Why friends had already a boy friend or girl friend they forget you?

Philippines
December 19, 2009 6:24pm CST
Its just so sad that if your closest friend had already their gf/bf the things you do before will not be the same if they had their relationship? Its so sad that they sacrifies their friendship because of that, even they don't even say it..it shows because instead the time you will give to your friends will be the time they would see each other (bf/gf)..sad thing :( are you that Kind of friend?
5 responses
@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
that's always happened to us people,.if u put your self into her shoes you would probably do the same, as a friend you have to understand whenever things like this happen, she don't mean to left you behind it's just that her bf is more important or she enjoy being with his guy.but still frienship is there. This is sometimes happened to me, im just being positive to avoid misunderstanding.:)
• Philippines
31 Dec 09
actually im in the situation right now..but I did not do the same as the other closest friend does... i think thats the problem "her bf is more important" that means BF or Gf is more important than FRIENDSHIP....:(
@weasel81 (2501)
• Australia
20 Dec 09
i got dumped by my best mate did that to me when i was i high school. i was the bozo who introduced them, she forgot about all of us school for him. yes their married with 3 kids, and have been for nearly 10 yrs. i only became good enough to talk to when i was preg with my son. then she hit below the belt a few yrs later, about my parenting and that was the last straw, i don't talk to her now unless i have to be polite.
• Philippines
31 Dec 09
hhmmp... its nice that even you have the anger,,you manage to be polite... :)
• United States
20 Dec 09
I had a friend that was exactly like that except now we aren't friends anymore. She did it with one of her ex's and it really hurt our friendship because at first I tolerated it but once you've been with someone awhile you should be able to loosen up. And now with her boyfriend now she started doing it again except it wasn't her just doing it. Her boyfriend was calling her during our girls night and saying that he needed to be hanging with her instead of her hanging out with me and kept calling until she agreed. A first months of that we got into an argument surrounding the issue and then bam friendship over and I don't think I'm going back to it.
• Philippines
31 Dec 09
We, people need to know the value of friendship...
@ralphido (843)
• India
31 Dec 09
yes.. i am..to the core.. friends will be always there .. even if you ditch them for some lovely one..they will be sad, even heartbroken, but there is always time to catch up to them later...
• Philippines
31 Dec 09
yeah i also have friends who forget me because they are busy with their bf/ gf. i have a friend who always send a text messages but now, she is not texting me anymore because she is busy with her boyfriend. we always hangout but now we don't.