how do you know that you have found "the one?"

Philippines
November 19, 2009 4:33am CST
This is a very classic question in which i'd like to expound on and ask others of what they think. How do you know that you have found the one you want to spend the rest of your life with?
3 responses
@iskayz (5424)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
Hi angel! This is an interesting question but frankly, I still don't know the answer. I am still single and hoping to find my prince charming. But my little idea of what "the one" would be like is someone is unexplainable. I guess you would feel a strong heartbeat when you see your perfect one. Ciao!
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
Hello Iskayz! Thanks so much for commenting. High five for the singles and ready to mingle lol. joking aside, I guess we could all say "unexplainable" is right. I just met a really fantastic guy from the army and I honestly thought that he's an amazing guy considering that i thought i would hate him. Go figure that out. I hope that falls under the criteria of "unexplainable" in my case. Coz to be honest i think (rather hope) that it's him. But i'm not so sure yet...for now.
@BART78 (2933)
• Canada
19 Nov 09
hi angel! for me it's simple, you hate him, but not totally, but there's something with him that you can't leave him and you'll be horrible if you leave..
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
Hi there! Wow i got stunned when you said that. I met a guy from the US army last month and everything felt so right. To be honest, a lot of things that I hated in a guy I found in him and yet i fell in love. So now i'm honestly confused if he could really be the one for me or i'm just in a daze.
@ayaBee (65)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
Hmmm.. that's really difficult to answer. When I met my husband everything was not perfect and it was not magic and not always good times. But we end up together. I guess it is just that we know each other so well, we understand each other, we respect each other and we love love love each other so much. You will just realize that you could not be without him and he feels the same. When it comes, it comes.. and you will just know it.
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
Hello Ayabee. Well just like my mom, u have the same answer. I may be a bit behind in the romance department so i guess i have no credible say. But i do agree that when it comes it comes. But whether or not i will know it that i don't know yet. Considering that some people think it's "him" or "her" then suddenly things screw up. Tough!