Why there are increasing number of men fell inlove with older women?

loving older women - old and young together
@amyson (3509)
Philippines
December 12, 2009 3:30am CST
i know some of the celebrities nowadays they fell in love with woman that older in there age are now increasing now one good example is demi moore and ashton kutcher.local celebrities in the Philippines like eula vadez and rocky.guys nowadays looking on attractive women older than there age because of maturity that younger women lacking of.another is older women are more stable.but some taking advantages these older women.do you know couple that guys is younger than his partner?what are the reason why there are increasing number of guys having relationship with women that are older than them.isn't money involvement?
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24 responses
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
because older women have more experience and know to live independent and also emotionally and financially successful at the same time. I think in love age doesn't matter and the important the two couple are in love and compatible with each other. If you are going to put your own situation in your own shoes it feel hurt being compare because of ages and i think the love matter most rather than the age.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
yes..love matters most..age does not matter anyway.i seen many couples with different ages mostly are older guys but recently i found out many men like to have intimate relationship with older women.
@flower21 (766)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
Women who are older are more understanding, kind, independent emotionally and financially. They have less inhibition and do not nag men most of the times unlike younger women who are too clingy. Love for me is what matter and age gap is not a big factor for love. Everyone irregardless of genders whether men or women have right to love and their should be no boundaries between them as their companionship and compatibility is more important than the gossip of other people who mind other business.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
yes your right,they are more mature,kind,understanding and they are emotionally stable than the younger woman that are sensitive and emotionally unstable.
• China
14 Dec 09
in fact, there are very little such kind of conditions around me in reality. i just saw my classmate's brother got married to an older woman than him. they now have a girl, and live happily. dont know why. but i think the possibility for me is very small.
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
17 Jan 10
well..thats happening but i guess if they happy with or neither man or woman older than their age.as long they happy it does not matter anyway.
• China
18 Jan 10
yes, u'r right, only they both are happy together. the age is nothing.
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
18 Jan 10
righthave a nice day
@Baluyadav (3644)
• India
12 Dec 09
hi,friend,there must be only 2 reasons..either he all in love really like Sachin [Indian cricket player]with his partner nor for the money she had behind her...[it wouldn't be nice,otherwise,i can quote many examples from cinema Industry,corporate tops,Industrialists families... Have a nice time.
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
yes most older women are very supportive and knows how to love and have patience most of the time that is why most guys preferred the older women .
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@Baluyadav (3644)
• India
12 Dec 09
hi,I don't think so amy,it is always not correct..i feel some other reason is behind it for marrying older woman and those must be one the reasons i quote above...May be to some extent your's is correct,but in majority cases,it's different.Bye.
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
yes in some cases,but what most i see is that mostly connected with money and stability.i don't know if the love still pure or it just a lust.others have pure heart and its case to case basis.have a nice day.
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@mdvarghese (1789)
• Bangalore, India
12 Dec 09
Love is blind. So age doesnt matter . This is happening from very olden times and nothing new about it. One reason may be the older ladies will give more care than the young girls. One reason will be among the celebrities is the money factor. I think one or two years of age difference will not make much difference.Even things are happening vice versa . Nowadays more and more young girls are marrying older men.
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
well, frankly it's nothing really new since they are others too that are has done this, but unfortunately it didn't work out because the younger guy wasn't mature enough to maintain the relationship. well, you have said my mind exactly. but still there are other men and women of equal age falling in love and getting married
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
i dont know if love is blind but lovers are blind lol.this are happening around the world.love can be real or not.there are always reason for everything..maturity is one of the advantages why mostly old woman and guys have differs to younger men and women.
@Kent90 (71)
• Malaysia
17 Jan 10
i am agree that this relationship happen due to some involvement in term of money especially if that women is rich. older mean their probability to pass away is higher and the younger boyfriend will get everythings. maybe.
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
17 Jan 10
yes to some extent..mostly have money involvement..for practical reason but there are couples that even there are wide age gap they still manage the relationship last.
@hexeduser22 (5855)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
Maybe they just realize that love defies everything and it does not know any boundaries. I guess they fell in love because of two different reasons. One they found true love and two they're just practical
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
17 Jan 10
hi yes..different reason for loving unconditionally and some are just for practical reason.and another thing is that love makes us happy and makes world go round.
@cherrc (666)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
hi amy! could or could not be. sometimes, it's not just because of the stability but the field u are dealing with. athelete with the models, actors and actresses, models and actors, classmates, dormers...or wherever ur world is. just an observation. :)
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
17 Jan 10
yes i observe that mostly actors and actresses married with same profession...for stability reason..
• Bahrain
30 Dec 09
It's because "men" are just little babies, they still need to be taken care of so they're choosing new mommies for themselves :P
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
17 Jan 10
yes..exactly..they needing the care of women..
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
hello amyson, I don't think that eula is really that old for rocky, if it's really visible old just like the news that i have watched a while back where the gap is fifty years, then it would have been something else. well the important thing here is that they love each other. and what's the point of asking? there's more women who prefer to fall in love with older men and not those either in their level of age or younger.
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
just a wide gap..not that too old lol..yes vice versa..love is all around.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
12 Dec 09
hi Amyson,the main reason for this is they get to make a partner who is very experienced not in terms of $ex but in terms of security and most celebrities do it for style statement coz man dating an younger woman is normal but the other way around if the younger man date a older woman then it would be in the news for sure and you missed out tom cruise in the list.this works great for the budding actors who try to date popular actresses who are like an short cut for their way to start dom.gud day.
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
yes that could be the other factor.mostly because of fame especially demi moore is very fame then ashton kutcher not that fame connected with famous personality equal to famous.this means it is effective but somehow isnt love but also because of money.
@mdaazam (826)
• Indore, India
12 Dec 09
I love the women more than the teenage girls my self. My reason to do so is i find the grown ups somehow more trustworthy than those of my age. I have been attracted to people like my teacher and blah blah blah !
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
that is cute revelation but mostly older women are mature enough if you see them mostly are successful and knows to handle the relationship vice versa with older guys too.
@srganesh (6349)
• India
12 Dec 09
I don't think that this has started all of a sudden.Here and there,it was happening and one good example was Gandhiji.But that would not be a love marriage then.Yet,young boys marrying mature girls now a days is surely different.I think Oedipal complex may be one of the reasons.
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
yes i think its happening around the world..and some have different reasons why they love the older women or older guys.maybe by love or something else.
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
older women are secure about themselves.some men love older women because they don't want to keep up with the personal insecurities and "treat me like a princess" syndrome of some women the same age than they are or younger.older women have learned a lot from experiences,and have moved on with golden life lessons learned.older women will not chase a guy just for the sake of companionship.older women tend to value themselves more,thus they take care of themselves.
@eddify (413)
• Pakistan
14 Dec 09
Yes thats true it is almost 3 years ago I found a very good looking an stable man falling in love with old females. And it struck me as lighting,as he has so many young girls around him who will be following him like a dog. No hurt feelings... But in my view they go after them as they think these ladies are more experienced and have lots of money on them. So both things count.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10424)
• United States
14 Dec 09
I think the reasons vary...sometimes it is attraction or true love...chemistry. Other times it isn't love perhaps, but money, experience, something a bit seedy like that. Karen
@aerous (13475)
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
In my views is that there is two possible thing. It maybe because about money or this is because of maturity. Because most older women is much responsible than those young women that makes the relationship not work out. most of the young women did not value the relationship because they in the experiment period that when they realize that they do not love their partner because they found someone that is better than there partner and have money to support their vices..they are gone but if you choose older women they kept you until the end of their life... If I have the opportunity to in love again. I prefer older women than me. Because I feel they are good lover than those young women...
@elokps (138)
• Indonesia
13 Dec 09
yea nowadays many guys love older women, they said that they love mature women because mature women can teach guys everything in life. It happen also to me. many younger guys fall in love with me even in internet or in real life. my last boyfriend is 25 and i was 36 . and now there's a guy who still 20 and fall in love with me he..he..he..
@bhav27 (443)
• India
13 Dec 09
May be the reason is they feel save with older women as younger women are not too matured if see them mentally , every young girl wants to have young attractive and body builder hunk dude and when they someone else their interest in present boy get lost so i think man are pretty much smarter that's why they are doing right thing by choosing older women as older women are matured and they have experienced everything in their life so i think it's just all simple and clear why man wants older women and this is just my opinion .pardon my english
@jc_star10 (954)
• Indonesia
13 Dec 09
I think some point that being said in comment before are quite true. Older women tends to have much more understanding for men. They don't nag too much, they know how to bring out the best in men. Compare to younger women, who is still lack of experience, and probably still much more stubborn. I don't know about money involvement or anything, that depends on each other partner. I just look at outer view first. Older women mostly know how to take care of men...