Will you worry about your cyber friend(s)?

Hong Kong
December 16, 2009 3:19am CST
Will you worry about your cyber friend when he/she suddenly disappear for some days from any of the games or chat areas that he/she was there daily. I miss my friend and am worry about him. He has not shown up as usual in the facebook, games and myLot for a few days. I met him almost daily before. I wrote several messages to him but received no reply. The only thing that I can do is to pray. He is always in my prayers, wishing him good health and live happily. I do not want any bad thing(s) happen to him or any of my friends in both the real world and cyber world. I do wish them well. I have a facebook friend, who is seventy, having serious sickness for a month. He had been to the hospital three times and almost being so danger for a time. I felt so sad and was worry so much. I pray for him. He is now coming out and have to be in the hospital for blood after 3 weeks. He is so weak. I am so sad. Life is short. We have to live happily. Do not hate anyone but just love. Best wishes, agonyaunt69 (5:17pm 16 Dec 2009, Hong Kong time)
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9 responses
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
16 Dec 09
Hi agony! Hope you have mentioned about two different friends. One who is missing and other one who is unwell and is on Facebook. Please do not worry too much about your cyber friend, he might have been busy somewhere and could not contact you for reasons beyond his control. If you have his contact number (telephone number) you may call him or else you need to wait for his reply, as you have already done your part (I mean sent messages for him). I do worry about my dear cyber friends a lot. If any of my friends here goes missing without any intimation, I leave no stone unturned to get a report him/her, I try each and every channel of communication available with me, be it PM/Mail/SMS/Phone call. Once I also disappeared from mylot for a more than a fortnight or so as some renovation was going on in my house and my computer was not working, my cyber friends also got worried and one of them sent me a text message to know about my whereabout, I replied him with the request that he may tell others about my absence.
agonyaunt69
@agonyaunt69 (343)
• Hong Kong
16 Dec 09
Hi dpk262006, Thank you. I do not have his number. What I can do is sending him messages in every cyber platform that he used and praying for him. I wish he is well. I miss him so much and am worry about him. Best wishes, agonyaunt69 (1:15am 17 Dec 2009, Hong Kong time)
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
17 Dec 09
Please do not worry so much, hopefully he would be fine and may contact you on the first available opportunity.
nelsonzhang
@nelsonzhang (39)
• China
17 Dec 09
hi,friend,sincerely hope you and ur cyber friends will be very well.obviously you care him too much,that's why you would miss and worry about him.and i would miss my some of cyber friends too if we didn't chat for a long time.i share a lot with my cyber friends.basically the shared things i won't let my real friends know.it might be one of the biggest magnetism of the internet.
agonyaunt69
@agonyaunt69 (343)
• Hong Kong
19 Dec 09
Hi nelsonzhang, Thank you for your comment. I am fine. Thank you. I wish my friend is well. I still haven't yet got any news from him. I am so worry about him. I can do nothing but pray. Best wishes, agonyaunt69 (1:21am 20 Dec 2009, Hong Kong time)
checkmail
@checkmail (2039)
• India
17 Dec 09
Hello agonyaunt69 this is checkmail and me too sometimes worry too much about mine online friends, most of them are in mylot, other forums, etc sites.Yeah it feels weird when an online friend is not online for some time, without contact.Recently an friend of mine got some busy with the work, and without informing me.That time got worried a little bit as was not online for nearly 2 weeks or so.Sen many emails and chat messages to the friend.Now only responded that nothing to worry, just some work.Me too always inform all mine online friends before going on some break.We do all care for ourself and our friends.Happy Mylotting.
agonyaunt69
@agonyaunt69 (343)
• Hong Kong
17 Dec 09
Hi checkmail, Thank you for your response. I do the same as you, as I do not want my online friends to worry about me. However, some people are not getting use to do that. They suddenly disappear without saying anything. That makes me so worry. I do hope that he is well. What I can do is pray. Best wishes, agonyaunt69 (9:40pm 17 Dec 2009, Hong Kong time)
sahilpadhiyar20
@sahilpadhiyar20 (532)
• India
17 Dec 09
Well a Friend is a Friend whosoever he\she Is! It Doesn't matter.If you are a good friend and have a Guts to do anything for Friendship you will naturally Care.But If you're a Greedy who makes Friends for his need then you will never get or have a good caring friend. Thats The Truth Cyber Truth..!!
agonyaunt69
@agonyaunt69 (343)
• Hong Kong
17 Dec 09
Hi sahilpadhiyar20, You are right. A friend is a friend, no matter it is online or in the real world. However, not every one thinks it the same way. They thought that the advantage of making online friends is having lesser responsibilities. They have freedom to chat with you or hide away. They said they can contribute in different way or at different extend when having an online friend. I, myself, do not know how to do it. If I decided to make friend with someone, that means I have thought about it thoroughly. As a result, I do not care if it is online or in the real world, I treat them the same way. I love, trust, respect and care for my friends. I do hope that my friend is well. I pray for him and wishing him good health and lives happily. Best wishes, agonyaunt69 (9:48pm 17 Dec 2009, Hong Kong time)
umabharti
@umabharti (3972)
• India
17 Dec 09
Yes i do worry if the daily chat areas are empty without the daily friends whom i chat with.,The worry and the caring nature of us can bring back the person definetly after some time if the person is also having the same concern.The friendly caring nature which we hav that can work out as magic in curing the far away person.it is like telepathy.if we really have a pure desire.then god will never put it down.only love is the great thing which we possess on earth.friendship and caring about others are valuable than worldly things.
agonyaunt69
@agonyaunt69 (343)
• Hong Kong
17 Dec 09
Hi umabharti, Thank you for your response. I have the same thought as you. You are right. Love is the greatest thing on earth. I do hope that he can feel it. I pray for him and hope that he is well. Best wishes, agonyaunt69 (9:42pm 17 Dec 2009, Hong Kong time)
xJaiiDK
@xJaiiDK (163)
• Philippines
17 Dec 09
If I do have cyber friends, I will sure worry about them. By just tagging them as my "friends", that is enough for me to worry about them when they dont appear or dont get by.
agonyaunt69
@agonyaunt69 (343)
• Hong Kong
17 Dec 09
Hi xJaiiDK, Thank you for your response. I have the same thought as you. I love and care for my friends, no matter it is online or in the real world. Best wishes, agonyaunt69 (9:52pm 17 Dec 2009, Hong Kong time)
mimpi
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
16 Dec 09
I just hope you friend is good and writes back to you soon. My prayers for him. It does make me think and worry about my friends. I have been fortunate to have net some wonderful people on internet whom I haven't met face to face and guess what it makes me more anxious if I do not get to see them for a few days. We can always make a call or talk to the family and know about the scenario. On the other hand on the internet we can only send mails and leave messages and after that we are caught. I remember, the last time when my good friend here could not log in for a week I was very worried about her health and got upset. She did contact after a week to my relief. And guess what, her computer was not working!
agonyaunt69
@agonyaunt69 (343)
• Hong Kong
16 Dec 09
Hi mimpi1911, Thank you for praying for my friend. I hope he is well, too. I also wrote him a message today and in the message I did said "I hope that you have not come here because you are too busy with your work or your computer is down." I wrote him 2 messages every day. I miss him so much and am worry about him. He loves computer and playing games in the internet. He likes earning money in the myLot, too. He was the one who invited me here. However, he has not been here for some days. The only thing I can do is pray. Best wishes to all of us, agonyaunt69 (1:10am 17 Dec 2009, Hong Kong time)
sunnycool
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
16 Dec 09
I hope your online is fine and would return back with reply that he was a little busy with his work or has gone on a business trip.so dont worry friend and he would return to you hale and healthy and play games with you as he used to.I personally dont have many friends online other than those i made a few in here and other site and i feel like boring when they doesnt appear but they would come up with excuses.gud day.
agonyaunt69
@agonyaunt69 (343)
• Hong Kong
16 Dec 09
Hi sunnnycool, Thank you. I do hope that he is well and will come back soon. He is always in my prayer, wishing him good health and lives happily. Best wishes, agonyaunt69 (1:22am 17 Dec 2009, Hong Kong time)
madteaparty
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
17 Dec 09
Cyber friends are friends too after all. Even if we only contact through the computer I care about them too, as we also share things and have a relationship. If one of my cyber friends dissapeared, I would be really worried.