Remembering Mother.....

United States
December 14, 2009 6:18pm CST
I was one of those fortunate people to have had a loving balanced caring Mother. As a child , Mom always took time for me no matter what. This has been so helpful to me as an adult. I can remember her studying at the table with tea in one hand and watching me play in the back yard. I have one clear memory I wish to share with you. One mid Spring afternoon, I ran into the house."Look at these pretty wild flowers I picked they are like jewels to me Ma Ma see they shine" I thought, If only I could keep them that way forever. Just then Mom read my mind as she did so well at times. She said " I bet you want me to show you how you can keep them pretty for always they will be flat but beautiful." We then took each of my favorite flowers and pressed them. Mom showed me how to do it in a small press. I will never forget that day. I still keep one of those wild flowers in my favorite book. I will always remember. I miss her dearly. As an adult, I have learned to take time for others. Even if it is just for a short moment. The quality time we give to another person will be remembered like the pressed flower. Can any one else share a precious Mom memory here.
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@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
15 Dec 09
hello ponderosa... wow! that was so sweet memory of you and your mom...and its always nice remembering moments like this... i have lots of beautiful memories with my mom...when i was a child, she's the one who's always with me, she sends me to church, she brings me to movie houses watching those movies for kids...i remember her bringing me to school & teaching me my lessons, she's the one who first taught me to write & read, cooking my favorite foods, playing with me even under the rain and a lot more... but one most memorable moment i have with her that i like to share happens when i was already 22 years old... those days, i am having a difficult time with regards to my love life... i have a boyfriend then and we are already 5 years together and planning to get married, but something happens, and i fall in love with someone...and that really gives me a lots of head ache & heart ache...its never easy for me to make decision that time coz i don't like to hurt anyone...which i know is impossible...and so i become a bit problematic that time...and mom noticed it... one morning, she saw me really sad and not talking...she approach me and tell me...if i want to talk about it... that time, i was not able to control my feelings anymore and i just find myself telling everything to my mom...she listens very well and i also find her crying with me... i really feel her sincere sympathy and understanding on my feelings...and she gives me an advice...and some inspiration... after talking to her, i feel comfort specially when she embraced me...i feel like all my problems have gone and i actually arrived to a decision that morning... and all of a sudden i feel fine...its like there's a big thorn that she pull out from my heart... i can't forget that morning...when mom shares the pain i am feeling and she's there to comfort me... i really love her and i always value her and her advices...she's always the one who gives the best advice for me...she's not just a mother to me, she's also my best friend... cheers to all mom! they are just so great and a real blessing from God...
• United States
15 Dec 09
Thank you so far, for all the warm caring responses, I feel honored to be a part of this caring place
@ruchimom (280)
• Australia
15 Dec 09
Hi I just love this beautiful incident from your childhood.It brought tears to me eyes. I am sure you miss your mom.I am one of those people who didnt have a caring mom ,so this is something unusual to me but i am sure Angels do exist
• United States
15 Dec 09
Ruchimom, there are angels here on earth good caring folks who give us smiles, a word or encouragement, and much needed validation. You sound like a lovely person. I wish many such positive angels to come your way.......ponderosa 12
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
15 Dec 09
I was frequently lonely when I was a child. We lived way out in the country with no phone. My brothers were several years younger than I. They had each other, but I had no one. Sometimes I'd cry in the night. Mother would hear and come crawl in the bed with me. She thought I was having bad dreams. I couldn't tell her I was just lonesome. She couldn't read my mind, but she tried to help the best she knew how.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Dec 09
I am blessed that my mother is still with me and I hope that she will be for a very long time to come. For almost as long as I can remember, she has been as much a friend to me as she has been my mother. We have always been uncharacteristically close and whereas many of my friends had issues with their mothers during their teenage years, that was the time that the two of us grew especially close. Perhaps one of the things about my mother that is especially heartwarming is the fact that she kept all of the Christmas ornaments that we made for her when we were children and still to this day displays them with pride on her Christmas tree.
• United States
15 Dec 09
My mother passed away a couple of years ago. I have so many fond memories of her. She was always there for me and I will never forget the things she has taught me and my brother. I can't think of any one particular incident that stands out at the moment, but there were many. What I do remember is that she was very disciplined and caring in all her dealings, especially with her children. Two combinations I would love to build up in my life. Thanks for this post.
@anyabee (363)
• Philippines
15 Dec 09
your post made me miss my mom more. don't get me wrong, she's still alive. just not with us. she's with my sister in California and i miss her every minute of the day. i miss her cooking the most. i learned how to cook because of her. :)
• Japan
15 Dec 09
Thank you for sharing such a lovely memory. Sometimes it is the smallest things we remember of our mothers. I lost my Mom five years ago to cancer but I have so many memories of her and I am sharing them with my kids. My Mom loved Christmas time, she would spend time and a lot of money to make it special for us. She would spend hours in the kitchen preparing all sorts of yummy goods. We would "help" out but it reality we were just waiting for a taste of the cakes and cookies. That was such a nice, cozy time and something that I do with my kids as well. One thing that sticks in my mind about my Mom was her crazy sense of humor, sometimes over the smallest thing she would go into fits of laughter, even in the hardest times we always had something to laugh about. I am very grateful that my Mom taught me to see the funny side of life!
• China
15 Dec 09
my mum is a smart lady and she have not enough time to care about us when we are young since her have lot of housework to do on the past years.but she can make us always wear clean clothes and eat delicious food after we completed the studies. i think if she can figured more time to spend with us and tell us how to play the toys then she would do . but she have other responsibility. i love my mom also.
• Philippines
15 Dec 09
i don't have a good memory with my mother when i was young. but i am a mother now, in God's guidance, i hope i can have a good, happy and lasting memories with my daughters that we all cherish for a lifetime. i am in constant prayer, that my children learn to appreciate life with a mother who gives them inspiration and encouragement every time they fall. a mothers who listens to their every pain and struggle, a mother who can feel and experiences pain with them.
@puppynut (370)
• New Zealand
15 Dec 09
My mum was so dedicated to us as children. She would make bread and butter and come to all our sports days. She spent tireless hours helping us with our horses for horse shows and if we were ever to tired to do something she would make sure it was done. She is incredible. I don't know how I will ever manage to be as gooder mum as she has been and now I am pregnant with my first child I guess I will find out even more how incredible she is!!