Who lies most of the time in a online relationship men or women?

Philippines
December 12, 2009 6:16am CST
I think both could lies in internet online affairs as they could pretend as nice or pretend as another good person playing with lots of emotion and deception. Then, it is a shocking truth when two partner meet the real attitudes is expose while other fall in love despite the lies as they know the person for real. Who do you think make lies most of the time in internet online relationship?
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@bhav27 (443)
• India
13 Dec 09
Well i think not all persons lie in online relation , i made a very good friend at net and it's now 1 year of our friendship and we both are so close each other and have even met face to face , i never expected that i will meet a guy whom i met on internet but truly i am so thankful to orkut and god for bring such a beautiful sranger in my like who have now turned my life's part. He was awlays true to me , he never showed off or pretended to be nice with me , he was what he is actually in real life , so i will say some people pretend but some don't and you never know when they become part of your life and they mean a lot to you , pardon my english. Thanks
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
Fine for you as myself have only few offline friends in real life and I am happy to have friends online though in terms of relationship i think it would takes me longer to trust a stranger unless i really fall in love with him. But, I find it kinda exciting to have cyber love and you find one great guy. I do hope i find one and surely love works in mysterious ways. I am not losing hope and though I could find one in real life. I still like to meet some guy who because of being busy in their work have still manage to have time to look for their love truly without pretension. thanks for sharing your wonderful story..
@bhav27 (443)
• India
15 Dec 09
Yeah i agree with what you said , i know not all human being reveal the truth about them self but many do and i am glad that i found my man , and yes one thing i will say that some people fake a lot , i met with a guy pretending to be billionaire and didn't even knew what a dollar is , lol so i will just say that both man and women lie while chatting and i think there is no wrong in this due to many scammer at internet trying get out data from other person and use to do illegal thins at internet.
• Philippines
17 Dec 09
that very true and so necessary precaution is need all the time.:)
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
I think both lies and in men they are more visible while in women they are very hard to detect as they could makes any mood changes and they could easily pretend they look honest than a liar. Both have a good tactics to hide their mischief and if you are a very clever person then it mean you could easily caught them lying.
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
yeah, i do notice too and men like to do cheating most of the time and very expert in cover up. But do agree both could make lies if they like too..
• Philippines
7 Jan 10
thanks for the br
@DenverLC (1146)
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
Online relationship is not a good foundation of a lasting affair. so for us not to experience the art of sweet lies, and bitter cheats, never try online relationship. Friendship may do.
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
Of course I do believe love could be everywhere and online is nice to try though one need to be careful in choosing partner. Likely in real words liars are many too and they also hide their true feeling. Of course, love begins in friendship first then as relationship grow and so trust is build. let not lose hope in online love, you may find one..lol..thanks..
@xJaiiDK (164)
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
Yeah i agree with you Denver. Maybe Online friendship may do. You can start out as friends and eventually know each other. Then if you're sure of what you feel. then go for it. Just dont rush things and everything will be fine.
@HOW2DO (226)
• India
13 Dec 09
I think it is a game so try to win the game be always good to them And go wrong when they go wrong.
• Philippines
14 Dec 09
that is what i am doing as i love being adventurer and do not like to take it seriously unless i become serious..lol..
@xJaiiDK (164)
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
I do not believe on online relationship. and i think both sides do lie about anything about them. Online relationships usually dont last.
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
Yup, true but some find true love and let not lose hope. when two are meant for each other and not ind it in real situation they try online relationship it works for others too. thanks..
13 Dec 09
im mean women and men lie as profit will back to whome?
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
yeah, some lies and some don;t.thanks
13 Dec 09
nice words thank you
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
Yup. what you mean thus say nice words are mostly liars maybe true..lol. thanks.
• Nepal
13 Dec 09
Both
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
So both genders lies. thanks.
@chunglai (21)
• Qatar
13 Dec 09
Anybody can lie especially in an online relationship, by chat or email, but if they lie about their physical appearance, webcam will come in handy. As for the emotions and deceptions involve, yes, you can't have any assurance if its true or not, unless you meet with the person and stay with him for quite sometime personally.
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
yup,that true with webcam they could not hide and sweet talk is nice to hear being mysterious is kinda playful and funny yet very dangerous if other person lie and have bad attitude. thanks
@dong88 (796)
• China
13 Dec 09
Hello!Oh,yes,I think that men and women friends contacts Either way,we must in good faith based ,if not ,then last the meaning of interaction.The result is certainly not good.Bless you!
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
So both genders lies and need to know them carefully before trust them with all my information about myself. I think have to think many times before i let have a relationship seriously. thanks.
@CharRay7 (1549)
• United States
13 Dec 09
I personally believe that men lie more with online chatting than women due. I can't count how many times I have chatted with a guy who says he's all buff and good looking only to find out later that that is the exact opposite. I don't know why they don't just tell the truth right away because if they really want to eventually have a relationship with the person they are chatting with, they are going to be proved wrong eventually. And then what would the person think of them! Happy MyLotting! Char
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
Well, the solution for that is to have an Im chat through webcam and their he could not lie about his appearance anymore. sort of talks of being nice telling about themselves is so easy. i think both guys and gals love to lie as they are not so serious but when they both like to be serious they should not pretend to be someone else if they like to be happy and have good love life. thanks
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@suchi60 (913)
• India
13 Dec 09
Both tend to lie, but I have this gut feeling that men will lie moire than women for the simple reason that women become emotionally involved mush earlier than men in a relationship and will open up that much earlier. Thus, men will tend to keep their secrets with them a while longer than women.
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
Yeah, gals tend to take it seriously unless they are to seek fun too they may not be disappointed easily. careful and good analysis is need all the time before one trust. thanks.
@ravesam (33)
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
In online affairs we cannot assure everyone is telling the truth..most are pretending to ge good just to be praise themself..all lies meet most in the internet online for just for fun and make people misserable.
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
I know too and i like to meet new friends and when their tendency for a serious relationship i would not trust so easily so I may not fall as victim but does not mean their is no chance for real love to develop. I do believe love works in a mysterious way and online love develop between two people who are bound to be a companion and lover at the same time..Some for fun and unpleasant thinking then some just to kill boredom...thanks
@weasel81 (2502)
• Australia
13 Dec 09
i know both will lie, but i will be my self when talking online. i knew a women who did it, she said she was a lot different to what she was. then wondered why the bloke, didn't want to know her. there was another case of it in a pron mag, and basically the answer was that's your own fault if they don't want to know you for cause you've lied to them. about what they looked like. i think people will do it for attention, make them seem better than they are. i've met one guy from the net, he's what he said he is so far.
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
I do believe too lies are everywhere and in relationship both exist and more in online relationship. Though, to know a person and even they lie about their selves about their face. They could be resolve by having IM chat through webcam. Though, it is a waste of time if the other person lies and just play for fun then I am so serious. It is annoying and i do appreciate being honest about telling truth about themselves and not pretending as other person. Though, not all lies and their are few men and women who are honest about self which i appreciate most. thanks for sharing..
@Genericbe (1379)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
Both can lie in this kind of situation. Expect the unexpected and leave the conscience in them. This will serve as a learning experience for others either good or bad. hence, a lesson to those who are involved in this kind of relationship.. No one can tell the real attitudes of a person unless have a physical participation or rest assured of that person character because this is where the real score is revealed. Good traits can be added and some bad traits are deducted. However, it is only in the decision of the person involved can tell and decide to what he believes in although others may disagree..
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
I think lying is pretty normal as no one is perfect but too much lying is very annoying. I do believe love exist both in offline and online world. Many people are so hunger for love and if they could not find it in real situation they would try their luck in building love online. Their is a bit mysterious and kinda exciting. anyway it is a part of life. I find amaze knowing other find their true love online and live happy. though other cases they are disappointment stories about online friendship and love and yet it never stop people to try to have fun and real relationship through virtual world. I do believe nothing is impossible and love works in wonderful ways..thanks
@reco13 (605)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
Both men and women can make lies with online relationship. The question that matters then is how grave the lie is or what is the purpose of that lie. There are some women I know who purposefully lie about their appearance or attitudes so the other party will like them. But most of the time, the guy's lies are worse. Like telling he's single even if he's committed. Well, that's based on the experience of the people I know since I'm not into online relationship. lol
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
That true and i do appreciate being honest though it is important they lie very little and not so much as it is annoying it could makes me mad..lol.. Likely i am beware of so sweet guy as they really broke my heart and I need to be wiser in order not to become the victim..though, I am hopelessly romantic, like to meet guy who have a big heart..lol..thanks..
@Baluyadav (3644)
• India
12 Dec 09
hi,as per my understanding,mostly men will say lies...but women will do cheat..don't think otherwise..it's my feeling and it may not true...
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
So its true and they like most to do lying for fun and not so serious eventually. thanks.