are there reasons to love someone? specially your bf or gf...

Philippines
December 2, 2009 10:48am CST
i used to ask my partner this..."why do you love me?", at first, he was hesitant to answer it, he just smile and say "because I love you,that's all".... it is kinda sweet, right? but at the back of my mind, i always want to know why..there must be reasons,right? i think i love him because he accepted me even though at times i am immature,hehehe..and he is thoughtful and responsible..but i still wonder why some says that you can fall in love with one sight or what we call love at first sight, i think you must have reasons to really love someone..i hope i can get some ideas from you....
1 response
@ced_cap (207)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
we're the same musikaLorA. i always ask my husband why he loves me...he would also just smile and say the same thing...i think it's in their nature not to be very much expressive of what they think and feel...they just show it. but we women just love to hear what they would have to say. and one more thing, i also learned that you should love a person with no reason because love is unconditional. because what if one day "that reason is gone", how can you say you love him?
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
wow thanks...that was really mind opening...or just had an amnesia,lol, i forgot that love was unconditional...
@ced_cap (207)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
oh, don't worry about that...we just need to be reminded sometimes...