how will you describe life... is it fair or unfair?

Philippines
December 11, 2009 10:23am CST
Ever wonder how it feels to have a limited happiness? Ive known a person who is life's happiness became so limited. All that she wanted to do was never happen. She dream of having simple life and happy but it wasn't happen, want to learn how to overcome weakness but failed to do, tried to fight the poor life but still living in poor life after few more years. She asked me why the poor became more poorer and the rich became more richer? Is life was fair or unfair for you?
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15 responses
@xizhilang (106)
• China
12 Dec 09
To be honest,there is a lot of unfair things in life.But,if we change a aoother opinion,u will find many interesting thing .In general,it is fair.Please optimistic.Only in this way can you get a pleasue from life.
@krkavsy (192)
• India
12 Dec 09
Life is very cruel. You always dont get what you want. You have to make things happen. Life is full of ups and downs but it is a best teacher!
@1hopefulman (28394)
• Canada
11 Dec 09
At first glance I would say that life is unfair. There is so much that we want to do but either we don't have the time or the money to do it. Some of us may be born with certain disadvantages or disabilities that make like a much harder struggle for us than for others. Now that I think of it, it is definitely unfair. But on the other hand, just the fact that we are alive is a miracle. We are what we are just because a certain egg and and a certain sperm met. So, we must be thankful that we exist at all, even with all the disadvantages. Then there are the prospects for the future. God has put before us a glorious future where all unfairness will be removed. And in that, we are all equal. God is neither unfair nor unjust. so just a little while longer till: Psalm 37:3-4 (New International Version) 3 Trust in the LORD and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture. 4 Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart.
@1hopefulman (28394)
• Canada
14 Dec 09
Thank you for the BR award. It is appreciated.
• India
12 Dec 09
life is wonderfull. see life is a gift of god. when you learn something ,then you can achieve something. You need to keep positive thinking. see......the example of World's Largest company TATA. TATA have somnay factories and bussiness.THe owner of this company start from 0 level. This person riding cycle in his young age,then after strugle with life and work hard and hard and achievethe briliant Target of life.Now you can see ,what is the status of "TATA". SO ALWAYS KEEP POSITIVE THINKING.
@fsll518 (304)
• China
12 Dec 09
Life is fair to some people, not others. (Phynomena) It is true that if there is no foundation, it would be very hard to develop. That's why there are still poor people. If your friend wants to live better, it must take lots of intelligence, hardwork, and most importantly choose the most effective and suitable thing to do. There is of course a matter of luck, too. Also she needs to be patient, sucess doesn't come easily. Maybe she is doing the right thing, and work very hard, but still she needs to wait for a certain time to get success. Life is much too complicate, cannot just be described with "fair" or "unfair".
@kafueenu (1073)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
I sometimes think that life is so unfair, a few people have all the luck and all the wealth, but some don't have any. But it has come to a point that, I think it is all up to the person to change his or her destiny. You should strive in order to achieve comfort. make the right decisions in order to be successful.
@mdaazam (826)
• Indore, India
12 Dec 09
No one has a simple life you know. My life is full of strange adventures, i grew up in saudi arabia and we shifted to india when i turned 18, and now in this country of deception, i have learned to be the top player, now if i tell people that i just saw india in my life three years ago only, sure they wont believe me, things were ugly for me in the beginning in india, i was used to get heavy pocket money from the start and these couple of years i get less. But i have learned to satisfy my all needs including dates with my friends in the same.. I dont know if my life had been fair, it wasnt before but now i think im winning over every challenge my destiny tries to put into !
@Hazelrose (2185)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
Hi mrssator2002,Life is beautiful!I always thanks God for giving me life and strentgh.For me life is fair,Our life here on earth will depend on how we handle the situation is.Our dreams will come true if we work hard for it. we must do our best according to the will of God.God will always hear our prayers.God Blessed to those people who really have strong faith in him and always obey and follow his will.Life is beautiful,because what you sow is what you get.Thanks,God Bless!
• United States
12 Dec 09
I think life is basically unfair and some people are lucky. I believe that hard work and education can definately make one's life much better, but that is not protection from something so unfair happening to them. Life is not fair - it just doesn't work that way. I think the fair part comes after we leave this world.
@checkmail (2042)
• India
12 Dec 09
Hello mrssator2002 this is checkmail and our life is full fair to us, as everything happens for our own good.Its up to us as well as our family and surrounding peoples to give an proper shape to our life.Many a times sucess in our life leads us to a well being comfortable life, and in hard times it leads us to some low being stressful life.Well in our life its the fact that we have to face the challenges and dificulties, when we are achieving sucess there are lot of challenges for us.And when facing hard times there are more diffculties for us.The maine interesting thing is that we have to overcome this challenges and dificulties by our efforts, skills and talent, and co-operation by others.So in all think that our life has been an fair life for us.Anyways Happy Mylotting.
@dong88 (796)
• China
12 Dec 09
Hello! This is indeed a difficult question to answer,yes,you speak the kind of phenomenon does exist in our lives,but more common,that is , the poor are getting poorer,the rich richer.However,I think,the poor and rich is relative,poor and rich and happy life,there is no necessary link,and sometimes,the poor get more joy and happiness.Bless you!
@priscy25 (71)
• Canada
11 Dec 09
Very very unfair
@dodo19 (32867)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
11 Dec 09
Well, life has its ups and downs, its pros and cons. Life is not always fair, it's true. But this is the way that it is. Life is the way that it is. We can't really change the way that life is. As much as we want to change our lifestyle, it's not always easy to do so.
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
In my views; life is fair to all person whether poor or rich. I don't see any unfairness between poor or rich. They are all equal in terms of life but have different state of being...
@evydabest (197)
• Malta
11 Dec 09
hey sator, I personally think that life has its pros and cons. I believe that there a lot of instances of unfairness in life. I would like for life to be simple and always fair, but then there will be an unbalance in fairness. I go through this 'unfair' moments many times, disregarding what type of situation it is. Anyways, so usually when i am faced with an unfair situation i always go whining to my girlfriend and she says the typical expression, "who said that the world is fair"... currently i guess life is unfair, but i can live with it.
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
Life is what we make it. Happiness is a decision. If we appreciate the things that we have (for surely every person has his/her share of blessings, not only material blessings but other blessings such as good health, a happy family, friends, etc.) and do our part in doing good, then I think there is no reason to become unhappy. There are people who become richer through fraudulent means. It does not necessarily mean that those people are happy. They can be quite miserable in other aspects of their lives. The poor and the oppressed could even have a more peaceful sleep than many rich people who have no peace of mind. People may be unfair but God is fair, and so is life.