Do you think anyone can love too much?

@Hanan_x3 (294)
United States
November 19, 2009 4:28pm CST
Love as in between partners. Do you think it is possible to love too much?
6 responses
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
19 Nov 09
hi hanan!..yup it's possible, i was once addicted and so obsess to someone i'd almost control everthing in her for that reason she broke up with me, then i learned my lesson..too much love will kill you in the end
@Hanan_x3 (294)
• United States
19 Nov 09
:(
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
wow.. controlled her?? in my case it was different.. i gave her the freedom that she wanted.. because i loved her so much that i was willing to give her anything that she wanted.. and in the end ended up leaving me for another guy she met while we were at a party.. i feel so dumb that i let her get out of my grasp.. i so loved her and now i feel the scars of the past..
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
BART: My ex-bf was the same as you. He wanted to control my life as if he owns me and because of that I broke up with him and hate him so much up to now. Every time I remember the things that he had done to me, I always end up getting very angry to him. Well, I tried my best to forgive him and be friends with him but it seems its impossible to happen. Now, we are far from each other and even though we see each other we don’t talked as if we never met. It’s not really nice to control someone’s life. It doesn’t mean that you have a relationship with each other you totally own her. Everyone has the right to be free and do the things that they want to do and besides everyone knows their responsibility. THEONEHUSH: Giving someone’s freedom isn’t bad. Maybe she doesn’t appreciate the things that you’ve done for her. Someday she will be able to realize what she lost. You shouldn’t feel bad to yourself you just gave her a choice to be happy. At least you know that she’s happy. Just try to be happy for her and think positive. You can still find someone who will love you more than you love her.
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
hi hanan.. yess!! this is possible 100%.. but you know what? its always our loss when we guys love to much.. i had like the same post in questions and answers a while ago.. feel free to read it.. eventhough im such a happy person i find it hard to move on.. too much hurt can cause this.. if i were you, you can still love but i suggest you leave some for yourself.. dont love too much..
@Hanan_x3 (294)
• United States
20 Nov 09
Thank you. I need that comment :)
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
Yes, there’s a possibility that one can love more than the other in a relationship. I believe that love is definite. What is more important we should not weight how much we love that person. We just need to accept the fact (if ever) you love her/him most than she/he is to you. We should be happy of what they had given to us. In the relationship, love is the most important because without it, the relationship won’t last. So therefore, for as long as there is love be contented and happy to it. Don’t give issue who felt more love because love means understanding, acceptance and trust to each other.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
yes... people has the option of being addicted to love, it only depend on how you control it...
• India
20 Nov 09
s its possible to be loved too much but the opposite who get too much of love at one time gets some stressness in this love as their point of love will be different and also the person who loves too much expects his or her love also to love them like that which is not possible
22 Nov 09
i don't believe that a person must love too much. He/she must left a part for himself/herself..though love sacrifices a lot, it also requires love for one's self..Don't love too much.