the strip club
By foreverstl
@foreverstl (127)
United States
77 responses
@soldenski (2503)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Why let him go??? GO WITH HIM!!!! For my husband's birthday my aunt's, sister and I took my husband to one. He even got a lapdance from some ugly chick.
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
30 Nov 06
interesting view of the whole situation
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
30 Nov 06
wow! I wonder how he liked that and if he wants to go back. I just can get the feel of my man getting a lap dance from another female
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@soldenski (2503)
• United States
30 Nov 06
You would be surprised. Not saying all strippers are ugly...but I have seen one pretty stripper, she was very friendly, pretty, had a nice body, and did a great show. She stayed with us, just talking, unlike the other girls would stop just to see if we would tip them and leave. I'm not into women, so I really just go to have fun with my friends.
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@Crystalwatson345 (441)
• United States
29 Nov 06
I wouldnt because you are giving him temptastions dont mess with fire girl!
@foreverstl (127)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Hi five on that. thanx 4 the comment
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
29 Nov 06
I think you'd be surprised really...I mean if he's tempted that easily then i wouldnt even let him watch cable tv and do you really think he'd give in to any temptations?? I mean we're talkin about your man..what ever happened to trust ya know....Just a thought
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I would hope he wouldn't be tempted so easily. i mean i think that when you are really into your relationship you shouldn't let temptation get in the way.
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@sexysilver (928)
• United States
16 Nov 06
As a married woman I can tell you that letting your man go to the srtip club does not mean he will stay from you. He is going to look (and yes maybe get some dances).
Now, as someone who worked at a strip club I can also tell you that the women there ae just doing their job. They'll dance for your man, flirt (yes, don't pretend you didn't know that part), and at the end of the night they plan on going and getting in bed & having fun with ... THEIR OWN HUSBANDS.
LOL, yes, most stippers have husbands or a boyfriend & ALL the ones I worked with had kids. One of the dancers that I worked with that got the most attention had not only a hubby, but FIVE kids. She just wanted to be able to support her family & make ends meet.
Same with myself (except I only have 2 kids), I just wanted to make ends meet & to come home to my family after going to work (although I did enjoy working there).
Trust me your man will come home to YOU. If your man was looking to cheat he could go to a "friend" that he works with.
Let us know how everything goes. :)
@sexysilver (928)
• United States
16 Nov 06
Oh I forgot to mention that the srip bar I worked at couples are welcome, are there any like that where you live? I know some women might feel uncomfortable, but if you go then you might see for yourself how your husband acts there.
Also since I worked there & was friends with the other girls a lot of the other girls would go up to me & tell me that my huband wanted them to dance for him & if it was okay w/ me!
They knew what I was ok with & what I wasn't ok with.
Maybe if you get to know the girls there, you can have peace of mind in that way too.
Just a thought.
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@buffetwoman (623)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I agree with sexysilver... the girls there are just doing their job. I've gone a few times with my hubby just to watch. I never once judged the girls for what they do. They are really very nice- and they do need to make a living.Hey there are bills to be paid, and that's a fast way to do it. I wouldn't do it because I'd scare away all of the customers, hee hee ! When they flirt, they're doing it just to make money, and I think that is ok.
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@sassymouth77 (149)
• United States
16 Nov 06
In my opinion if he wants to go then something is wrong. Why does he feel he needs to go there? It is disrespectful. Yes there is harm in looking. It is lustful. If he is going to a strip club he hsa something on his mind even if he is not acting on it. If you are with someone, that is who you should have eyes for. This is just my opinion
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@sexysilver (928)
• United States
16 Nov 06
Why is his wanting to go there mean something is wrong?
How is he being disrespectful? He is bringing this matter to her attention instead of sneaking around behind her back.
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 06
I don't see why not. It still depends on the type of person your man is. If he is really could not be trusted, then you should protest to him. (Anyway, if he is not to be trusted, he will still go without your knowledge rite ;) I think it is ok to let him enjoy, but remind him not to cross the line & give u call before home. Need no worry, the guard over there will take care of him, if he dare to touch...
@foreverstl (127)
• United States
29 Nov 06
well here u can do a whole lot more that just touch. I dont like these strip clubs. We do have some where you really can only look. Maybe i would let him go to those. He hasn't tried to go yet but if the subject ever came up it would depend on which one he is trying to go to.
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
29 Nov 06
well here u can do a whole lot more that just touch. I dont like these strip clubs. We do have some where you really can only look. Maybe i would let him go to those. He hasn't tried to go yet but if the subject ever came up it would depend on which one he is trying to go to.
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
29 Nov 06
have u ever been to saint louis if not you should come and find out some of the things that go on in those clubs. It aint no place for a person in a relationship. so just like u said, he may be tempted to do more than just look.
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
29 Nov 06
have u ever been to saint louis if not you should come and find out some of the things that go on in those clubs. It aint no place for a person in a relationship. so just like u said, he may be tempted to do more than just look.
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@ScarletAlston (2693)
• United States
2 Dec 06
I would..most of the girls there are pretty much smuts (smut=hoe,tramp,nasty,skanky) so I know my man wouldnt really be interested in them or be tempted to stray..besides, would you rather him go and you know about it..or he going and lying to you later?
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
2 Dec 06
i really dont want him to go and would hope that he wouldnt sneek behind my back. but he is a real sweety pie and i trust that if i said no that he wouldnt go. I also trust that if i said he could go he wouldnt do anything wrong. These girls in these clubs here are down 4 whatever. but i think its a respect thing 4 him not to go since he is in a relationship
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@nanhegujral (4632)
• India
2 Dec 06
If I would have been a women the I would never had allowed my men to go to strip club.
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
2 Dec 06
I dont think i will allow him to go to the strip club either. I just dont feel comfortable about those type places, besided i can do anything he wants me to do anyway. thanx 4 the comment
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@manzician (4727)
• India
15 Nov 06
Ohh yea... Why not??? Aneewayz... Thanks for your question... Its really nice to be here at mylot... Are you guys here for money or just for fun???
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
15 Nov 06
money and fun. go ahead and have fun while making money. At first it was for the money, but it also became very fun.
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Hey, I live in Saint Louis and in these strip clubs they do it all. If u know what I mean.
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@busybeaver (659)
• Australia
15 Nov 06
yeah go on he will only be looking anyway. no harm in looking.
@Blitzkrieg (121)
• Brazil
30 Nov 06
It's almost the same as looking at a TV. Do you get jealous when he watch women at TV?
@bonnessei (35)
• United States
1 Dec 06
Wow...this is a loaded question. Some might argue about the terminology used...should you "LET" him go? Personally, I don't "LET" my husband do anything, and he certainly doesn't use that language with me. But that aside, this is a decision that only you and your man can decide on your own. You have to live with the consequences. Personally, I have never had a problem with my husband going anywhere, strip clubs included. I trust him to do the right thing no matter what the situation. He could meet some chick at the grocery store and go home with her just as well as anywhere else. In fact, because of the strict no touching rules at the clubs, he would probably get luckier at the store. lol I believe that if you are in a monogamous, committed relationship then it doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home... ;) And in case anyone is wondering, we have been happily (and faithfully) married for over 23 yrs...
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
2 Dec 06
lol,lol. thanx 4 the comment. Where i'm from u can definitely get lucky in these strip clubs, but we do also some more upscale clubs. He is not that type of person to do those type of things even if he did go to the dirty ones. I trust him but its not the trust at question. I just dont think its apropriate for men in relationships to go to those type of places. he has not asked or tried to go but thats not yet. I think he knows that im not playin that
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@disclosed08 (102)
• United States
1 Dec 06
i wouldnt have a problem, all depends if you trust him. On the other hand I feel like you can pay me to shake my behind in your lap!
@foreverstl (127)
• United States
2 Dec 06
I do trust him but just like u said, I could do whatever it is he would be looking at in those clubs so as far as im concerned my answer to him would be no
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
2 Dec 06
you r right. He is not that type of person to do anything bad if he did go and i do trust him. its just the issue that i dont think men in relationships should be in those type of clubs.
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@texasclassygal (5305)
• United States
1 Dec 06
go with him if you are concerned, alot of couples go to strip clubs these days
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
2 Dec 06
it doesnt sound bad if we both had an interest in those clubs. I don't. I would not be at all comfortable going inside that place. I dont know, we can have a show in our own bedroom
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
2 Dec 06
Well i do have a really good man that does respect me and my interests. His friends go sometimes so if he ever ask to go with them and i said no he would just except that and not go. He really is a sweetie
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
2 Dec 06
thanx4 the comment and i feel the same way
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
2 Dec 06
He has not ask me yet but he knows people that go and there are lots of strip clubs where im from. im just wondering if i would be wrong to tell him no if he asked. He shouldnt ask bcuz as far as i am concerned he shouldnt have a reason to want to go. but i don't know what mens interests is in the strip club anyway. Especially the ones that are in current relationships
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@foreverstl (127)
• United States
2 Dec 06
thanx 4 the comment. I think my decision would be no because i just dont feel comfortable about the whole situation.
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@mkirby624 (1598)
• United States
30 Nov 06
Yeah let him..and go with him. Not necessarily to "watch him" but just to enjoy yourself. You will get turned on by it too most likely and if you don't..you can at least learn a few moves
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@LaCindaMae (36)
• United States
30 Nov 06
If my husband wanted to go to a strip club i'd tell him to have fun I know at the end of the night it's me he wants not some chick that he got a peep show from.
@foreverstl (127)
• United States
2 Dec 06
sorry but i have not logged on in a while. but would u let him go to some whole in the wall sleezy strip club where its more than just a peep show. now if its just a topless bar then that may be fine
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