why does she does that?

@aguas_aj (498)
Philippines
December 11, 2009 2:22am CST
I'm just so pissed off. I found out that my mother-in-law is doing it again.. She's saying bad things about me when I'm at my back. But when we're talking,It is as if everything is well. She is telling me not to tell the maids or other people of personal information that may ruin anybody in the family especially if it happened in the past. But I just learned that she's doing it again. She used to do that before and I thought she had stop because of her grandson, but No she has to do it again just to make her a better person or mother.. I really can't understand her. She's really saying nasty things like, my husband and I never really cared to the family when they here just in the bottom. When indeed, I was giving her even a small amount of money coz we were starting our own family then. She even blames me why my husband never got to give her a lot of money before. Even telling others that I said bad words to her..I've forgiven and forgotten all she has done even in our wedding but gush, She's being so hypocrite.Advising me and kissing me but stabbing me at my back..grrrrrrrrrrrrh
1 response
@warvial (1146)
• Singapore
11 Dec 09
Sometimes old people are like that. They want someone to talk to and a better way to make people talk to them is to seek their attention. Although your mother-in-law said things behind you, maybe try not to let it get into your mind. Unless you can "catch her in action", meaning when she is saying bad things about you or your family to others, then you can have a nice talk with her. Else, just let things rest or it might misled people into thinking that you are trying to pick a fight with your mother-in-law.