Will you fight or let go someone you love?

Philippines
November 21, 2009 4:53am CST
They said if you love someone let it go and if he/she comes back again then it's yours. What is your opinion?
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12 responses
@coolcat123 (4392)
• India
21 Nov 09
i would never fight for a person and let him go where ever he wants too. I cant force someone to love and so better to leave him as he wants to go.
@Lornal (113)
• China
21 Nov 09
You are same as me, but it is not always right. A man's own character shape his fortune. It is ture.
• Philippines
22 Nov 09
Yeah, it's not good for us to insist our self to the person we love. Though it really hurts. But I think it could not be wrong to give another try. To let the person know that you love him/her much, and show your love. And if doesn't work then let the person go. As long as you give it a try. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
For me, there are kind of love that are worth fighting for and there are also love that are not worth fighting for. If you love someone but he/she doesn't love you in return.. there's no sense of fighting for it.. cause it would be useless if you're only the one who keeps on holding on while he/she was also busy letting go... maybe it would be better if you will juz let him/her go.. I agree that If you love someone let it go.. and if he/she comes back again then it's yours.. and if not.. it will never be yours at all..
• Philippines
26 Jan 10
Yeah, love is not worth fighting for when it's one sided love. It's better to let the person go and don't think and hope he/she will come back again, just to keep you away from pain. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
• India
22 Nov 09
yeh it is better to leave than to hold to it.if the person really loves u then he will come back to u and if not they will not come and there is no point in fighting for someone who never loves u.it is really a good saying which has a lot of meaning . it not only means to love but also every thing in life
• Philippines
22 Nov 09
You're right! In life there's only one thing that we must learned, that's to let go. Whatever we may have, a things or a person. We must excel on letting go, because it's the only way that make us happy and set our self free. It's the only way for us to move on and live our life. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@shona264 (167)
• India
21 Nov 09
Hi Careguarden,I think it depends on situation,whether you should fight or let go someone whom you love.There are many cases. I can mention some of them like,If both lovers are into a misunderstanding,you should clear it,you should fight for your love..you can't let it go this way. Secondly,If you are in love with someone who doesn't love you.you can't fight for that,as its not necessary that the one whom you love shall also love you,you have to give him/her time to know his feelings,you have to wait till he/she comes back to you.
• Philippines
22 Nov 09
Yeah, you're right! When it comes to simple misunderstanding it's not good to give up that soon. You should learn to fight and give it a try. Because true love needs a pack of undestanding and patience. It's best to let go someone who no longer loves you. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
21 Nov 09
To let go is a hard thing to do, but if you haven't got that person's whole heart then what is the point in holding on.
• Philippines
22 Nov 09
It's not worth fighting the love who is no longer yours. It's like your hurting your self. Living with illusion. But there are lot of person who keep their self pushing to the person who no longer love them. They just can't seem to accept the truth. And don't have the courage to move on and set their self free. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your weekends!
23 Nov 09
loving someone who loves you in return is really worth fighting for..don't let go of someone if both of you are loving each other and you think that he's/she's the one already..If he's/she's for you, he/she will always be for you no matter how you set him/her free=)
@1hopefulman (19508)
• Canada
22 Nov 09
That makes sense to me. Love cannot be forced. It must be freely given. But we can certailny let the person know how much we love them so that if they feel the same, now or later, then the relationship can bo worked on.
• United States
21 Nov 09
I would like to fight for myself. I would like to be myself. I would like to do, myself, things I need to do. Losing myself to the torrent of life water can be humiliating and I have to pick up the pieces. But to start all over, you can find yourself anew. To let yourself go. In another direction. Well, I think you should do what is best. For you, AND for other people. Usually when you mix those two I think the best will happen. To do this you have to be somebody, and be strong. You have to give up being weak. And do what you need to do. If you are going to have a heart attack, you better eat better. And replace the activity of food intake with activism, or a passion. Or, if you choose to go ahead and have it, then be strong. Know what to expect, and find the mercy you need and what angels will guide you. Find your faith. But I want to be strong. Because I think life will go on. I think life will go on in the physical plane. Despite the hardships. This is because I have things to give. I have things I can do. And if you keep the goal in sight, and do what you can in the moment, you will hopefully want to get there.
@Lornal (113)
• China
21 Nov 09
If i love him, i will let him go anywhere he want. But other people say sometimes we need to fight for love. i think it is up to you.
@Norah0804 (165)
• China
21 Nov 09
If I love him very much, I would let him go if he want. Sometimes love will become a kind of pain, and the best way is to let it go.
@BART78 (2933)
• Canada
21 Nov 09
yes, it's true if you love someone let him/her go but can you let go with winning or fighting your love first? for me, i'll try first to fight for our love or my love for her but after all the effort and still she doesn't want me anymore, then i'll let go...
@diamania (7037)
• Netherlands
21 Nov 09
Depends on whether you are a man or a woman. As a man you should first show interest, and then lower the anchor as to taking actions, just let her go and if she comes back then it's your turn to cash out. :) As a woman, you should always take action... or play hard to get... Woman have much more freedom...