careless words ...
December 12, 2009 11:22am CST
hi mylot friend, have you ever talk with your friends about yourself, and then regret? Tonight when I was talking with my close friends about my business after my resign, I was too delight and told her how much I have earned till now, didn't noticed that she was not so happy. and now I begin to regret. Of course she was happy for me because I earned more and my life is better off, but my words may sound that I was showing off in front of her, and this would make her feel that her salary was so low, and her lack of freedom/spare time(because work for others) was so obvious. This remind me of my another friend, who several months ago, happily told me that she and her husband bought a house and told me how much it cost, how luxious they will decorated the house, it made me feel a little jealous. Have you ever met such things? We were happily telling others about our feelings and didn't notice about their situation, and their possible feeling inside.