What can you say about a member says "mylot is for general discussions"

Philippines
December 9, 2009 9:31am CST
A male guy commented in my previous topic saying that i should not post such topic in mylot and he says "mylot is for general discussions only" and that my topic is not appropriate in mylot... and my responce is HUH? Did he knows what general word means? coz for me general means everything and everything means all as long as you didn't violated mylot TOS. Here's what happened, I posted a topic in parenting and the title is "am i pregnant?".. and i post it in parenting knowing that most members who will participate there are already parents nor been a mother and since they are a mother then it means they knows what they feel and experience before and during pregnancy so at least they can share. It's my first time so im curious to know, besides sharing from other mothers it will also make me feel excited that what i feel right now is what they also feel. that's why i posted it here hoping that mothers can share their experiences. The reason why i posted my reaction here is to let members know that mylot is a free forum site, Means post whatever you want here as long as you follow mylot TOS. Besides admin will automatically delete your post if you violated TOS, am i right? I reacted too much about the comments of this guy, how about you what can you say about what he said, besides im not expecting an answer from a male member who will know things about pregnancy of course its understandable that mothers knows it. so it would be better if he just be quite than saying those words and acted like an admin who knows what to post and what is not. what do you think guys....
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@jazzsue58 (2672)
9 Dec 09
Hang on ... He DELIBERATELY goes to the parenting page, to a topic CLEARLY about pregnancy, and then he ... This guy is creepy. Would you trust him in a dark alleyway? Noooo way, sister. I bet he wears a raincoat. One of those long, dirty old man ones.
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
lol, actually his post was no longer there so i guess admin deleted it. His just trying to overrun admin about what to post and whats not to post here in my lot for infact its a free forum site where you can post all so that other members can share their experiences as long you you didn't violated mylot TOS. besides its in parenting and in adult content.
@trisha27 (3505)
• United States
10 Dec 09
Wow that is crazy that he would make a comment like that. First of all a discussion about pregnancy is not inappropriate and he should go read the guidelines as others have said. I actually read and posted to your discussion and there was no where in there that made the discussion inappropriate. That guy doesn't know what he is talking about. Just ignore it and I'm even surprised him being a guy would respond in that type of discussion. Like he would know anything, I seriously doubt it.
• United States
10 Dec 09
I missed his post I guess, but I have to say for someone to go into parenting and tell you that is the wrong place to post your discussion is just wrong. Your discussion is just fine. There is no reason at all why you could not post that discussion here at Mylot. In fact, I would just say the man is rude. He also was most likely in an area where he should never have been, most likely he doesn't even have kids of his own. I hate to say it but men know nothing at all about being pregnant, and he should never have even replied.
10 Dec 09
i rhink you are free to post whatever it is you feel like posting aslong as its permited and no one can tell you other wise
@blablablu (222)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 09
Well, just ignore him. He isn't the admin or moderator here, right? As you have said, everything is welcome to be posted here as long as it doesn't breach TOS of mylot. He is just too conservative maybe so he thinks several discussion topics might be not appropriate. Just ignore as long as other members are fine and still respond to your discussion :) Regards.
@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
9 Dec 09
Hello Homeshoppers I will say ignore this Guy If he turns up again tell him to go and read the Guidelines properly This is a free Discussion Forum and as long as we are in the Guidelines it does not matter what type of Discussion you write