age doesnt matter
By beabenitez
@beabenitez (153)
Philippines
6 responses
@angelsmummy (1696)
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11 Dec 09
Age doesnt matter, when you fall in love you dont think about the age of yourself or the person that is the last thing on your mind! I am only 3 years youngert han my partner but again that isnt an issue. I think women tend to go for men that are older than them as women tend to mature faster than men although I have seen some men that mature faster than soem women! Age is just a number and love is a magical feeling!
@beabenitez (153)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
yeah u are right...but i think it will last depending on the motive of each other if both were realy in love... and how will u know if the younger one really loved the older one..i think that is the one that is hard to find. bec there are these relationship which are not successfull too....as what i have read a while ago they are not in single purpose.
@angelsmummy (1696)
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11 Dec 09
Yes, trust me you know if you are loved back, it just shows. Its easy to see if someone is being real!
@rockcafella (13)
• Nigeria
11 Dec 09
Hello Bea,
Thanks fr oyur brief but reasonable post , i think age really matter in love when the woman is much older than the man .
Reason with me when a woman starts getting in to her fifties she becomes irritating to the man , and if the man dose not have the fear of GOD he stars flirting because the beauty he saw has faded but in the men if a man is sixty he still looks charming t o many women,so my advice is no matter how much the love is i recommend women should marry their senior rather than marring their younger one t o prevent old age dirvoce
@beabenitez (153)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
hmmnnn rockcafella u have a point.... a good one also.... when it comes to physicallity there is really an effect on the relationship specially if the love they feel for one another is only a skinned deep.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Dec 09
Hi bea!
It is true in most of the cases that age does not come into play when two people fall in love. It is possible an older woman may fall in love with a younger guy. However, in most of the cases either the girl is younger or equal to boy's age. Love sees no boundaries.
@beabenitez (153)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
thanks dpk for a very ideal answer...love sees bounderies...
@Chiniona (327)
• China
11 Dec 09
Hi! I don't think the age is a problem for two people to fall in love! In China, there are a young man falls in love with a old woman!But it will take a long time to be received widely!
@zahidz (311)
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11 Dec 09
well age matters sometime because human changes his ideas and thoughts about life as their age changes so sometime the couple just can't able to recognize this things and want to act like they want but that is not possible.men are more mature than women usually and wants women to act them like they thought or did not find the interest in their things may be they thinks it is childish or something (this is, i m talking about the large gap), but if gap is less then it is more good but overall age doesnt matter if both understand each other and give space to each other.
@beabenitez (153)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
hi zahidz, idealistically because of love it conquers all problem involving indifference...but how about if the two doesnt passed trials of indifference....love slowly goes down then that is the time where age really does matter. thats what my personal view is..so it is still like taking a a bigger risk...than falling in love with your same age.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
17 Mar 10
Hello age is certainly a factor in my view, a old man can never love a young gal, the reverse too is true, however there are exceptations, i know of some couples where the husband was of much higher age, lol it was failure, may be dissatisfaction in love making
Thanks for this postin
Bhuwan
