is it real love?

China
December 20, 2009 9:22am CST
if a man give u money(500) after four times meeting only in one month,but later never see u almost two months,do u think the man love u? i like this man,but i'm confused about why long time no see.
2 responses
• China
21 Dec 09
Hello, Yalanda, that depends. And I think you are the one know it best. Money are not stand love, anyway, why not try to call him to find it out? He might be just being busy, or might some other misunderstanding that prevent him of contacting with you again. Don't guess, try to find it out.
• China
21 Dec 09
i want to find it out,but i have no chance to meet him,i call him a lot of times and i want to go to his office,by the way,i don't know where exactly does he live,and although i have never been to his company,but i think i can find it.i don't want to bring any trubles to him,if i went to his company to meet him,maybe he'll be very angry and won't see me again.so i don't know how fix it.maybe now i have no job and no money is the main reason.he will be afraid i will ask money from him,but i have never done it and i promise i won't do it even i have no money to buy food.
• China
25 Dec 09
Hello, Yalanda, never come to his work place to find him without his invitation. If you can reach him by phone, I guess you should know if he love you or not. Did he call you often whenever he has time? Did he cares you, and ask something about your daily life? Did he ask for another date? My best wishes to you!
@calai618 (1781)
• Philippines
20 Dec 09
it's really hard to evaluate love when money is involved. we have to dig deeper. look into more important things. try evaluating his love through the other things he has done to you and for you. his sacrifice, etc. Money can be easily given, love is hard to show...
• China
21 Dec 09
only my parents gave me money before,they give me money because they love me.so maybe i made a mistake about him,in my mind he always said he was very busy and has no time to see me.if i call him,he was very busy and can't answer me,he will send a message immediately or call me back as soon as he can.does it mean he worried about me?except this,he has never said any loved words to me.i'm not sure he loves me or not,and i have to keep meeting him again or not?