life is not sweet,it's bitter

@LisaGuo (242)
China
November 11, 2009 9:33pm CST
I'm feeling stress from my parents,it's true.I feel embarrassed to say this. I'm feeling bad about the parent-child relation and the sisters relation.What I said may be a little serious,but it makes me sad and upset. Wha's reality,I know it.Money is evil,all people are evil.Who doesn't care material?I don't believe that.I'm a simple girl,life makes me hard and difficult.Crying...
10 responses
• India
12 Nov 09
Hi Lisa.. This is what life is...you cant run or escape...you have to face it...Even i have gone through this situations...what i did is kept myself calm...tryied to divert my mind to other things and when i came to normal, everything was clear to me and i have sorted it out. Take your time...be calm...share things with your best friend...make your heart lite...cry if you want to...things will get right as time passes....Dont take any stupid step or decission....by which you may regret your hole life...I know its a difficult face for you....all the best...
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@LisaGuo (242)
• China
12 Nov 09
Too many things burried in my heart,I need let them off.I'm a optimistic girl,will always keepingin searching ways to solve the problems. Mylot here likes a garbage bin,no one knows what's in it.I'm here for throwing the garbage.Thanks all friends.
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• India
13 Nov 09
Ha Ha :) Sorry dont take it in some other way....i love girls when they are in anger...they look so cute to me...Your the first friend in mylot whome im seeing, is in very angery mood.. Sorry but i cant tell you much than the words i said to you...cause i really dont know whats going on with you....if you want to, you can share it with me....use messages for that.... take care
@rg0205 (2638)
• Hong Kong
13 Nov 09
Life isn't always easy. Sometimes we have hardships and sometimes we also have difficult relationships with the people around us. What I can say is, you cannot change people. The only person you can change is yourself and how you react to situations and things so the best thing to do, is to focus on yourself and your own personal development. Be strong, my friend. You're young and you have a long way to go.
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@LisaGuo (242)
• China
13 Nov 09
You're so right that I should change myseld to fit this society,though I feel so unfair.There's no choice to me.So many things are unfair to me,including myself.I'll do that to me too. I'm young,I'll keep on forwarding.
@nawanta (328)
• Indonesia
12 Nov 09
Sweet, bitter, and sometime salty :) sadness, happiness, and all emotional feelings, those feelings make our life beautiful. i think this life won't be beautiful if there's only sadness or only happiness. we'll feel the true happiness if we've ever felt the sadness. Anyway, never give up. the time of happiness will come to you. cheers..
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@LisaGuo (242)
• China
12 Nov 09
NEVER GIVE UP. Bitterness could come from work,opponent,even friends,shouln't come from families.Though not that bad,but enough.
@Hatley (164347)
• Garden Grove, California
12 Nov 09
Lisaguo no not all people are evil, money is not evil,it is justmoney, love of money over everything else is evil but honey there are millions of good people in 'this world too. life is up and down, good and bad, you cannot have good withoutr some bad or you would not recognize good. look for the good, not the bad and talk to your parents, maybe you can work out the relationship. talk to yuour sisters too as there are always two sides to any argument.if your are sad and upset,then you do still love your pArents and your sisters so make an effort to smooth out things and get back on the happy track again.good luck and look to God he cares for all of us you know.
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@LisaGuo (242)
• China
12 Nov 09
Money is paper,people love paper,love so much.The paper makes people evils.It's ok.A thousand people hold a thousand opinions. Sometimes,a word will hurt me.That's all.
• China
12 Nov 09
cry ,cry, cry,this will make your mood feel better,I also have this feeling like you ,sometimes I am sad,sometimes I am angry,I want to change the present situation,but when I stand in the city street,I see a lot of beggars,so,I understand,there are many people suffering more than I,my friend,you must be aware of that ,life is a struggle,and happy is just embelishment in our life,perhaps many years later,your suffering will be deemed your asset,because it makes you more determined.
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@Shooyao (156)
• China
12 Nov 09
hello ,my friend,maybe sometimes i always have the same conditions as urs,this time u need strong and brave,share ur sad or upset for ur friends and read some good book,listen music and see some moives that fits for ur emotion.I come from china ,xi'an,college student,hope u add me in qq or ym? qq:443278963 ym:shooyaow@Yahoo.com
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@LisaGuo (242)
• China
12 Nov 09
I'll not tell anybody about this,even my bf.No one could help me,I'll face it by myself.I'm searching the way.Anyway,thanks a lot!!
• Malaysia
12 Nov 09
Don't be so upset andsad. Life is full of obstacles. I do believe that "rainbow appears after a storm". It is hard for you to go through this but i do believe that you will find that your life is still very wonderful after you have gone through this obstacle.
@luckyke (56)
• China
13 Nov 09
hi,i think you are a chinese girl same as me, hehe. why are you so passive in life? you are a college student, right? maybe your parents and sisters place great hope on you but you feel hard to achieve it? anyway, i hope you can treat on all things actively and become confident on yourself.good luck!
@bluray (408)
• Singapore
13 Nov 09
Ya Its true to that life is bitter but it is s sweet too.we have to go through both the phase.so we should learn to face the situation in positive way.money is the main culprit in making the relation worse .money can create distance among nearest relations.
• United States
12 Nov 09
Hi!!! I read your discussion and wanted to let you know that you are not alone. I will tell you that I am also having some serious family issues lately. I own my home at the age of 26. My parents just recently had a store and lost it due to the economy. MONEY!!!! Because they lost the store, they also lost their home and a vehicle. I lost my job and have since then found another job but now my parents are not getting along. After twenty nine years of being together, they just cant seem to make it work. Its not that they are angry but cant see the sadness in each others eyes. Money ripped us apart. Let me clarify this, lack of money ripped my family apart. I am also a simple girl and come from a family that is NOT materialistic. I am responding because I want you to know that you are not alone :) Keep your chin up!!!