what kinds of person you will marry?
December 15, 2009 3:25am CST
these days ,my family ask me to have a blind date,so funny ,i even don't know what is the person i exacly want to have . i think ,yes,different choies make different ending ,that is right .what the choies we have made ,what is the destiny we are .we were never a kid anymore ,this is an inevitable choies.so i want to ask ,what is the person like you will fall in love or the person who have stay beside you ? just feel free to tell me something ,ok ? thank you for your response.
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• Hong Kong
16 Dec 09
Hi tina256, It is really hard to set rules or regulations or any guidelines for which person that one will marry. It is all about feelings. One day when you meet someone that you love you will feel it. Of course, there are people that only love money and luxury life, they will simply choose a rich person who is willing to spend for them. Some may choose people who are true, honest, kind-hearted, helpful, and nice; some may love people who are professional and eager to learn; some choose men who know how to cook and take care of housework ,as they do not want to do it; some like choosing people who are romantics and like sending gifts; some wanted men who is knowledgable and often teach them things; some love men who are much older than them, as they feel secure and very beloved. It all depends on your character, family background, educational background and sometimes culture. Age is also an important factor, the younger your age, the more requests you will have set. When years gone by, you will learn that everything is just a dream, then you know what you should have and ask for. Wishing you can find a satisfactory partner to hold your hand. Have a nice day! agonyaunt69 (4:18pm 16 Dec 2009, Hong Kong time)
16 Dec 09
thank you very much for your response . i am thinking about what i reply to you will be more better .yes ,it depends people's character . i think i will pursuit the people who get my feeling .yes ,everybody have a goal of future companion ,just like what they want in their heart . i have thought that it is wrong for me to started this discussion,cos it seems so borning.but now ,i find it is lucky for me to receive your response,cos i learn more about my life ,more about marriage,and how to choose the man i want . have a nice day.
• United States
15 Dec 09
Hi, tina256. The person will have to be faithful to me and to our marriage. They would also need to be faithful and loyal to their children as well. I don't want a man that drinks or smokes. Both of these are bad for ones health, body and mind. They would have to be respectful to me. They can't be jealous. They would have to be sincere, passionate, considerate, compassionate, understanding and sweet. I love a man that has a pleasant attitude. I don't want him to be wishy washy either. I also want a man that is not lazy, he enjoys getting his hands dirty. I would rather he not take risks with his life.
15 Dec 09
Hi tina256! I would marry the person who will love me for who I am. The person should be willing to accept my weakness and to be able to understand our differences. He should be the reason I'll smile everyday. I won't set standards or ideals, but basically every woman hopes to love and to be loved back. Right now, I already found him. We plan to get married next year. I hope to have a happy marriage. Happy mylotting!
• United States
20 Dec 09
The type of person I am going to marry I am unsure because I am unsure if I am going to marry. There was a time when I thought I was, but now it is changing and maybe it will happen. Despite. I am unsure, I am in love but it isn't perfect love. I still have hate. And hate is a perfect respect for life. But also so is love. And with this love I learn to love life. And with this love I marry. But also, the radicalness about it is that I am not married because I am not married yet. But perhaps I will be. Now I am decorating my house because it looks nice. I think it is natural to not know who you want to have. Sometimes life chooses for you.