No one's willing to listen!

@becdmd (705)
Philippines
November 28, 2009 10:36am CST
Do you feel sometimes you have no one to talk to about your personal situation, about the things you want to share with a friend and some details about your life even the small ones? You were excited to talk about it but then no one's around? As if your friends turn away from you...others went into their caves and hide? You're looking for someone who is accountable but everyone is busy. Do you feel isolated..so alone?
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9 responses
• Singapore
28 Nov 09
Do you have husband, close friend, or parents? they are the closest people in your life. Why they wouldn't hear you? I guess, you talk in wrong situation such as in their bad mood or busy things. And one thing which is more important is yourself. Watch your appearance or your smell that may not be good to them. That's what I did if I'm in that case. I would better watch movie alone or read some books, if it's really doesn't work at all.
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@becdmd (705)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
haha I don't have a bad breath and odor...lol! maybe ur right they're just busy when I've felt isolated...but I just felt this kind of way very rare. thanks for the advice and response anyway!
@madie8008 (209)
• Malaysia
28 Nov 09
Sometimes I do. However, the other problem is I don't like to share my personal problem with others. I like to solve it using my own ability. However, when I don't have time, emergency matters etc I would like to ask someone to help me. Maybe a good listener will help in time like that.
@becdmd (705)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
I see...you're just a private person..it's ok but you still need to have a person to be accountable with.
• Philippines
28 Nov 09
yes sometimes I feel so alone and isolated with the people around me... but with God i feel home... Every time I feel so alone that no one out there care to listen.. I speak with God.. after.. I feel so refreshed, inspired, uplifted, as if I have talked to the best listener you could ever had.
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@becdmd (705)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
Amen to that! He's always there to listen.
@voldrox (7204)
• India
29 Nov 09
hi becdmd, i have once been there... there was this moment i was all excited and wanted to share this with my very close friend, i call her often and share many things with her and this day i was so excited and wanted to share it with her so badly i don't know why but it kinda felt sad when she didn't have time to attend my call, well but the next day i said her i was actually a little low coz i could not talk with you when i wanted to, i don't have many close friends with whom i share my things, i am a conservative kind and have lesser close friends but they mean so much to me... but well is it quite weird coz i don't like to share my sad times much with them?
@becdmd (705)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
same here...I don't have so many friends but I have few close ones...I think you just don't want to dwell on the sad things..but sometimes it's much better when you share the times u feel low and you will be relieved when someone cares for you and you will feel relieved after that.
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@voldrox (7204)
• India
30 Nov 09
yes you are right becdmd, sharing when feeling bad makes one feel better, i don't do that always but i have been a listener and i can feel what it is like to bear with your friend when he/she is having a bad time.
@voldrox (7204)
• India
1 Dec 09
thank you for the best response becdmd ... i am sure you will find someone one day who will listen to everything you have to say
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
sometimes when everyone have their own worries i left to resolve it by myself. though, i learn to be independent most of the times. i still feel good knowing someone is willing to listen and advice me even though i already know to advice myself. things quite differences when some friends or loved one takes their time to advice makes it makes me feel valuable as it mean they are deeply concern with my welfare.
@becdmd (705)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
true! aside from the advice you have on yourself...you will e guided by your friends if made the right choice or decision.
@offlimits (601)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
I would feel like that sometimes, but not too often. I am the type of person who keeps things by myself. I don't easily open up to people so I think it's just normal for me to feel that way. Well it's my choice. I just feel that no one would really care to listen, so it's better to stick to myself. But don't get me wrong, I am happy with the way I am and I have good friends but I just don't talk about my feelings openly. Take care! :)
@becdmd (705)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
it's ok, there are lots of private person like you...but once in a while it's also good to share it with others, it's much better to know someones out there who cares. but stay happy and take care as well.
• India
29 Nov 09
hi we are humanbeings we can tell and discus our problems but what about animals and our pets?We have a dog when I take care of it my wife says you care dog more than yourself and I say it can't tell so we we have to look after it.Also when I feel to share my problem I share with my dog and realy it lisens and sometimes nods,i know i will not get the solution but it helps to reduce my berdan. A friend in need is a friend indeed.take care good life.
@becdmd (705)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
wow! ur blessed to have a listening dog with you lol! I can picture it in my head already and remember my dog when she's alive she also listens to me too...
@Hatley (164485)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Nov 09
becdmd hi sometimes Ihave felt like that but I ended up talking to my best friend Nelda and to my only family my adult son. I have a few friends here but they are not the kind I would feel comfortable confiding private stuff with. I have been through hell this past year and only my best friend and my son, and our friend mike david helped me. the people here in Gold Crest are mostly not wanting to be friends and some are in another world, literally looney tunes world.
@becdmd (705)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
lol! looney tunes world? strange hehe...at least u have the best people to talk about private matters.
@sublime03 (1811)
• Philippines
10 Dec 09
The person I expect to listen to my endless rant on big or little things is most of the time late or maybe absent when I am in the room about to sleep. So instead of my frustration going to waste, I tend to just go online here and just share my thoughts instead. In this way, I do not feel so alone thus I can sleep better.