Just looking for someone to chat with today!

@free_man (7337)
United States
December 3, 2009 12:30pm CST
Do you ever have those days when you just want to chat with someone anyone? Don't matter what you chat about just someone to talk with about anything? Do you ever feel lonely for a voice anyone's voice? Today is one of those days for me. My husband just found out his mother spent all her money she had in a will for him and he is so upset about it, I am getting the short end of the deal. He is mad at her and I am the one that is paying for it! Can someone just chat with me today?
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9 responses
@sknsknskn (393)
• India
23 Feb 10
relly.............. hey man ...m free for chat....give me ue yahoo id...
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@free_man (7337)
• United States
23 Feb 10
Hi Sknsknskn. I was just having a bad day the day I wrote this and needed to hear from some one. I don't have yahoo messenger. I don't have any messenger on my computer. I use this computer to learn and earn. Thanks though.
• India
23 Feb 10
if u dont wana to give ur id, its ok....
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
Hi free_man, :-) lonely days.... it can strike anyone, no matter what reason, everybody has it one way or another. don't worry probably, the feeling will just pass by. i remember when i was young and when i was so terribly hurt, i didnt' notice i pour my emotion to a stranger sitting beside me on the bench facing the sea. later did i realized that i didn't knew him after all. but it helps. it lighten my feelings. just hold on..
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• Philippines
2 Feb 10
how are you feeling now free_man? i hope you are okay already - emotionally, that is.. just remember... there is always sunshine after the rain... God Bless you.
@monkeylong (3146)
• Guangzhou, China
4 Dec 09
Yeah, I think I can be one. As far as I am concerned, Sometimes I will have the days when I just want to chat with someone else.Maybe just as what you have said,we just need to talk with someone to drive off the loneliness.Maybe a person companied can be better. Happy mylot.
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@free_man (7337)
• United States
4 Dec 09
Hello Monkey. I have just been getting some real weird feelings from my husband. I guess it could be me. Maybe I am going nuts or something. I don't know but I just need to hear other people. Thanks it makes me feel a lot better knowing I have friends on here I can depend on to chat me through this loneliness. Have a great day!
@Ford666UK (103)
4 Dec 09
I often have days where I want to chat to someone, it helps me when I'm down or lonely. I'd be happy to chat to you. As for your husband don't take it personally, you just happen to be there for him to take his anger out on. Most people take their anger out on the nearest person and unfortunately for you its you. Hope he's better soon.
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@maean_19 (4662)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
Those days are just normal to happen. On my part, my fiancee is million miles away from me and that sometimes we have no time to chat because of the conflict of schedule. I tend to be so sad and seek to have someone to talk to. Especially that I am a conversant person who loves to have a sensible conversation. Definitely, there are times that we tend to look for someone to talk to when we are stressed or when we are tolerably mad about something or someone. An anger which cannot be released tends also to look for someone who will listen. Anyways, so how are you dear? I guess, your husband has to be relieved with his anger to your mother-in-law. Because if he does not, his anger may be absorbed by you.
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• China
4 Dec 09
hi,if you have something that make you upset,it's better to find a person to talk about it,then you will find better.but for me ,i like to stay alone to think about ,but i know different person have different way to resolve these things
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@free_man (7337)
• United States
4 Dec 09
Hello Doreencoco. I needed to blow off some steam I was having a real bad day yesterday. Been like this for a couple of days. Seems like the more I tried the worse things got. So I just stopped trying. Thanks for the response.
@JoyfulOne (6242)
• United States
3 Dec 09
Boy, lol, can I ever relate to how you're feeling! I never get to chat except online. I've been unable to drive (health reasons) since 2001 and I would love to hear another person's voice. If not for my girls and their families, I'd hardly ever get to talk to another soul. Every few months I get to chat with friends. Almost every one of them have moved to different states now, and the ones who are still around live far away and are long-distance, so it makes it harder to just have a nice chat anymore. Sorry to hear you're having a bad time with your hubby about this. Like 'Dear Abby' says, one's money is theirs until they die and they have a right to spend it as they choose. She also said that being given money through a will is a privilege, and not a 'right.' I love reading dear abby, she thinks things over and gives a good perspective on things. Hopefully he'll take it easier on you. It's a shame that people often take their anger out on the people they love instead of who they're actually angry at. I'm wishing for you a better day filled with love and friends who can help you keep a smile on your face and in your heart. Here's a 'Mom hug' from a gramma (X) to you:-)
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@free_man (7337)
• United States
3 Dec 09
Thanks Joy. I am just so upset about this I really need a friend today. I don't understand why he would get so mad at me. His mother is married to a man that nobody likes (but his mother is in love) and she wants to make her husband happy,while she is still alive. She isn't getting any younger. My husband has no right to tell her what she will spend her money on. I keep telling him this but it is like talking to the wall. He is upset with her anyway this man that she is married to caused him some trouble years back and he just plain hates him. I don't know what to do I didn't do anything that I know of. I just can't understand why I am getting the stinky end of the stick. Thanks for the hug.
@ayebelle (368)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
Yeah sometimes i also feel that way. And i always go to my cousin house and we can talk everything even though it doesn't make any sense. We just laugh all the night just to kill time. Now it's cold here especially in the morning and it's hard for me to wake up early because it's really a good moment to sleep. But i need to wake up early for school. I don't even want to waste my time just for sleeping. Have a good day! We can talk here if you want.
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@carrine (2749)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
yah exactly. it really happens to me that i have this kind of mood that i want to chat. no other things to do than to chat. and i have this kind of mood also that i hate chatting, i got irritated if somebody will chat me. they will said, oh you're so irate today huh? LOL lately i missed chatting so what i did was chatting most of the day this week. and i dont the mood to update my blogs.. grrrr..