If Everybody Like to do Love Marriages then.....

@zahidz (311)
December 11, 2009 5:06am CST
Hi guys, well i think two days ago i just find out in one discussion that everybody were supporting love marriage.I also support love marriage and also now-a-days many love marriage trend is set in Asian people also but the question is that if you love one person and other also loves you and you got married that what the changes comes after that the love end on one side or bother side or people just feel tired with the person whom they loves before marriage. so what marriages changes?? is it marriage to blame or is it some behavior changes. why love get low priority after marriage??
2 responses
@dpk262006 (53690)
• Delhi, India
11 Dec 09
Hi zah! You have a valid question to ask and I also feel that when two persons love each other, why cannot they get along well after marriage. You see married life is not bed of roses and when a couple come face to face with realities of married life and responsibilities involved in it, the couple just forgets about love, other things take some much time and consume their mental and physical energy that they just sometimes fail to enjoy the intimate moments. There is difference between saying a thing and executive a thing. It is easier to say that you love someone, but it is difficult to actually show it expressively.
@zahidz (311)
11 Dec 09
yeah it is always easier to say love you but difficult to done, well normal people after marriage don't even bear the things which they can easily bear before marriage but just got angry if partner do the same thing. is it responsibilities factor or what dpk??
@dpk262006 (53690)
• Delhi, India
11 Dec 09
Yes, responsibilities can take away the fun of love and reality bites. How about you? Have you ever been in love with someone or would you like to go for love marriage( If you are not already married)?
@zahidz (311)
11 Dec 09
well dpk i m not in love with someone because i find these things as confusing and strange when i see others so me just finding the solution to these things and solution to live a happy married life :)
@honey023 (57)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
Marriage is very crucial, risky, you don't even know what may happen after 5 or 10 years!!! that's why it is very important that you love each other and you are very sure before the marriage!