Getting An Ex Back

United States
November 10, 2009 6:10pm CST
So I have been broken up with my ex girlfriend for about a year now. We still remain in contact with each other but the flame has died out between us and we are just friends. I realized one day that I wanted her back. I tried to start something back up but she said she doesn't see me like that anymore and we are just friends. My question is how do I get that attraction back and that flame between us?
2 responses
@mizzk1 (56)
• United States
13 Nov 09
If she says that she don't see you like that anymore then most likely....you not going to get her back. If you really want to get her back ask her out on a date and take her out to eat or to an movie. And see how things go. See if the spark is still there..and trust me you can tell if the spark is still there or not....if its not juz move on and let it go. But if it is....then juz take it from there.....hope i helped a lil.
@maezee (41997)
• United States
11 Nov 09
You might not be able to, and that might just be something that you have to accept.. I think you shouldn't take your friendship that you have with her for granted. Your feelings are out there now, and if she bites back, she bites back. Only time will tell. I think the most you can do is to continue to be her friend, and try to push the feelings aside. You can't force someone to have feelings for you.