Do you have a best friend?

Indonesia
November 12, 2009 9:55am CST
Most people have friends but they're not the kind of close friends who can be categorized as best friend. A best friend, I feel, is the one that has your back in whenever you're doing, a person you can turn to no matter hat happens, the one to whom you share every feeling you have inside. I hold nothing back from my best friend, and so does her. We won't turn down each other because we're like a team. So we don't try to fight one another either. My best friend is my mom. She's like the coolest mother ever! What about yours? Have you find a best friend yet?
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
12 Nov 09
i had a best friend since senior high school until we are in the same degree in college. but before he married, he is always want far away from me, as a moslem,off course i did not want to break the friendship and always "let me hurt as long as him is happy". but after he married, he act like iam not his best friends anymore. so i never think him, never want to add him in my list fb or anyone or wanna to discuss about him. iam hurt by his wife said when i had meet them(before they married) and the hurt is still remain in my heart.
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• Indonesia
13 Nov 09
It's odd how people change as they grow older, right? I'm sorry for your loss.. Maybe it's his loss, not yours, though. :)
@Merry343 (26)
• United States
12 Nov 09
I have to say that my mother is a great friend... but I'm not sure she's my best. I love her soooo much... but there are details from my personal life that I choose not to tell her! Otherwise she's a great friend. But I have two friends that I consider 'best friends' I feel bad using that term because neither one of them is better than the other. One is my best friend from high school. We NEVER fight, ever, she's amazing and always understands me and I can talk to her about everything. My other best friend is from college... we have similar past experiences and future lifestyles and that's what keeps us so close. She's amazing and I love her so much. Both of them are just fabulous! Thank goodness for best friends!
• Indonesia
12 Nov 09
I don't keep th details from my mother because her reactions to knowing them are different than how many mothers would react. She acts better than most mother. You're very lucky to have found 2 best friends since you're young. I hope your relationship with them stay that well for the many years to come :)
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• United States
12 Nov 09
I had a best friend for a long time and she started doing some stuff that I didn't approve of and I told her so. I didn't want people to think just because I was her best friend that I was doing it too. When I told her how I felt she didn't like it and she stopped coming over quite as often. Then we just kinda lost our friendship. I saw her about 4 years ago and she was nice and we went to dinner and she said she was going to start calling and coming over again and she never did. When I had my son she called up to the hospital and told me she was going to come see us. My son is 3 years old and I still haven't seen her since that call. So I met a new friend several years ago and we have become best friends. We tell each other everything and I know she's got my back and I've got hers. If she needs anything at anytime of the day or night she knows I'm here and I know she is there for me. We go everywhere together and we get our kids together to play all the time. She's a really great best friend and I'm glad that I met her.
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• Indonesia
13 Nov 09
Your old friends changed because of what you said meaning that she's not a really good friend then, right? I'm happy for you since you got a new one :)
@nitin_hec (1096)
• India
12 Nov 09
I have best friend in my life. He is with me from my college. Now he is doing job very far away. I always keep contact with him and share everything with him. Always miss him.
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• Indonesia
13 Nov 09
Long distance relationship usually fails, but not yours. I'm impressed!
@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
12 Nov 09
Good discussion ,when I first saw it I thought it would have been easy to answer .However on deeper thought I realised that I havent had a best friend since high school.Now I have many people who I can talk to but no one person exclusively .I think that either structure may work as with one best friend you know the chances of your personal business leaking are less but with many friends then the chances of you having someone to talk to are greater .I didnt mean to make this so logical and mechanical ,lol,I guess it just happened though
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• Indonesia
13 Nov 09
I have no other best friend than my mother though. many friends, but now best friend. I also admit that it's hard to find a best friend these days..
• United States
12 Nov 09
BESTFRIENDS are amazing. can a person actrally live life with out a best friend?! my best friends name is blakley...i love everything about this girl...all thought we are COMPLETE OPPOSITTS we atract like magnets makeing a tighter bond then a fat guy in spandex. she loves country and hunting fishing mud guy harvey tee shirt and boots. she has the name on the back of her belt and she likes chevy and gators football team...BUT i am a city girl,i like rap music tight clothes and matching shoes too every outfit i like to dance and party hard i like suspence and scary movies...we both adjust to each outhers life style and have fun with it because its something new...we never lie too each outher and tell each outher EVERYTHING no joke! when some one is talking bad about me, she would be first to jump on the case and argue for the best in me.she gives me wonderfull advise and if i ever needed some where to go besides home i know i would have a place with her i love this girl.if we havent talk saw each outher or texted in over a hour. YOU KNOW SOMETHINGS wrong lol!
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• Indonesia
13 Nov 09
Whoa this worths a thumbs up. it's great how you could make someone who's a complete opposite of you as your best friend. Maybe there's a lesson here, that is, to befriend everyone no matter how different they are to you.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
12 Nov 09
U & your mom both are very lucky to have that kind of relationship, treasure it always. My mother & i did not have a good realatioship even tho i wished we had. I do have some good friends & i'm thankful for everyone of them.
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@scififan43 (2434)
• United States
17 Dec 09
I do not have many close friends. I do share a lot with my mom and my younger brother. I do share a lot with my gf as well. these three persons I knwo I can trust and will be there for me no matter what.
@xyniece (77)
• Philippines
15 Nov 09
my husband is my bestfriend..though i have lots of friends since i was a kid, i never had a bestfriend till i met my husband who became my very bestfriend.
• India
12 Nov 09
well i thought i never would have a best frienf till i met a guy named samuel wen i was around 14 years old...n believe me guys,my life changed totally after that..earlier i was a very shy and confined type of guy but he taught me live life to its fullest..we both spent some splendid time together...n then i got to know what true friendship is...now at present we both r in different cities but hope our friendship will live forever...
• India
13 Nov 09
my best friend is my hubby.and i have another friend since my childhood.i love both of them.they care for me a lot
• United States
12 Nov 09
My best friend is my future husband Mark. We are always there for each other good bad ugly and indiffernet. Its a wonderful feeling to have a best friend that you can talk about anything to, who never thinks badly of you ,and no matter how bad things ever seem to be they are always there to lift you up. You can do things with ,including the task of grocery shopping(yuck) and yet have fun doing it together. Yes best friends are teams.
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@verena (56)
• Indonesia
12 Nov 09
Beside my mother, my boyfriend is my best friend. He is exactly like what you've described. I always can turn to him no matter what happens. I can share every feeling with him. We won't turn down each other. Even we fight sometimes, we'll solve the problems together. He is my real best friend.
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@sleven8 (27)
13 Nov 09
I have a best friend and we have been friends since college, since then we have been the best of friends, we always play pranks on other friends, make fun other then but never to each other..... but one thing is that we overdo the "fun" bit and whenever we learn a course we end up falling far behind as we are always having fun and chilling..... at one time we also used to be called "ant and dec" because we always seen togther lol, but yes we do fight ALOT lol, maybe because we both have the star sign of Leos but we solve the fight the same day no matter how big the fight was, so yea its great having a best friend
• United States
13 Nov 09
I would have to say that my best friend is my husband..he is the one that I share the most with and feel like I can tell anything to. I also share things with my mom but not as much as I do with my husband. There are things that I tell my husband that I would never tell my mom but i also think there are things that should be shared between husband and wife and that is what makes a marriage strong. I also have a friend from elementary school that I still talk to and we share things with each other as well but we don't get together quite as often as we should but we also know that no matter how much time has elapsed we can still call one another and rant or cry or laugh depending on what mood we are in we are still there for each other. So I guess I could say I have three besties but they are all different in their own ways because each of them gives me something different and I love that =)
• United States
13 Nov 09
You are very lucky to be able to say that about your mother. I cannot imagine ever calling my mother my best friend. Or even my friend. Having said that, I DO have a best friend, who is like a sister to me. We have known each other for about sixteen years, and have been through a lot of stuff together, laughed, cried, traveled, everything. I trust her with my life and there is nothing I would not feel able to tell her. We are both married now, and I live in America, she still lives in England (my home country) but we are as strong as ever and in contact all the time. Leaving her back in England when I got married was like someone dying. I would hear a song that means something to us and cry. Still do sometimes. And its horrible now every time I go over and then have to say goodbye again! But I am lucky too, though I do not have that sort of family, some people never get that sort of friend.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
Hello,I have many friends,I consider them as my best friend whom I can rely and trust for.But My very very best friend is the only one up there in heaven,Our God an Almighty God in Heaven.May be you can say that i'm OA,but this is really true,and comes from my heart.In God I can ask what ever i want for my self and for my family with no limitations.I Keep on praying to our God, and i know he is always there to guide me.I really feels God's Blessings.I also love my friends because i believe that friends are treasures,and i really treasures my friends.Before my mother also was my best friend but she's not around.It's so painful to me.So I keep on praying to make me strong always.I'm so touch with this topic.Thanks,Happy mylotting!
@missty08 (20)
• United States
13 Nov 09
me and my best friend have been friends since we were 8 years old and now i'm 19 and she is 20! we went to the same elementary school and just because we talked so much to each other her mom had her kept back a grade so we could behave lol for a long time her parents didn't like that their daught only had one friend lol but i guess i've grown on them now! i love my best friend and i think we will be friends for ever and it's cool to say that because not alot of people even have friends for a month... people should have more best friends! and i'm praying for my best friend now because she has the swine flu :(
• Nepal
13 Nov 09
i had a best friend once a long long time ago but i ruined it completely by prosing to her i still havnt met n e frend like her yet
@priesh72 (65)
• India
13 Nov 09
I have 4 best friends. I have not keep any secrets of mine with them . I share everything and they too. But we are all in different places.