Compitition with friends is good or bad.

@rucrazy4 (785)
India
November 29, 2009 12:33am CST
Many time some topic or activity i compete my best friend ..... some time i am dont agree with that topic and become angry and same as with my friends... i want to advice ... that compete with friend is good or bad..
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6 responses
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
Competition is good but it must be a fair one. Others play it dirty making competition bad. When you compete, do your best in your own way. Don't copy your friends strategy and claim it as your own. Its bad. Each of us has our own style of doing work. Who knows your style is better.
@rucrazy4 (785)
• India
30 Nov 09
Well i start this discussion .. and have wrong view about competition in friends.. but i learn that .. if we respect other competitor then we get always positive result.
@Baluyadav (3644)
• India
29 Nov 09
hi,Competition with not only friend,it is right with any body until it has not changed to jealousy....so you are sailing in right path..carry on.. Have a nice time.
@rucrazy4 (785)
• India
29 Nov 09
I GOT IT.. AND FIND a way that we respect other while compete them then we get positive result always///
• Australia
29 Nov 09
If there was no competition in the world we would all be living in a massive Communist State. If you look at the markets, whether it be the share market, the meat market, or even the education market, there is always competition. Why? Because competition between another company, person, friend etc will always result in one another improving there product, there money, there marks in order to be competitive with the other person, company etc. This is how the free market in economics works. It is almost vital for the existence of an economy. But there gets a point in personal relationships such as yours that competition can have detrimental effects. If you look at the global financial crisis, there was so much competition that the economy collapsed. That is why it is vital for there the be regulation in the economy and of course in your relationship with your friend. By regulation in the context of your relationship I mean boundaries or parameters that must be set with how far this competition can go so that both of you are not left hurt by the others actions. For instance only compete at a jovial level. Never get angry or jealous at the achievements of the other. Always congratulate your friend when he or she has done better than you at sport or exams. Always talk about other subjects other than what ever you are competing at.
@rucrazy4 (785)
• India
29 Nov 09
I like your last you paragraph... but we jealous when we got less from our competitor but also according to you that if we do all with positive way then i will improve self..
• India
29 Nov 09
Hi, Competing with friends was a usual thing that happens in my life too. But i doesn't get angry for any reasons. Similar way, my friends doesn't get angry with me. We doesn't care what ever happens. So my advice is not get anger with your friends, because there is a chance lose your true friend.
@rucrazy4 (785)
• India
29 Nov 09
I understand.... that .. there is chance of losing friend ... but... i notice one thing in this discussion .. that if we are polite with our friend while do compete then their is no bad ... with our competition..
@carla_roa (128)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
Competing with friends could be a good thing or a bad thing. It depends on how you treat yourselves in the competition. We all have disagreements with other people even with our friends even to our family but the best thing you should do is just talk and express how you feel, if he has different opinion, then you should also try, to listen. You could argue, but never say his opinion is wrong because even if you know he is wrong you should still respect him or just try to make him understand but in a polite way.
@rucrazy4 (785)
• India
29 Nov 09
Yaa it is better way .. to handle such condition which are comes by competition with us... means if we go for compete with any one.. we do respect to other...
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
it is bad most of the time as friendship lead to bitterness and lot of revenge. jealousy brought by competition may occur which is very bad and i hate to play on m friends weaknesses as i am not happy seeing someone being sad.i like all my friend feel happy although both offline and online whom i just met are not to be trusted as they are bunch of liars and full of pretension.