wat if ur best friend betray u??

I have best friend during elementary, highschool up to my college days and I spend happy times with them as i have only few friends. I am very choosy when it comes to selection of friends which is mainly of good influences then I tend to avoid those backfighter, arrogant and hypocrite. Thus, it hurt me deeply if a friend betray me and it takes me longer to forget as I could forgive as long as the one who hurt me makes an apology and reconciliation. My only defect it is easy for me to trust a potential friend though I end up being betray as I hate those manipulative friends, over obsessed and control freak. it drives me away and I realize that I am better of not to have best friend as it hurt me when they just come as fast as fast as they go to leaving me alone. So, i do not like to depend on a word friendship as they never last they are only good at present but for a lifetime you could not depend on them as they have now new priorities. Friendship for the long run is always being sacrifices which i could not rely on it.

That is the reasons i do not like to have a best friend only friends as if you become so close to tell your secrets they would betray yo. now its safer not to have best friends. it is hard to trust anyone.

I think if one of my bestfriend betrayed me...I know it will really hurt me...and I think it's so hard to bring back the trust...but of course I would choose to forgive her...

yeah it is really hurting a lot if you found out that your bestfriend whom you trusted a lot betrays you.. that happens to me already when i was in high school. i guess with that age i think we can't really say someone who is close to us as our bestfriend already because we still young in mind.

hi friend,if my best friend betrayed me it will really hurts me a lot,off-course i will surely forgive he/she,but i don't think so the relationship will go smooth then after

First I'll doubt if there's some secret reason for her to do that, as we're best friends. I'll forgive her if she really has her own difficulties, otherwise she will be wipe out from my friend list.

Hmmm... that's one reason why I don't have a best friend--I can't take the rejection or betrayal (it's a foreseeable crisis; saves you a lot of heartache, though...) Hmmm, well, taking into consideration the possibility that I might have a wonderful, adorable best friend, I would feel totally crushed if she/he would betray me (e.g., reveal a secret about me, spread untrue rumors); and I would probably never trust him/her for the rest of his/her miserable life... but, anyway, from the Biblical point of view, it would be healthy to let go and let God heal the hurt and the pain... but trusting again would probably not be possible (for me)... Hope I was helpful... God bless!