break up with someone without hurting each other emotionally?

P.S. Friendship is out after a break up. why be friends with someone you've slept with? It will damage your new relationship, and you'll just end up stringing some poor sap along with dreams that he could get you back. Unless you wnat to keep him in your bullpen just in case the new relationship doesn't work out. That way you have him to fall back on until something better comes along.

Hi! I don't think breaking up will not cause pain. If the person is inlove and both parties invested their emotions but the relationship didn't work pain is still there. Love is always accompanied with pain. Breaking up is not easy especially in females because when we are in a relationship we always give our best, pour everything we have. We are more likely planning the future with our partner, always "we". "I" is set aside.

First of all I just want to say that I think it's great that you would want to remain friends. And yes, it is possible to stay friends with someone you shared a relationship with. It may not happen right away, but with time people forgive and forget and get on with their lives. There's probably some that just can't let go, but most of us are able to move on. If both people have mutual feelings about the break up, then I can't see one reason why they couldn't remain friends. Unless that too is a mutual decision.

hey thats a good thing to do. Even if you are not in relationship you can still be good friends. that best advise for you will be that you should personally meet her and sort this out. tell her the reason why you cant carry it further. make that person understand in a nice way. And give a friendship hand. All will be fine.

That's a really hard thing to do, but it is possible. If it was miss-communication then it's really had, but if you and your soon to be ex agrees on it and you both understand then it is possible. I've had a lot of break-ups and almost all of them ended poorly and we never stayed friends... except for one girl, we both loved each other and it both hurt us but we both had needs that just were not being met and we agreed to break up as BF and GF, we still talk and hang out as friends, sometimes we laugh and remember the "old times" and sometimes we wonder what would have happened if we had staid together, but we're still friends and I don't think that'll never change. It depends on the person and situation. So it is possible.

i think its imposible because when you brake whit someon you hort him and thats hort you too and thats is on very long time :(

Well I'm not sure if it's really all that possible. It would either take two really stable people or I guess you just never really loved each other that much. I have one girlfriend where things were okay when we broke up I was in a juvenile detention facility and she had to move away to Indiana. I still liked her but she still lives their. It's weird because we lived in Michigan and I got sent to a juvenile detention facility in Indiana too.

It really up to you if you still want your ex to be your friend but it is hard to do. Most of the time they separate ways and stop communicating with each other. It really up to you if you really want to continue your friendship.

Sorry, it's just not possible. Someone will get hurt. Pain is a part of life, it helps you grow. what hurts worse, however, is the "cheating" a woman will do because she doesn't want to "hurt the feelings" of the guy she wants to dump. the problem with this is, the "cheating" causes worse pain than breaking up. that "cheating" as I called it isn't really to keep from hurting the other, but is just to keep the one (the woman, usually" from having to have a "confrontation" and breaking up. Trust me, break off the current relationship before starting a new one. there's less pain that way, and it's better for your reputation. If you "cheat", the new guy, the one you're "cheating" with will be fully aware that you will probably do the same thing to him. Not very conducive to a long lasting, trusting relationship, now is it? No matter how you might not like it and want to change it, men think differently than women. Get used to it, even if you never understand it. ajust except it, because it'll never change, and even if it did, you wouldn't like the result, anyway.

never give up. All my past relationship ended up of getting us a good friends. The only way to do it is by talking. Closure would be the best thing to do. In your case, better to talk to the person personally and never give-up your friendship.

First it is impossible to break up without hurting somebodys feelings except you are just playing around. If you want to break up a relationship do it in a formal way speak your heart out why you want to break up with him. If its possible for you to give time to do it then do it. Its usually hard to restore the friendship if the relationship is broken in a very bad way even if other people say that time heals ^ it would just be alright then but it will not be the same friendship you have while you were not couples yet their is always a gap in between so better end everything in a nice way.

its very tough or i would say impossible to hav the feelings of friendship for the person u ever loved. so i guess u should nt even try for it becoz then it is not a good friendship even. if u want to have a breakup peacefuly communicate it with ur partner and do it with peace no need of being friends nemore.

Its impossible :(

I do not think it is possible at all to end a relationship (with any real emotions) without any hurt. You may be able to do things to minimize the hurt, but nothing to completely elminate it.

no it is not possible to break up with somebody and you are not getting hurt basically the point is that is you love somebody and then there is break up you will surely get hurt but if you don't love and then there is breakup then there is a term coined for it and its called move on.