what do you do if your girlfriend having an affair with your friend?

Indonesia
December 17, 2009 12:26am CST
someone we love her with all of my life but when we want to take road or dinner she deny you and reasonable pain and we cancel that but when we passes close to home we saw him go with people we know are our friends.how dissapointed us and make I was crushed and hurt when I saw them making out I want to be angry but I was very sad and frustrated and tommorow I call them both and asked him,they finally admitted and I was sad and left them both.yeah thats love endless misery..what you all guys doing when that happen to you?
6 responses
• India
17 Dec 09
Hello Friend I am very calm and cool by nature , i have patience to forgive every one for their gulity/ cheat. If my spouse trying to cheat me or he falls in love with any one else I set him free to go,for the sake of his happiness but if he had affair with my close friend, this is not tolerated by me for a sec,possible i should kill them.
• India
17 Dec 09
Friend ! No one have guts to bear the pain giving by their love onces whom we trust a lot.
• Pakistan
17 Dec 09
Do not cause hurt of hearts of others. Dispel the disease in your heart. Which desires to hurt. Great benefit will come to you and bring "Peace" in to your life. Dear you should reconcile your and yours friend's life with your Girl friend's life. There may be some things what she require from you. But you will not be able to give her. And your friend fulfill her needs. That's why she go closer to him.
• China
17 Dec 09
Maybe it is the best to leave her.Since she go out with your friend,it means she didn't love you any more.It's heartbreaking but truth.Look around ,you will definitely find the right girl.
@PFS0003 (10)
• Indonesia
17 Dec 09
maybe i leave her and i dont want nsay anythingjust make a letter and say to hi what happen and what i feel,i very sad and say godbye to her and with my friend i hope they happy ,maybe thats i cn say to him because we can do anything else again the girl isn mine,so we must patient and forget about her we can search other girl and we hope we didnt happen again
@PFS0004 (10)
• Indonesia
17 Dec 09
we cant angry and ask someone about his secretwithou a prove soi thinkwe must make a trap just like a photo or just like a video and when we see recorder that they can be run about that affair,maybe hurt for us to know that but we must release that and forget about that and think we can looking for other women we can choose more better and beutiful
• Indonesia
21 Dec 09
i justsay,i leave her and never say godbye,i never forgive him,our heart crush and broken,maybe i frustated when i happen that,if you have happen that,you must strong,we can give up,we can looking for other girl
• India
17 Dec 09
i will call my girl friend and ask about the truth if she agrres that she herself is in love with my friend then i will ask to choose from both of us. if she will regret wht she had done i will accept her or otherwise i will ask her to break it with me and tell her to b happy with she love for rest of her life