What would you do if your husband/wife ask u if he can bring in a 3rd person?

United States
December 9, 2009 1:56pm CST
Would you accept this other women or men? or would you ask for a divorce?
2 responses
@Thiala (102)
• United States
28 Jan 10
I would talk to him and ask him why he wants to do that for one and two sense I would be really against bringing another person into the relationship I would be sure that where I stand on that decision was clear to him by the end of the conversation . Oh and you should do that last part without getting into a argument too . The only way I would divorce him would be if I said no way to this and then I caught him cheating on me .
@maezee (30160)
• United States
9 Dec 09
I definitely would say no. That is NOT cool with me. I wouldn't divorce him, but I would probably be pissed and give him the OPTION of it if he didn't think he was happy with me (and felt the need to try to bring someone else from outside in.) I would definitely not be happy with that. I think it's OK if both sides are into it - the husband and wife (and the third party), but I'm not into it at all.