My pending friends request
By Fulltank
@Fulltank (2882)
Philippines
December 15, 2009 5:22pm CST
When I was still started here in myLot three months ago, I wanted to have as many friends as possible. And one thing I did is to send as many request as possible to as many myLotters I come across with. A while ago, I had check "my pending friends request" and found out that there are members who did not accepted yet my request. There are more than 20 of them and I'm wondering why? I have deleted the request just to clean-up my dashboard. Most of them are newbies and I think they are not interested in any of myLot discussion anymore.
Have you recently check your's too. What did you find? Are these people really interested in myLot or just register and never come back here again?
4 people like this
15 responses
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
17 Dec 09
When I had read you discussion I decided to check my pending friendships. It is not something that I do very often, and few of them were very old, so I might as well delete them. All of those friend requests I sent to people with few posts, and I am pretty sure that most of them have left MyLot by now, because I have never seen them participate in the discussions. I think it happens on many sites that some people register, write a few posts and then forget about the site. Some people sign up at a lot of different sites and after a while they lose interest in some of the sites or they realize that they don't have enough time to be active on every site that they belong to.
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@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
15 Dec 09
You must, its one way to show your enthusiasms here in myLot. More friends means more sociable, more sociable leads to more discussions, more discussion leads to more responses and more responses leads to more earnings. Therefore, it would be better to send request to other members.
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Jan 10
I only have four and they are all friends from other websites that I hope will come back.
@celebratelifeh (1142)
• China
16 Dec 09
i have some on my friend list already and still have 12 friend request on the list but i seldom discussed with those friends on the friend list and i even can't see any benifits to be friends on mylot sometimes. since i'm not active on mylot always and they also.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
16 Dec 09
Hi Fulltank, I only make friendship requests to those I see around a lot who I know I'll get on with so they are generally accepted right away. I prefer to request than receive and cannot understand why people send them to people they have not interacted with.
@froggieslover (3069)
• United States
16 Dec 09
Maybe they just don't want to be your friend fulltank but can't find it tin themselves to deny you Hehehehe...I am just kidding, there can be numerous reasons why they haven't accepted or deleted you yet. Maybe they haven't been in since you sent the request or they may not know how to accept the request or they might just not be able to make up their minds as too which they want to accept the request or not. I would just not worry about them if they haven't accepted after all this time they probably never will.
@checkmail (2039)
• India
16 Dec 09
Hello Fulltank this is checkmail and me too sometimes sne dan friendship request and its pending but not for long, only a day or two.Yeah mine friendhip request is accepted by mine mylot friends as well as am accepting all the friendship request of other mylot members.Nothing is pending in mine friends section.I even like to send messages and rec messages among us.Me too think of getting as much as friends possible here at myLot.Neer encountered such an pro of pending friendship request.Anyways Happy mylotting.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
16 Dec 09
hi,Fulltank,it's really bad,this is happen because of lack of seriousness in them and i hope moct them might have stop their participation in mylot.
I don't have any pending friend requests as it is because i never send a friends requests to anybody ,but what ever i got friends requests from others i accept within seconds and follow them regualrly with them in discussions...
Now i had 118 friends,i hoe within them 50% inactive....
So we have be care while sending friend request or accepting friend request.
Have a nice time.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
16 Dec 09
Hi Fulltank,In my part,i have also 2 pending friend request,it lasted for almost 3 months.I had erased that just last week. Maybe they were not interested here in mylot.Any way,i always accept all friend request and hoping for their response in my posted topic for dicussions .Thanks,God Bless!
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
16 Dec 09
I have placed friend request for so mylotters initially but recently i have seen that 12 members havent accepted it.I think they do not visit this anymore and cancelled those requests after visiting their profiles and checkes their last login dates.most of mylotters join this in order to make some money in their summers so once their colleges begin they dont return here and some might have busy with their office work or so.gud day.
@sahilpadhiyar20 (532)
• India
16 Dec 09
I Think they Don't Have Time or leaved Mylot forever so Don't worry make new Friends.They will never end.
Accept me and Make me as your Friend in Friendship Request.
@key2write (493)
• India
16 Dec 09
I am sorry that your friend request was pending for certain days. It may be happened because they are not active at all. But don't take it seriously, there are lots of people here who want to make friends. Those who didn't respond are big looser, and don't think you are loosing something. So what next, are you planning to make new friends. I think you are a nice person at all. Good day.
@lipstick2009 (1236)
• Philippines
16 Dec 09
Well im here..u can send me an invite, i'm new and i just made my account a few minutes ago .Right now i'm trying to get familiarized with this site and i'm not even sure if i'm doin the right thing haha.Well i understand i get paid in interacting.
Well who knows, while i get paid doing so,i might meet some real friends around
here.Who knows..life is full of great expectations.
See u around Fulltank, plz add me to your list if u dont mind as i don't know yet
how to do it duhhh...
Nice to be here..
Have a good day and night..
@MJay101 (710)
•
15 Dec 09
I have to confess that I reject a lot of friend requests. If someone's added me after an interesting discussion in which we've both participated, then that's cool. But if someone's added me for no apparent reason, and they don't have many posts, or a visible profile, then I suspect spam - and so reject the request.
Is that wrong?
