When someone pretend to good to you but not actually.

@ck3259 (248)
Malaysia
December 8, 2009 3:09am CST
If someone pretend to good to you, but not actually, how you response to them? It is so sad that there is someone likely to pretend good to others with motives behind. They react abnormally and make us feel fake. It is uncomfortable when meet someone like this. They keep praise you, even some are non-sense. When in this kind of situation, I have no idea to response to them. What I do is only smile to response them.
6 responses
@ronnyb (6125)
• Jamaica
14 Dec 09
I would eventually pull away from such a person becuase it makes no sense to have such persons around since you dont know when their true colours will come out and really harm you.Oh and dont smile with them as this will lead them on ,try to show them that you have picked up on what they are doing and really dont want to have anything to do with them
@mistlady (114)
• India
9 Dec 09
Lately I have been very upset with a person. He keeps committing to do things that I've asked him to do; makes big promises and later pretends that he knew nothing about it. I know there are people who pretend to be good to us on the face but are not really nice. I think the only way out is politely get our work done from them and avoid them as far as possible.
@Baluyadav (3644)
• India
8 Dec 09
hi,friend,you know or don't know,now a days many peole are like that only.We have to deal them carefully as every day and every where these type of people we come across... Have a nice time.
@syankee525 (6298)
• United States
8 Dec 09
yeah these people are a pain. they will act sweet or nice to you, but then stab you in the back. my son mother in law is like this, she would act all nice to my daughter and then came out and said some dumb crap. myself i am pretty good at reading people if they are fake or real. but too me if you dont like me then tell me, but show me respect if you want me to show respect to you. if you cant leave me alone.
@arunmails (3013)
• India
8 Dec 09
Nowadays, 90% of the people in the world have become selfish... they don't do good at all..if they pretend to do good, a small benefit will be there for them.. only to get that benefit, they act like doing good..
• Spain
8 Dec 09
You know, when I first meet someone I donĀ“t judge them at all. But I do not trust them right away. There is a saying "your best friend is a dollar in your pocket". I guide myself from that.