are you happy with your life now?

@bianca89 (129)
Philippines
December 3, 2009 10:21pm CST
Hi! newbie here. I'm gonna starting my new discussion. My first time :) Are you happy with your life now? contented? Have you already reached your aim? If not happy , why? what makes you felt like that? hmmmm..well , me unhappy and not contented :( I still don't have my own work :( Stucked at home...I have no social life! I have to take care of my nieces here.. so bad..
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21 responses
• India
4 Dec 09
No I am not happy with My current life ,infact from my childhood i am not happy with my life.i still doing straggle for surviving here daily. My failure[ may be lack of my hard work] is responsible for all this.i didn't get anything in life even from my childhood. Sometime i feel bad.. somet time i get up with more confidence of doing something[for more hard working].But i think my stars are not in my favour, they are also responsible for my bad condition of life. hopeflly one day every thing gone be changed into my favour take care
@bianca89 (129)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
Thank you for all your responses ^_^ Hope I can be someone like others :( I can't work for now.. I have to help my siters at home...wooohh...
• Singapore
5 Dec 09
In terms of daily life, I am contended because I have a roof above my head, clothes to wear and other basic needs for daily life. However, I am lonely in my love life, I have tried to get to know more girls and friends and started to join social networking websites like facebook, mingle2 and etc. I still have not find my Ms Right.
• Philippines
5 Dec 09
Not that happy right now.. but still holding on to God's promises.. I'm jobless right now and i feeling I'm all alone especially this coming Christmas season.. Just keep praying and seek God first and everything else will follow.. God bless..
@Katie2009 (145)
• China
5 Dec 09
Life is tough,isn't it?My friend would comfort me with the same saying whenever I complain about my present situation where I need to pass two most important tests in my life at one time and I am also confronted with the option that whether I should enroll myself in all kinds of training institutes in order to succeed in the tests. It always gives us some confusing choices which require great efforts to choose from them. Nevertheless,the essence of life is surmounting those tough work and gaining joy afterwords. Babysitting a also a kind work though,which could help you to acquire experience to attend your own child in the future. Cherish the leisure time you have now and never forget to smile to life.It is a mirror:it will smilke back at you if you smile to it.
@sublime03 (1811)
• Philippines
5 Dec 09
I had my ups and down but currently even if I still have a few problems my way I still consider myself happy. I consider alot of things in my life as a blessing thus I look further in a positive manner. Yes, you do not have a job and is stuck looking out after your nieces but try to make your time with them fun by encorporating a few games here and there. But of course just stay positive and hope for the best that you will eventually get ajob of your own.
@azazel87 (97)
• Bulgaria
4 Dec 09
yes, I`m so happy now. I have a nice job, I`m last year at university. I have perfect parents and lovely sister. I have friends that i always want to have and of course i have the most amazing boyfriend. You may say i`m lucky one but if i had to answer your question 1 months ago I would tell you that I`m the most unhappy girl in the world. So, do not lose your faith. Everyone have good and bad periods in life. You know in one POD song they sing IT CAN`T RAIN EVERY DAY, IT DON`T RAIN FOREVER.
@maximax8 (27053)
4 Dec 09
I am usually happy with my life but at the moment I am having a challenging time. My toddler son and my baby daughter have bad colds at the moment. I feel more tired than I usually do right now because I am not having enough sleep. I feel really achy and haven't ever felt as bad aches before. My toddler son feels too heavy for me to carry. I should really try to go ahead with selling my house and buying a bungalow. Usually my money goes to my traveling but I have to think of moving costs. Good luck.
@artistry (4154)
• United States
4 Dec 09
.....Hi bianca89, We all have something in life that may be burdensome. But we have to try to endure whatever that is as best we can. Happiness is relative, by that I mean we are as happy as we can be based on our circumstances and those things that could possibly make us more unhappy. In other words, there are always things that could enter our lives and make us feel worse than we are feeling. If your leg hurts you, for instance, you would feel worse if you had no legs. So happiness is relative, it could always be worse than it us. So we should try to appreciate who we are and where we are in life, try to make it better, or try to adjust to our circumstances. Life I say is a bowl of cherries, some sweet and some sour. Find things to do to make yourself happier, get a hobby, try to write short stories or poetry. Investigate sites that will post your stories like www.triond.com., buy some fun puzzles to put together. Try your hand at water color painting, there are so many things that you can get involved in to take your mind off of being unhappy. Fight for your right to be happier. Take care.
@cavalcar (14)
• United States
4 Dec 09
I can't really complain.. life isn't bad, and I can say I was lucky enough to experience many blessings. Above all I am alive, breathing, thinking, and writing. I do, however, sometimes feel incomplete. There is something missing. There are many things I need to accomplish. Be happy, Bianca, to be alive and healthy is the best miracle: you are strong to achieve your goals and dream more. Best of luck!
4 Dec 09
not realy happy, couse i've a dream to have a bike and 1 set drum. and all my dream not come true yet. that's why my life doesn't happy. even i came from poor family, i always try to change my life and making happened what i want.
@bigplay (212)
• United States
4 Dec 09
No i'm not content right now, i'll only be content when i move into my final home. First i'm moving into another apartments where the rent will be much cheaper, then i'll be moving out of state and i'll be so happy when i move out of state. The only way that i'll be content is when i'm finally settled down in a permanant home state, i don't care if i ever get married just as long as i'm in another state, a big city, i can't stand living in small cities.
• India
4 Dec 09
Well I am happy but at the same time I am not. I am searching for a nice legal way to make money online. I have joined some sites but it will take a long time to make money with those sites. So I am happy to work with these sites but at the same time I am unhappy because of not making money quickly. Rest of the things are going fine at the moment but the only problem is a good job.
• Canada
4 Dec 09
One part of me is happy with what my life is now. And another part of me is very unhappy with how I am living. So I am not really content, just kind of confused about my life. I guess I just don't really know which lifestyle should make me happy yet.
• India
4 Dec 09
This is a simple question, but it will take a complicated answer to cover the subject.Now many people will jump to the conclusion that if they had a crores and crores of bank balance, all their problems would be solved. We do know that a huge bank balance would help many of us with some of our financial problems, but let us look at some real problems.we have three groups of people — the satisfied, the dissatisfied and the unsatisfied The strange thing is that man is satisfied with so little in himself but demands so much in others.We cannot be satisfied until we have put forth outstanding efforts in lifting the fallen, helping the weak and the poor, and by all means, we must remember that we are in this together. We must work together to help bring about a quality life in our community. The time is here when we must know who we are, whose we are, and what we are. When this becomes a reality, then we will become satisfied.
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
Yes there's always reason to be happy even if life is so mean to you. LIfe is precious and God gave it to you , so you should be happy for that. all the misfortune in our life today is just a way of God testing us. God is always there and He always listen, though our prayers are not all been answered but that is just because He prepare something for us. Even my life now is not that full of happiness because like you i dont have a stable job and etc. but i know God is watching us and i know he has something for me. Just pray and ask him and when you ask just say it that you mean it, a prayer that came from the heart.
@arystine (1275)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
I can say that am happy with my life right now because God answered nearly all my prayers. I consider myself as financially stable because of my work and I thank God because I graduated from law school this year.
• Thailand
4 Dec 09
Oh, that doesn't sound too bad you know bianca, I mean have fun playing with the kids, in your spare time just earn with my lot and gain lots of knowledge here in the topics you are interested in. Just play with the kids until they are tired and fall asleep. Find a game or to to get them running around.
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
I could not say very much happy as their are many things need to be accomplish by me and need more time to deal with it before i could taste success. I had not yet reach my ambition to become a better person by by accomplishing my goals in life. For the moment i a working on it to build a strong source of income which could provide me a better life.
• China
4 Dec 09
Hi,bianca,I'll tell you a story. Once a couple were lost in a forest. The wife walked around and finally back to the same place where her husband was lying.She said to her husband that :"here is a good news and a bad news for you,which do you want first?"" The bad one ",said the husband."We have to live on bullshits from now on,'cause there is no other kind of food around here",said the wife."And what the hell is the good news?",asked the husband."We've bullshits amost everywhere!"said the wife. ..Disgusting but just for fun^_^
• China
4 Dec 09
What life would be,I don't know,We ususlly go after wealth,but when we doing this,we get older and older.Then when we realize that money is not the only for one's life,we will find that it's too late.So do I,I recently going to work,just like others,I must work for my life,I don't know why I must to do so.just believe god,treasure what your possess,it's enough,I think.