about how to make it a little easier, you can ask advices from your friends and family members. Go ahead and mull it over, as many times as necessary, within reason. Consider all the reasons you two broke up.. Even if it sometimes seems as if there wasn't a good reason, there certainly was one - and probably more than one. Understand that you enjoyed being together for a while, but if the relationship was not what both you and your partner wanted for life, it would have ended eventually. No matter what, in this case, better sooner than later.
18 Nov 09
I'm still getting over it. Of course you only think of the good times. I think its good to review the bad times, the things that made you break up. If you don't do that, you will find yourself wondering about them, wanting them, and never really letting go.
• India
10 Nov 09
It is very difficult to get over with it...cauz the person u loved was your identity for sometime ..but still as the time passes it gets over..Depends from person to person
@Jetleena (11)
• United States
10 Nov 09
I must say, it really depends on the people that had the relationship. If they were really close I would think that it would be a very hard breakup to get over. Also, I think that it depends on the age of the persons in the relationship as well, and how mature the relationship was and they themselves are... If the relationship was mature for the age of the persons in it, then I think they would be able to move along a bit more easily. If they were young and the relationship was really immature, then I believe that the breakup would be hard and become dramatic in the end, which would hurt everyone..
• India
10 Nov 09
ya it is very difficult to get over it dont worry time will change things just move on with your friends and you can be out of it..surely you will get out of it soon if you really face that problem
@shell2784 (752)
• United States
10 Nov 09
c'mon now. That's a very vague and general question. Its up to you how long it takes. What steps you take in getting over it and what guilts in the relationship you hold. How old are you? How long have the 2 of you been together... and are you the male or female in the relationship?
@mcrowl (1050)
• New Zealand
10 Nov 09
Surely it depends on how closely attached you were to the person. If you've been together a long time, like some years, then of course it's going to be difficult. You're basically having a divorce. If it's only a few weeks, then I expect you'll be feeling fine in a few days, especially if things weren't going well.