Love before marriage or love after marriage?

Malaysia
December 10, 2009 9:36am CST
Who vote for love before marriage or after marriage? I know a few couple who fall in love after they got married. I find its romantic but what do you think?
5 responses
• Philippines
10 Dec 09
I would say it should be love 'before' marriage. A couple decides to marry and live together for life because they have found out that they love each other and are both willing to give oneself to the other.
• Malaysia
10 Dec 09
Yes I prefer love before marriage too. The people that I know are mostly arrange marriage, most of them are related to me ^^,v
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
Oh, I see. I'm just curious. Are they successful in their married life? I think, they should be very good in adjusting themselves to their lifetime commitment so that their union becomes quite successful. What about their love for each other? Maybe,their love is developed as they get to live together. Is my thinking right? Thank you in advance for enlightening me.
• Malaysia
12 Dec 09
at first they were feeling awkward towards each other but i think they built their marriage based on understanding and little by little fall in love with their spouse. I can see that they are like love birds even though their children are in their teens, they still go out on a date. One time I unaccidentally saw my uncle kiss his wife in our car, he thought it was dark enough and nobody can see what he did. I think i was sweet and romantic...
@blowww (13)
• Indonesia
12 Dec 09
i'll vote for "love before marriage" i cannot imagine how a couple can decide to get married if they don't have a feeling to each other, unless they have other motivation to get married without loving each other.
@skalijnp (147)
• India
12 Dec 09
In my point of view I think love is more interesting before got married. Because the enjoyment of love before marry is very tasty. It is more interesting when we got love affair with someone behind our parents. Then it is looked like hide & seek game. Suppose you have gone to a certain park to romance and unfortunately you saw that one of your parent also have gone there. then what will you do? you must play the hide & seek game, isn't it? In this game you would get different enjoyment. But if you go to that park after you got married with you husband/wife and you saw your parent there,....... Now what? Both of you must think that now you are married and there is no problem if your parent see you there.
@honey023 (57)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
I think it should be love before marriage; it is very important so that they will be able to survive for those things that may come after their decision..Because we all know that marriage is very crucial!!!
• Philippines
10 Dec 09
Hi. In most cases here in the Philippines, I believe that two people get married because of their love for each another. And for me, that is the right choice. Getting married is risky even when you love each other so much. It's hard to predict what will happen in your married life. What more if a couple get married without mutual love for each other yet?