We are completing Forty yrs of married life

40 years of married life - We got married on 02 Dec, 1989
India
November 30, 2009 8:00pm CST
Hello everyone here Ji, We were married on 02 Dec, 2069, goingto complete our 40 yrs of long relatioship with many sweet and sourtaste to the life. I wish to join all those couples who too have completed such land-marks. This is the only one marriage, without an dating, without meeting even once before. We can say that our married life has been most successful.Right from first day of marriage,wealways have been together May God bless eveyone here.
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@Lakota12 (42794)
• United States
1 Dec 09
Well Congrats on the 40 years. and many more yeard to come! but look at your date! That sort of looks so funny
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• India
1 Dec 09
Hello my friend Lakota12 Ji, So nice of you. Thanks and I am really very sorry to make 2069 instead of 1969. I must have been excited very much and just made mistake. Thanks for correction. You may find us 40 yrs back at comment No.1. May God bless You and have a great time.
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@Lakota12 (42794)
• United States
1 Dec 09
sorry to correct you but that weird year none of us would be here to celebrat your 40th hugssssssss
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend Lakota12 Ji, You are raelly my friend, as correction means, you are improving my personality. Every correction should be taken in positive direction. I do realise and always welcome such corerctions in future as well. May God bles You and have agraet time.
@jennybianca (12918)
• Australia
1 Dec 09
Congratulations. It must be wonderful to know that you can have such happiness for so long. Was yours an arranged Marriage? Many happy thoughts for your contuing long marriage.
• India
1 Dec 09
40 yrs back - We looked like this
Hello my friend jennybianca Ji, A small correction is due. Year of marriage was 1969 instaed of 2069 . So nice of you for Your wishes and as well as sharing your views with me. Yes, it was our arranged marriage, we had never met before. I was a teacher at the college and came to spend some quality time with my Mom, and it was arranged by both parents. It is like adding more sugar to juice, it becomes more tasty, as we march ahead into our married life, we enjoy both sides of the coin. I wish to post our photograph, immediately after our marriage now. May God bless You and have a great time.
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@jennybianca (12918)
• Australia
2 Dec 09
They are very kind comments.Your photo is really lovely.
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend jennybianca Ji, So nice of you for praising words. may god bless You and have a graet time.
• India
1 Dec 09
Congratulations... Its very encouraging for young like us ... Thanks ..
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend sincere4frdship Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. Life has beenvery much cheerful and wonderul. There is absolutely nocomparion with living alone . I am happy to note that you too would like to continue like us. This is very much encouragin these days. May God bless You and have a graet time.
• India
2 Dec 09
Thanks Dear ...
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@Josflch (93)
• Malaysia
2 Dec 09
Congratulations. The relationship must be very sweet. Not all people are able to do that. I also hope that I can do that, but I still very young. Nows a day many relationship between young couple are not able to maintain a longer period. Rate of divorce are getting higher and higher. It is very sad.It is happy to knowing someone having a sweet relationship like your example. I believe God will bless you. Have a nice day.
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend kvkmurthy234 Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. Life has been very much cheerful and wonderul. There is absolutely no comparion with living alone God has always been great to us, even in ourdiversity conditions. We never forget HIM. One should always think about other spouse. Couple should always think og togetherness and never by oneself. May God bless You and have a graet time.
@artistry (4154)
• United States
1 Dec 09
..Hi maygodblessu44, Congratulations to you both for sharing and caring about each other. Any couple who stays together for so long, must be given great credit for wanting to stay committed and both doing their best to be there for the other. There is also the flexibility you practice each day, for not wanting to have your way and giving the other person comfort when it is needed and love as much as possible. So many things go into a successful long term relationship, you two are a great example of how to stay married and be happy. Take care of yourselves and have many more happy years together.
• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend artistry Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. Life has been very much cheerful and wonderul. There is absolutely no comparion with living alone . We both are very happy to go through your encouraging words. Compromise is another suitable replacement. I remember, when I could ot do any job in Kitchen due to my RA sickness, my hubby encouraged me, he might have left me as well, but he always encouraged me for living and enjoying. Each moment in life is a lesson for future. Let's enjoy. May God bless You and have a graet time.
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@raj_ka (431)
• India
1 Dec 09
hi, I know its great acheivement to stay 40 yrs together and I WISH YOU TO BUILD A MORE STRONG BOND OF LOVE. HAPPY ANNIVERSARY,I first saw the year was incorrect then after reading the first comment came to know the exact date. Its very rare thing and my maternal grandfather and grandmother acheived it 3 years back by celebrating there 60 years anniversary.But unfortunately my grandfather passed 1 year back. In some countries due to early marriage maybe one can acheive such things as my grandfather was 18 and my grandmother was 15 years old when they got married.
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend raj_ka Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. '2069' was a result of over exciting , which is just impossible. In fact it is 1969. The only wish is to live together hale and hearty. In factI was 25 yrs and junior to my hubby by 6 ys. He was very late to marry as per our customs. After marriage, we always lived together, other tahn duty hours. Even today we are together. May God bless You and have a graet time.
@crazybubu (230)
• India
1 Dec 09
First of all congratulations to have completed 40 golden years of togetherness.Gives me enormous pleasure to know that there are people who believe that love is the only relation that can last forever.I wish you success for your future.I am still young but hope that my marriage life also be like yours.
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend crazybubu Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. Life has been very much cheerful and wonderul. There is absolutely no comparion with living alone . Get married soon and take this eternal journey to pleasent destination. May God bless You and have a graet time.
@Lucky09 (1771)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
hi maygodblessu^^;; you know i am really touch to know and witness couples keeping their relationship and married life for the rest of their life and it's really overwhelming. CONGRATULATIONS! may you serve an inspiration to us new generation on how to treat married life a sacred vow there was this song in our language that says, "even if we are old and our hair turns into gray, i hope everything won't change like we were newly inlove"
• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend Lucky09 Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. Life has been very much cheerful and wonderul. There is absolutely no comparion with living alone . It was a great inspiral song for us at this age. May God bless You and have a graet time.
@Buchi_bulla (8299)
• India
1 Dec 09
Happy marriage anniversary maygodblessu44, I wish you both should live for many more years to come with good health and peace of mind.
• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend Buchi_bulla Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. Life has been very much cheerful and wonderul. There is absolutely no comparion with living alone. May God bless You and have a graet time.
@kafueenu (1073)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
Wow! Congratulations, I hope me and my boyfriend would be like that in the future. I wish you good health and more years to come together. Happy Anniversary ^_^_^
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend kafueenu Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. Life has beenvery much cheerful and wonderul. There is absolutely no comparion with living alone . Get married soonto completer forty and beyondlike us. May God bless You and have a graet time.
@riyasam (16582)
• India
1 Dec 09
CONGRAGULATIONS!!!i also love to achieve that landmark and we are striving towards it,we have completed 10 years and are now in the 11yr.as you say,sometimes things are not easy but we always wish to be together.
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend riyasam Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. It is further coinciding that our lone daughter too is entering into eighth Yaer of married life. May God bless You and have a graet time.
@VANILLAREY (1473)
• India
1 Dec 09
HAPPY MARRIAGE ANNIVERSARY. Hope you enjoy more happy years together.
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend VANILLAREY Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. May God bless You and have a graet time.
• India
1 Dec 09
Congratulations!What a fantastic achievement.May you enjoy each other's company for many more years. You are a prime example of how to exist in harmony for the modern world that has become so fickle minded and break up marriages on the slightest of pretexts.God bless you.
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend abhikmjmdr Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. Life has beenvery much cheerful and wonderul. There is absolutely nocomparion with living alone May God bless You and have a graet time.
@Jackie8 (127)
• China
1 Dec 09
Congratulation! and Happy your Wedding anniversary celebration!
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend Jackie8 Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. Nice to see that you have travelled o this wonderful figure of 100. May God bless You and have a graet time.
• India
1 Dec 09
Hello, my hearty congratulations for crossing your 40th year of marriage. It must be great and a cherished landmark for you. I do join you on this occasion and wish both of you long healthy and prosperity in your life further to come.Happy my lotting.Thanks!!
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend kvkmurthy234 Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. Life has beenvery much cheerful and wonderul. There is absolutely nocomparion with living alone May God bless You and have a graet time.
@rika999 (104)
• India
1 Dec 09
congratulations to happy couple for completing such a happy married life of about 40 years together.. may god bless you with a century of this life... i will be highly obliged to get the opportunity to attend your 50th wedding anniversary...
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend rika999 Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. We would surely like and remember to invite you as you live very close to our heart like our own daughter. Your sense of feelings have brougt me very close.Please do PM me with your email ID to start with. May God bless You and have a graet time.
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
Oh wow! Congratulations. Happy Anniversary.
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend wookieekyut Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. May God bless You and have a graet time.
• India
1 Dec 09
congratulations!!! may you continue to the date you mentioned, 2069. if i say something in praise it would only seem like showing light to the sun. tremendous load of experiences. i belong to this generation...but i've been married the way you described. 3rd year and still going strong and want to be there where u r now.
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• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend imdb2012 Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. '2069' was a result of over exciting , which is just impossible. In fact it is 1969. The only wish is to live together hale and hearty. May God bless You and have a graet time.
• India
1 Dec 09
Congratulations. May your future days bring more happiness to you. I believe in such relationships. For sure you are an example for the people who never believe in arrange marriage or who assumes that it's too difficult to get marry to a person, whom you don't know at all.
• India
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend sasmitadas Ji, A bundle of thanks for our ever lasting married life. For then my photo view comment No. 1. May God bless You and have a graet time.
• Australia
1 Dec 09
Well firstly I would like to congratulate both of you on such a marvelous and noble achievement. A few days ago, a fellow mylotter posted a discussion on whether 'marriage is the tomb of love?' and I am wondering whether you have a response to that question? I assume you married in 1969, what do you think has changed over the years in terms of your relationship. Have you become closer or do you think you were closer together during the initial stages of your marriage, then a little apart then closer? Have you had children? Congrats.
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• India
1 Dec 09
Hello my frend yourlankanfriend Ji, Many many thanks. You are very right, it was in 1969 and not in 2069 as selled in my discussion. It was purely due to over-excitement and forgetting nature at this junction of life. We both think that traditional values of life are being over-looked by mere selfish moto. Marriages have ecome compromise. Just observe here, hardly 'Husband or wife' is being mentioned, instead we call and name it as partners. The very relation and purpose of marrage s being defeated. Other ay only, my hubby was trying to explain the very necessity of marriage. In that he bluntly said,if earlier parents would have thought of partners instead of marriage, then that person would not have been born. You may view us at comment N.1 (40 yrs back) May God bless You and have a great time.
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