Is there anything you do not like about a friend.

@jugsjugs (13045)
November 30, 2009 3:22pm CST
I have a friend that i have not seen for over three months and out of the blue she wants us to meet up.She is a friend that i have known for 13 years at least and it seems that in the last year she tends to want to see me when she has nothing better to do or when she wants something or wants to find out something.
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@cream97 (29166)
• United States
30 Nov 09
I don't like a friend that is a liar. And I don't like a friend that is mean and nasty. I want a friend whom is honest and trustworthy. I don't like a friend that makes fun of others and me. I don't like it when they are jealous and competitive.
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@cream97 (29166)
• United States
30 Nov 09
That is how some friends are they only call you when they need you. But, I don't call them friends, I call them users. I hope that your friend will stop using your friendship for her own leisure.
@Hatley (164534)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Nov 09
dear cream I do not even call those people friends although I am sure they think they are but I do not like to be used or to be hurt in the name of phony friendship either. to make fun of one and others is not what I call friendliness. so I duck the other way when those people come to find me. i am gone.
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@Iram786 (498)
30 Nov 09
i know this may not sound nice but it is so true. i have this friend who at times just sounds like a total a**hole and sounds and acts so gay at times and everyone thinks this but my friend doesn't know that they act like this and i've tried hinting at them but they just still don't get it. and i don't wanna say it out loud.
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• United States
30 Nov 09
I know how you feel... that has happened to me before. They treat you like your second best... like if they have nothing else going for them they will call you or w/e because its better then being alone. When it happened to me i just stopped trying... I'd let them call me if they wanted to and that was that. I'm a loyal person but at the same time i want to get back what i put into any relationship- all relationships should be 50 05. DO let anyone use you or make you feel second best because your not!
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• Philippines
4 Dec 09
I don't want friends with benefits. Like for example, they are just there if they will get something in return. I have so many friends before that were like that, we already parted ways now. I also don't like when a friend is not listening to what i say, when I have problems I am not the type who share it, i keep it inside I try to solve my problems. But when I decided to share it, I mean it. i really need their help, if i say i would like them to listen I mean it. I have a friend that when I did share my problem on her, she will also share her problem, which mean the focus was transfer to her and she will forgot about me. i hate when a friend is not listening. That is why I seldom share my problems.
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
3 Dec 09
If there are legitimately things that I don't like about a person then they are not typically my friends. All of my friends are my friends for specific reasons. There are my friends that I have had since childhood because when we were children there were a lot of things that we had in common and they remain my friends today because even though our lives have diverged, there are still things that we have in common about the stages that we are in with our lives. Then, there are my more current friends that have become my friends because we all have children that are in the same stage in life. However, if I see that people are backstabbing or using me, then they are not my friends.
@kellyjeanne (1576)
• United States
2 Dec 09
She sounds rather selfish to me and doesn't really care about what's happening in your life or seem to have any respect to the fact that you even have a life. People like that I find maddening. Purrs, Catwoman=^..^= & Mija
@celticeagle (119003)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Dec 09
I have one friend who is very devoted to her husband. She is sick herself and yet she helps him and is always doing something to help others. Then I have another friend who is very artistic and makes things all the time. I have another friend who has had alot of problems in her life and yet she is always positive and pleasant. The friend I did have that there were things about which I didn't like is no longer my friend.
@Genericbe (1378)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
hi jugsjugs, Yes, there are things i do not like about when having a friend..Especially, those friends who has nothing to do but always pretend to be a friend but never was a real friend.. I guess, we cannot change people the way they are, from the time you have accepted him to be your friend? knowing all or some things about him? is not enough to say what kind/ type of friend will you consider him, or what are your limits if any to consider a person to be your friend..unless, you are confident and sure enough to conclude him as friend.. and all these may vary on the trials and memories you went through.. Having friends is good, but once you have accepted any person as a friend? whatever comes next? somehow he had been a part of your life too.. there are things we have nothing to do but to accept and realize that friends do come and go.. In spite of it, still we become a good friend to him without expecting any in return..
@Hatley (164534)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Nov 09
jugsjugs why do you call her a friend if she annoys you that much. to me a friend is someone I like and really would like to be with and visit. If I did not like her I would never call her a real friend. a real friend is someone you like and like to see anytime any place so I think maybe your friendship has bite the dust.