Do You Remember The First Time You Said You Loved Someone

United States
December 12, 2009 6:29pm CST
Do you remember the first time you said you loved someone, other than your family of course. The first time I said it and really felt it, I was about 20 and the guy I was dating had already told me that he loved me, I hadn't been able to say it back at the time and he accepted it. But when I did tell him, we were lying down in my bed, about to go to sleep and it was dark and I was on my side with my back to him. I said "I love you" and my throat clenched up and my heart started beating like crazy, thinking he wouldn't love me anymore because I didn't feel it when he did. He didn't say anything but put his arms around me and I was like "Do you still love me" and he said that he did...what's your story?
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@snafushe (791)
• Canada
13 Dec 09
It was my first love, when I was sixteen. We had been dating for three months, and I was crazy for him. He was walking me to my house, and snow started falling. It was such a pretty night, and he stopped and just looked at me. I knew right then that I loved him, so I whispered I love you. He started smiling so much and said I love you too. It was such a cliche moment. Anyways it turns out he didn't really love me that much when I found out he cheated on me with like 7 other girls, loves a biotch.
@olisaur (1922)
• United States
13 Dec 09
The first time I told someone "I love you," was when I was 15 and in high school. . I was pretty naive, and it was my first boyfriend. We had started out as friends, and I knew he knew how I felt about him. He told me I was "beautiful" one night, and I was flattered but I was also really nervous. The next time we saw each other it was raining, as he left-walking away in the rain- I told him I loved him. He stopped, turned around and looked at me for a second and said he loved me too. It sounds romantic, and it was in the momment, but we broke up like two weeks later. w
@bingchen (1119)
• China
13 Dec 09
i remember my first lover,this momery leave my mind for long time now,i like his humor and intellegence and bravy,he go to travel other city that i would not go and different experience attracted me,so i love him deeply.one day,i song for him and speak to him "i love you",he could not say anything to me.he only said that i should not love him,he could not give me happyness.i often remember this part of time,this is very sad to me.
@bwanna (282)
• United States
13 Dec 09
I've never felt like this for a guy, and it seems more like a pain in the neck than anything else. To constantly be thinking of one person? I think I would go crazy! I think that I'll be glad to wait a couple of more years before this happens to me, because I would rather be spending time with my friends right now!
• Romania
13 Dec 09
4 me it wasent that hard to tell my girl that i love hear :P in fact i was the first that acted , i sed i love you and she sayd i l...ve you to hardly hearable ;)) but is not a big thing becouse if she did not love me then i made her love me and in a few weeks she alwais sed i love you when whe meted on a date :P i love hear so much an i never hesitate to tell hear that i love hear every day :)
@ellayuri (47)
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
Yup!I can't forget him because he was my first romance and even my first love.I go crazy when the day goes bye without seeing him.I felt to myself that I can't live without him.The time I said my love to him I was so nervous and I am shaking.And realizing that it was all infatuation.And now that both of us already mature to face the consequences.I think so if we were meant to be then time comes for us.
@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
I had been in a relationship when i was still in high school, but i never said i love you to him because the feeling was just like an admiration. THe first time i said i love you with all my heart was when my husband courted me. The feeling was different with him, he said "i love you" to me a couple of time on the phone, but when he said "i love you " to me in personal, we were at the beach by that time, and i said " i love you" too. the feeling was different, it's as if we were the only person living in this world because i felt what really love is.
13 Dec 09
I have been with my girlfriend of 3 years and she is my first and only, so far. After 1 month of dating i knew i was in love and she has been the love of my life so far.
@gersheb (22)
• United States
13 Dec 09
Yes I was 16 yrs old in highschool, the guy was my highschool sweetheart. I am 32 and he was. The first and last person to break my heart.
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
yes,at the age of 15..having a puupy love at my highschool day..its feels something fulfilling.