do you like making friend from the internet ?will you meet in the true life ?

China
November 26, 2009 1:11am CST
hi ,friends when i study university,i like to chatting with person from different cities on the internet and if the condition allowed ,we will meet from internet to our daily life then have a eating together,if i think he or she is a person worth i continue get along ,we will become friend in our life .it's interesting ,but also someone said it's a dangeous behavier.because internet full of lots of uncertain factors.maybe the person i chat on the internet is bad ,he will do something bad when we meet.so now i seldom meet the friend i know from the internet. how do you think about it ,frined .
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26 responses
@Baluyadav (3644)
• India
26 Nov 09
hi,dor,internet friends also friends and after having a long interaction on internet what's the wrong in meeting them personally..if situation comes,i want to meet 5 of mylot friends really..and one of them has planned tour to our country this summer along with family.Let us see.. Have a nice time.
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• China
26 Nov 09
baluyadav ,meeting friends from mylog in our true life maybe is great and different from other website friend ,because i always thought mylot person is kind and friendly ,
@monkeylong (3146)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Nov 09
As far as I'm concerned, I think I like to make friends from the internet which I enjoy most.I usually surf the net every day where I can enjoy my life to the fullest. I have made a lot of online friends, which I think it is possible for us to make online friends. We can talk about the things happened around us. Just happy to make friends online. Happy mylot.
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• China
27 Nov 09
yeah ,you said it monkeylong ,we can talk about everything we like with our online friends ,because we are just online friend not on the true life ,need't consider so much
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@carla_roa (128)
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
Online friends are not bad. It is nice to meet someone from other places and share about anything to them. It is actually fun taking to them because you could share about your thoughts. But I'm not sure about meeting them in person. I think you should be careful in meeting them but you could at least try but just be 100% sure about that person and know them better.
• China
30 Nov 09
hi ,i think if you meet person has a different face from you know on the internet ,maybe you are not interested to meet again.
• Iraq
19 Dec 09
hello internet factor to good friend,even through very remote and was familiar with each other and exchange things lhke that online is not a must ,even if email is good agree the cavalry. parpar7 parparjald@yahoo.com
@aadi_87 (347)
• India
26 Nov 09
Hi!! I have many online friends especially girls he he and I have met most of them in reality as well.Initially I wasn't interested in chatting online as I used to find it boring and a waste of time but many of my friends used to love it so even I decided to give it a try he he.Thanks to them I have made many great friends online whom I know now since 1-2 years and have helped me in many ways.We often catch up with each others for movies or birthday parties once or twice every month.I even met my girlfriend online and we have been with each other for 6 months now and that's really the best thing that has happened to me because of these chatting sites.You're also right that many a times you aren't aware about the opposite person whether he is true or a fake but thankfully I have been lucky in that matter and almost all of the people I made friends online have been very supportive and nice to me.
• China
27 Nov 09
thanks for your response addi and i'm so happey to see what you said ,you are really luck guy ,all the friends from the internet are great ,so just cherish your relationship .
@aadi_87 (347)
• India
27 Nov 09
Thank you for those kind words.I believe if you are honest and truthful you would always get good friends.
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
It may be good to have friends online but it's better for me to have friends in real life. I agree with you that sometimes it could be dangerous to meet a person in real from online. He/She may be fake after all but anyway, it's always up to the person if you he/she wants to eyeball with the person he/she met online. We may try but not to trust so much. just want to share my thoughts. Good day everyone!
• China
27 Nov 09
yeah ,i agree with you ,now i perfer make friends in our real life .i'm a girl ,i have to avoid these uncertain factors.
@Godmother (476)
• Indonesia
26 Nov 09
My job is in the marketing sector so I am not all the time behind the computer, that's why I do not chat on-line. But I am trying to make new friends through mylot. If we are active in reading all the comments, we finally pick out some friends whose answers are close to our own perceptions of things or we think are very wise people, or even humorous. That way I can learn about their personality and point of view before I decide to meet them, because I do travel abroad and am planning next year to visit Europe and Israel. I bet it's fun to meet another mylotter in person, whom we've known only through the internet all these times. I'm really looking forward to it.
• China
30 Nov 09
hi ,i think you are a boy ,meet on line person is not a problem ,for girl ,sometime is dangerous .but different person have different idea
• China
26 Nov 09
hey ,when i can chat with others on the internet,i dived most of time.'cause i did believe it was unreal to chat with other person who i didn't know anything about them,and it is meaningless.just waste my precious time.but when i learn more things about life,and sometimes it is so boring,nothing to do.i think chatting with others from all over the world ,i can kill my time,i can learn many things from them.the customs of other places...and if i met some problems in my life,i can ask them.learn the spirits that some of them face the life.in a word,you can gain something valuable from anything what you do,just deponds on your attitude.and i am afraid of meeting person who i know on the internet,'cause i met a guy,i do believe he is a very good guy in the real life,hardworking,initiative...only 'cause these,i was willing to meet him,but when we got meet,i found everyone has many faces,you show different face when you meet different people.so i made a decision i would not meet this kind of person any longer.i will prevent any potencial harm from me.sure,it deponds on your own judgment.just believe yourself and think twice before you do anything.
• China
30 Nov 09
yeah ,you said it,doing anything has it's meaning ,just depend on your attidute, chatting on line is the same.someone chating with person on line just kill time ,but someone can learn what he want know ,just different person have different attidute and purpose.and it's right ,everyone have many face .so take care everyting
@kiuhkj (117)
• China
26 Nov 09
I will only maintain the online friends online. I feel that we are not aware of any interest in the proposal under the most true. In addition, because some people will use the internet as a bad thing, so please if you want to meet with online friends, I proposed to maintain a certain degree of wariness.
• China
27 Nov 09
thanks kiuhki ,yeah ,i know ,many person meet the friends from internet and something bad happened on them ,because maybe the person we know tell lie on the internet ,he is a bad guy and so on
• United States
5 Jan 10
Although I enjoy meeting people on the internet, I keep the friendship strictly online. There are too many crazy people out there and I never trust anyone completely.
• United States
30 Nov 09
I have made some friends on the internet. I thought I had met the most wonderful man that said the things I wanted to hear and we made plans to meet when he got done with his job and back to the states. But, then he asked me to send him some money because he lost his credit card and the company he worked for couldn't help him. I didn't send him any money and I haven't had any more communication with him. I was sad bout the situation. I hope I can meet somebody else on the internet. Happy Mylotting
• United States
29 Nov 09
Yes I like making friends on the internet. I have met people from the internet to. Some are very friendly some are not. But when I meet someone I make sure its in a public place to be safe. But I have lots of friends online I talk to everyday. I like making friends on the sites I am on to try to get to know them better. But I do have some great friends online.
@madteaparty (2761)
• Japan
28 Nov 09
I have made really good friends in the internet. Actually, I met many of my current friends in forums or social networks. Of course you have to be careful with whom you meet, as you can't trust everyone, but seems that I was lucky.
@hobegao (136)
• China
28 Nov 09
i did this only once,and that’s couple month ago?we got each other’s information from a blog,and we are living the same place?befor we met i worked far away from home,someday later i went home,and we got seen by chance when i played in the city wher we both lived,and we had few words and it's not as excited as i would like to ,also not as embraced as i thought?
• China
28 Nov 09
i think it's a good way to make friends from the internet. but in fact for me, i havent get any good friend from the internet, but my classmates, or their friends. but i do have some ones online, we can share a lot of things, such as the working, travel, and so on, but havent met in the true life. dont know after meeting in the true life, if we can still be good friends like so.
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
27 Nov 09
Yes, I like making friends from the internet. If possible I want to meet them but it sad because they are from somewhere apart from me...
• India
27 Nov 09
according to me.....this friendship on internet is quiet stupid concept...actually i don't prefer it much...coz i believe its hard to know an unknown person person by chatting....actually i do chat but with my known friends...making new friends in internet is quite out of my choice...sumtimes sum1 talks so politely that u may not get what he/she really intends...specially for the teenagers it becomes sumtimes a gr8 fault..
@gina2008 (248)
27 Nov 09
I met an awesome friend on the internet. We met in a miscarriage board. We started talking about 1 year ago. We have many things in c oommon and although I have never "met" her personally- I feel like she is one of the best friends I have ever had. I tell her everything! She tells me everything! We say one day if we ever have the money that we will get together and meet. We both ended up being pregnant again. Our children are 3 weeks apart! We both had girls. She is awesome. Even if we never personally meet, I know that we will be friends forever.
@ToniTsui (39)
27 Nov 09
I have the similar experience when I was in university .At one time I was keen on making friends that way because I am the one who need many friends.some stranger talk with me on line and as time goes by,we become familiar .So finally we will meet .Now I recall the experience ,instead I feel afraid ,because if I don't know the reality of him , situationn could be dangerous, fortunately most my on line friends were the students in the same university so nothing tragic happy .but after I graduated , I don't make on line friends any more .At the most , I will just chat but never meet
@Porcospino (18767)
• Denmark
27 Nov 09
I met many of my online friends, and some of them have become close friends. We sometimes visit eachother in real life, and I am very happy that we have met. I am a member of a Danish dating/friendship site and I have found some very good friends there. I created a group from my local area, some of the other members joined the group and we decided to meet. We drank coffee at a café, and after that we had dinner together. In the beginning we were all pretty quiet because we didn't know eachother, but after a while we started talking and we had a really good time together.
• Indonesia
27 Nov 09
In my opinion you're right,meet new people from different palces is nice, I like to make friends with anyone, may i suggest when first time we meet he/she, we can see from the appearance of that person how he speakd,his behavior,etc. So at least we know a litle things of the new people that we had just meet.