What should you feel when someone you love is not with you?
By jensky888
@jensky888 (98)
December 11, 2009 9:33pm CST
Hmm What a question entered on my mind? I was just missing someone i love that is why Im asking this question.. Feel miserable,empty and out of nowhere..
you? can you share your feelings right now?
7 responses
@jkcounterpuncher (125)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
Hi, me and my partner has been more than one year and a half but we haven't meet yet. Yes we don't have a single personal connections. We talk with just pure text messages not even a single phone call has been made. In a our early months of our relationship, we do have chances to meet but we don't capitalize it.
If I would think about the reason why, I would be upset. But we both try to understand our situation. We have nothing to do about it but to wait for the right time to come. I gave all the trust, honesty, understanding, and communications I could, and in effect our love is going and going strong. Maybe because we both accepted the fact that time will come for us and we don't have to rush things. It would be hard to understand the situation. But the sacrifice we put in, only gives us reason to be strong whatever happens.
@jensky888 (98)
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14 Dec 09
WOW! I salute you! Ive done it a year ago.. Sounds stupid but i love the guy without knowing the real he.. I only saw him in pics..Have communication true text etc.. Until we broke up and never meet at all.. Hehehe i do believe when you love someone you sacrifice,understand everything to survive the relationship.. I wish you will see each other very soon.. Specially this Christmas..thanks
@jkcounterpuncher (125)
• Philippines
14 Dec 09
It seems strange because you're longing for the person that you wanted to hug, kiss, or cuddle most especially in times you are down. Bust as time passes by, I've learned to get used to it... That's how I really love the person. I just wanted to see my love before we separate ways again for long time again because my partner will go abroad to work. One day we will, because we both wanted to see each other.
You've just mentioned that you haven't met your boyfriend until you broke up. Yes, it hurts but you will realize that it should not be. Because it hurts more when you saw him and then you will eventually break up. He just doesn't deserve you either... Someone will... Hope you have that someone this Christmas... Happy Christmas!!!
@jensky888 (98)
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15 Dec 09
HMMM sweet... your right its better that we dont see each other.. For us to easy forget all the things happens.. But know why? I know where he lived heheh where he worked that time but your right its not the time for us to be with each other..Im fine now happy and satisfied with my new one.. =)
@jensky888 (98)
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15 Dec 09
its not the end of the world.. Still live life to the fullest.. Enjoy life and always pray for him that he/she is safe all the time..=)
@neo_matrix (884)
• India
12 Dec 09
its very normal to miss the person whom you love.you feel lost,nothing seems to be pleasurable enough(as you are convinced that his presence would add the real joy to it).sometimes you wish him to be just besides you by magic.at the next instance you are sad having realised that he isn't around. it gets difficult to focus in any of the activities
@elokps (138)
• Indonesia
13 Dec 09
when my love not with me i will feel so lonely, empty and miss him so much. need him close to me and hug me. But I know that life must goes on so when I miss him i can call him and talk everything for long time and then continue my life here without him. if we still keep thinking of someone we love when far away and keep missing him/her then we will get stress and desperate.so we must keep on busy and enjoy life with or without him/her beside us.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
12 Dec 09
This is me too. My boyfriend is in Puerto Rico and I'm living in New Mexico. I have to sell my house so I can move to PR and be with him. I keep wishing something great will happen because this separation is killing us both. The last time I saw him was in May. We are each others best friends and always there for each other and I miss him so much. I feel so alone even though their are 3 other people living in my home.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
Hi jensky888,Well,if my husband is not with me or in a long distance situation. Of course,i will be sad and lonely.It is the natural feelings as a human to feel that way...Any way,life must go on.We must accept that not all times our love ones are always with us due to some works or jobs.I just put in my mind that he left, to provide the needs of our family..There are many ways of enjoying your self such as;play your games or focus in mylot.Thanks,Have a nice day!
@jensky888 (98)
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12 Dec 09
thanks.. I always put that in my mind but there are times when you alone you cant ignore the feeling of emptiness.. Am i right?
